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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/11/2007 9:48:32 PM

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Trolls heart is in the right place. However, I agree with those who say we are all just people. I give a nod to courtesy and treat people in the scene with a reasonable amount of respect. As for Doms dating Dommes or vice versa. We are people and while I would never EXPECT a Domme to find me hot even if she made me drool, if I found her following me around or sneaking peaks, I would very likely throw her over my shoulder and drag her off. I think that it hapens the reverse quite often as well. A number of pro-dommes I know see a LOT of male doms who can't risk "submitting" in public and so they pay to do so in private.

Sometimes we really ARE perverts...

This girl can't even imagine a Dom or Domme submitting to another so why would a Master think a Mistress would do so?

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/11/2007 10:57:44 PM

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There was a thread a bit back- a week ago?- from a male slave "acknowledging the superiority [of women]". Outside of one (particularly annoying) Domme, everyone disregarded the whelp. This was to my pleasant surprise.

I've come to value the mutual respect here. It's.. difficult to maintain at times. Dominance is rather strong in me, and I must restrain myself more often than not. Other Dom(me)/Master/Mistress's I've spoken to have conducted themselves well, including in speech, to be certain to regard me with respect and decency. While even little things, like "Have a good day" can inspire a wrathful movement in me, others here have avoided even such a minor offense. I sense posturing from few yet sincerity from most.

While I'm rather certain many of us are making more than a slight effort to maintain this sort of integrity, it is more than civil- it is amiable, a display of one of the more inviting aspects of human nature.

In this regard, there is an honor here.

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/12/2007 4:06:34 AM

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ORIGINAL: minnetar

This girl can't even imagine a Dom or Domme submitting to another so why would a Master think a Mistress would do so?

Because they like it?

A Master/Mistress or a Dom/Domme can still enjoy bottoming some times. I have a buddy on these boards who is a dominant biker bad boy all the time but seriously craves and enjoys being a bottom a lot.

Being dominant is what you are. Bottoming is a physical action.

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/12/2007 7:32:12 AM

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I skimmed over the thread so this isn't in reply to anyone.

The dominant ladies of the board receive a great deal of mail & yes we receive mail from the male dominants.

The derogatory comments have been discussed. These where the sender has made it clear that he doesn't respect or recognize her position.. her dominant role & he emphasizes his desire to top her, to dominante her... for her own good &/or because she hasn't met the right master yet.

What hasn't really been touched upon is even when many of these dominant men aren't beating their chests & write to us "only to pay a compliment" they do so in a way that also decredits & denounces our role our dominance.

Just today I have received multiple emails from "gentlemen" who say things like... it's a shame you are a dominant.

It is?

Or I get comments like this... you're a pretty girl

These comments, though I believe they truly intended their words to to be complimentary... to me they reveal that on some level they view me as inferior. That my staition in life as a woman & as a dominant lacks my being addressed in the same manner that their gender & dominance grants them.

I'm not really troubled by this... I blow it off or I do what I did today. I replied to the pretty girl comment & said:

thanks boy
(see my point?)

now I am just waiting for the "sour grapes" come back....

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/12/2007 7:44:09 AM

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For me it's usually "shame you are too far" and less so now, but often got "shame you are so young" and even "shame I am too old"!!

It's all a ploy to get your attention and respond.

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/12/2007 7:57:21 AM

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I agree... its an attempt to gain attention

most often I ignore these emails but sometimes I am compelled to shoot off a witty remark

Do you think he was expecting me to call him boy? That is where the humor of it all comes into play. Ya just gotta laugh at this stuff & ever so often... let them know you are laughing!

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/12/2007 10:05:40 AM

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Sometimes brevity leaves out a lot for the sake of one point.

Brevity was not the issue, I completely understood what you were saying. We just happen to be on about polar opposites on this subject. Vive le difference!

Namaste, Sir Dominic

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/12/2007 10:38:42 AM

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Perhaps, and if I didn't think we'd be totally hijacking the thread I'd happily debate it. Might be right interesting. Instead I'll just quote someone I admire.

If everyone is thinking alike, then somebody isn't thinking. - George S Patton

Keep thinking

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/13/2007 10:31:00 AM

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Padraig,
Quite agree, it would be interesting to discuss this further with you. Someday perhaps.....
Namaste, Dominic

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/13/2007 10:46:36 AM

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ORIGINAL: minnetar

This girl can't even imagine a Dom or Domme submitting to another so why would a Master think a Mistress would do so?

minnetar

The Dom lay prone on the floor before the feet of the submissive. His hands were gently folded over each other and his face gently rested on them. His ankles were crossed and she looked down at how humble yet submissively he lay before her. He lay quiet and still and would not dare move, squirm or twitch. He was prepared to vault himself into subspace as she dominated that scene. She felt empowered, valuable and worthy to have the powerful Dom at her feet. The man that has always been a pillar of strength and control in her life lay prone, submissive, and unmoving at her feet. For a moment she felt powerful and superior and he gingerly turned his head to her and whispered, “What the fuk is wrong with you? You going to rub my back or not?”

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/13/2007 11:04:53 AM

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ORIGINAL: Twicehappy2x

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ORIGINAL: minnetar

This girl can't even imagine a Dom or Domme submitting to another so why would a Master think a Mistress would do so?

Because they like it?

A Master/Mistress or a Dom/Domme can still enjoy bottoming some times. I have a buddy on these boards who is a dominant biker bad boy all the time but seriously craves and enjoys being a bottom a lot.

Being dominant is what you are. Bottoming is a physical action.

I know of many Dom/Domme relationships, mine included. I would never submit to my partner and he would certainly not submit to me but we do have some wonderful power exchange sessions and Im talking ‘fight’. Lets not presume that if a Dom is with a Domme, that one of them is submissive within the relationship!
What we do as a dominant couple is have our own and shared subs.
I will also add to that, that I get a lot of dom guys come on to me and not because they want to submit behind closed doors but because they love the whole dynamics of ‘power exchange’

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RE: Honor among D’s - 4/13/2007 11:39:33 AM

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After tethering her sub to the bed she proceeded to subtly inflict her pain on the helpless female.
The man is sat in the corner of the room watching, intent on the scene that is unfolding in front of him. For a moment he leans forward, for he had a suggestion to make. But the words ring sour in this woman’s ear, for at this moment in time she is fully in charge. Fired up at the mans intrusion, she leans across the bed, flicks back her hair, narrows her eyes and sticks a middle finger up at him.
His jaw tightens and a little twitch flicks across his left cheek. In an instant he is up, crossing the room and grabbing this fired up woman by the hair.
The sub looks at them both and tries to struggle against her restraints but has no choice but to lay hopelessly and watch.
The woman is not going to give up without a fight. This is her sub, her play thing, how dare he, HOW DARE HE! but he is stronger, fiercer and is prepared to use primal force if he has to. He will teach her a lesson!

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