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junecleaver -> RE: Learning to love pain? (4/17/2007 11:55:53 AM)

I have never been sure if 'masochist' was something that really described me.  When I fantisized about kinky stuff, pain seemed really erotic.  I could masturbate to thoughts of being beaten, but my first few experiences with pain had me convinced I was not and never could be a masochist.   When I met my Dominant and we discussed kinky play type things, I was upfront and told him, 'Sorry, I don't have a masochistic bone in my body.'  But soon, he proved me wrong.  The first time we scened we did some impact play that I figured would bring tears to my eyes, instead I went flying.  He hugged and kissed me and told me he was going to turn me into a painslut.  Not quite there yet. ;)



Casie -> RE: Learning to love pain? (4/17/2007 12:06:22 PM)

I think this whole area is fairly vague. Someone who doesn't initially like pain can grow to love it, if they have positive experinces and can be aroused by pain. Others only aroused by pain because they know they are pleasing their master. And some will  never grow to enjoy it. I am a masochist. I crave pain. In lots of contexts. It isn't the pain it's self I get off on. It's completely mental it is a release of sorts.For example if I've had a really stressful day or I'm really uspset about something, a little bit of pain seems to release all the build  up so to speak.That particular pain doesn't have to be inflicted by another person it can be self inflicted. I also enjoy pain because of the rush that it brings But I also get arosal knowing I am pleasing my master.  I think it is more of a personal experince, no exact awnser.



Poppygirl -> RE: Learning to love pain? (4/17/2007 12:09:53 PM)

i seem to crave pain more than i can actually tolerate it. I fear the level of pain that excites me. so far though its been all thought and no action. i think you have to build up to it. and its like the Opera. you can learn to appreciate it, but you will either love it or not.  



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