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Profile Pending Approval - 4/14/2007 8:39:50 AM

seekshertrue1

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I am just wanting to vent about a nasty email I received from a submissive I was trying to make conversation with. He initiated it. I was responding to him initial email. When I went to check out his profile it said Profile Pending Approval soooooo I proceded to ask a couple of general questions. I was shocked at the nasty little response I got. He told me that everything about his experience was in his profile and his journal entries. I was called a "goddamn fantasist time wasting cretin". Yes, those are his exact words. How am I supposed to see something that's there but isn't because his profile was still pending approval. I tried to email him back to let him know that his profile is pending approval and I was blocked. Who knows.

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RE: Profile Pending Approval - 4/14/2007 8:41:25 AM

TheHeretic

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I'd say you learned all you really need to know about him already.

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RE: Profile Pending Approval - 4/14/2007 8:42:32 AM

slcsub

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It seems like this is the type of person you wouldn't want to associate with in the first place. Perhap the faux pas was a godsend in disguise?

I'm sorry you had such a distasteful experience. Hopefully your next one will be better.

Respectfully,
- don

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RE: Profile Pending Approval - 4/14/2007 8:44:51 AM

TxBlkMistress

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I would go and give the folks at Collarme a big kiss on the lips....they saved you from a major loser....lol

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RE: Profile Pending Approval - 4/14/2007 8:46:55 AM

Elorin

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I generally send a "your profile says pending approval" before asking questions, but it sounds like it's a good thing you didn't! I love the ones who message me and when they don't like my response, send nasty ugliness and then block me. It makes it SO much easier to just click "block" and never worry about them again.

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RE: Profile Pending Approval - 4/14/2007 8:52:38 AM

Tantriqu

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Two comments:
1. he was no sub: just a wanna-be, or just wanting to live out a fantasy for an hour. A good sub would have said, 'Thank You for Your response, I'm happy to answer all Your questions.' So think of it as a quick way to find out he was a loser bully interested only in his own fantasy, a little pot calling a Kettle black.
2. Maybe you are leaning more towards being a switch? I would think a confident, experienced Domme would not let something like this bother Her. Vent, surely, but laugh at him and all those like him, and out him as the coward he is.
Oooh, and he left out a hyphen, so mock him as an illiterate.

Good luck.

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RE: Profile Pending Approval - 4/14/2007 9:08:33 AM

Nikolette

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Hmm... I probably wouldn't assume someone was a switch just because they A- perhaps aren't confident or experienced (although I don't draw those conclusions from the OP anyway) and B- are irritated/venting because someone is being psychotic.

But that's just me.

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