RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (Full Version)

All Forums >> [Casual Banter] >> Off the Grid



Message


meatcleaver -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 1:24:31 AM)

I haven't really got an answer for you because I like bars and my home is surrounded by them and it is just so nice to sit and overlook the canals and discuss art and literature over a drink. Surprisingly one of the most fruitful evenings I had for meeting women was at a Kronos Kwartet concert at the Royal Festival Hall in London. I was hit on three times!!!! The last woman I spent the rest of the evening after the concert having a drink and a little more than a drink for a few months after. I now have pre-booked Kronos Kwartet concerts up to 2050 or until the members expire, whichever comes first. They seem to attract a particular type of woman, good looking, intelligent, humerous and hot!




NorthernGent -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 1:47:27 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: iwannapullurhair

If you aren't in the bar scene, where the hell do you go to meet someone?



A local politics society, a local history society, go night school, chess club, any sports clubs, munches, community groups involved in anything from learning new skills to organising holidays. Anything really that takes your fancy - you must have an interest and there must be a club where you can pursue your interests with like minded people.

My number one piece of advice is to get yourself down the pub for wine, women and song. Catch it early though before the women get boozed right up to the eyeballs - beer in, sense out etc.




FangsNfeet -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 7:12:23 AM)

Belive it or not, I've knew people who hooked up after meeting at Wal Mart or a local grocery store.

So you're weekends are free? If the other ideas are not working for you, I suggest seeking out camping events with the SCA and or other medeval organizations. Pirate organizations may be fun as well. I've been told by numerous people that if you can't get laid in the SCA, then you can't get laid at all.




Termyn8or -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 7:18:39 AM)

Well, I must admit I have different problems, but with some similarity.

I want to meet someone and even though I do like to drink, I don't really like bars. First of all I am looking for a kinkstress, not a vanilla. This makes the bars useless. For the last several years I've had this crowd that usually comes over on Friday and/or Saturday nights.Kinda nice. My tunes instead of a jukebox. And we can smoke. Drinks also do not cost four times as much as they do in a store, and anyone gets too drunk to drive can sleep on the couch, floor, keyboard, TV or the kitchen sink. (oh yeah, also we can fit one in the bathtub).

I used to be good at pol but now I stink at it. Between all the disadvantages of bars, not the least of which is if you get pulled over on the way home, bars are not a big thing for me. While I can meet Women through my friends, only a few are kinky. In fact I missed out on one last year because I couldn't get her phone number fast enough. A buddy of mine wound up with her and he is not kinky, what a shame. Actually I really do like her and we have talked since then. We could've really hooked up. I hope she's happy though, I really mean that. And there is hope, because I know her olman is totally nuts. I don't mean crazy, but I'm sure he'll try new things to say the least.

So, sort of as another suggested, the grocery store, actually anywhere is the place to meet people in general. And it doesn't have to be Friday.

What's more there are quite a few people who do not work banker's hours. Alot of people work Saturday as well, so Saturday is their Friday.

I have had week over here at what we now refer to as Termy's Terminal when I had people over every day of the week EXCEPT Friday. When that happens I enjoy the rest.

When I go out I much rather visiting people, going to others' parties etc. Some people have houses bigger than some bars, but that's not even required. Last year's Christmas party was one of the best times I've had in a long time, and there were eight people there.

And let me say this, OP, unequivocably ! If YOU do not want to go to church, DO NOT get a Woman at church. I cannot stress this enough. If you want to take ride on the path of finding a mate and then introducing kink, more power to you ! BUT, get one at a place YOU want to be. Unnastan ?

Friday night, well the cops didn't come, the most noteworthy thing happened was I looked away from the desk and played the guitar, when I glanced back I said "How come there's beer oozing out from under my keyboard ?". Dude said "Cause I spilled my beer". I said "Don't you have the brains to pick the keyboard up outta the beer ?". See I didn't say a word about wiping it up, just don't short out the keyboard ! The beer ? well we'll grind that off the next day.

Saturday night is going to be cool. I'm actually venturing out there in the blizzard of APRIL 2007 to get this keyboard, not the PC kind. I am not driving, gonna take my buddy's van because it is a serious snowstorm out there. But we gotta get this.

Eighty-eight key electric piano, and I mean the good kind. Weighted keys with tactile feedback, bad to the bone. For $500 I simply cannot pass it up. So I am offa here to go do that.

T




sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 7:25:20 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: farglebargle

Rock and Roll Show.

ditto that reply.  i work the local concert scene here in town and though most are held in bars ( i'm non-alcoholic drinker),  you can usually find naughty nice girls drinking water and/or soda while enjoying the show. 




LaTigresse -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 7:25:35 AM)

Good grief, unless you do what I tend to do most Friday nights (home alone by choice) there are so many great ways to meet people. I have stayed in town after work and gone on gallery walks, jazz fest, all sorts of festivals especially during the summer.

Get involved in your community. Find things that interest you, if your into cars go to carshows and get to know or get involved in a carclub. Music, attend music events. Go to the summer farmers markets and enjoy visiting with people. The local fairs, 4th of July celebrations.......etc etc etc. Summer is great because people are wanting to get outside and enjoy the weather. Strike up conversations with people while your waiting in line at the local DQ for your evening ice cream treat.

Unless you are weird like me and actually enjoy being alone there is no reason to be.




iwannapullurhair -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 2:09:47 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: FreshBread

In Midland, Ohio? Hmmmmm.......Have you tried Denny's?........at closing time...


I can tell you've never been to Midland. I have to drive to reach civilization.




MissyRane -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 2:17:40 PM)

Come on even though you dont drink you can go out clubbing I mean seriously it's not maybe as much fun as when you drink..but hey you don't even drink so yo uwouldn't know and eventually you'll end up like the drunkers believe me been there done that...and then of course hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm you could go and hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm go to social gatherings [:)] such as tigerrrrrrrrrrrr (roar)  pointed out so nicely[;)]

or you can go out (during the week) and actually get to know those few neighbours that are around you and then you can have ..well I don't know...poker night or something? Pokernights are in fashion here now amongst the guys




ExSteelAgain -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 2:27:10 PM)

Ah, the answer is with you everyday. The people you work with, go to school with or play a game with. That is your environment and real. They know you best as you know them. It is the girl sitting right there. Anything else will take time to get to the place where they know you as well and eventually have the same results.




justagirl7 -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 2:31:51 PM)

Greetings all,

Girls -- go to HomeDepot or Lowes, I am sure it's full of MEN!!

Men -- try a hair salon or a tanning bed.....it's full of girls getting ready to meet MEN!!

With utmost respect,
just a girl




kisshou -> RE: Friday night, not into bars-where do you go? (4/7/2007 4:30:53 PM)

The library or the bookstore.




Page: <<   < prev  1 [2]

Valid CSS!




Collarchat.com © 2025
Terms of Service Privacy Policy Spam Policy
0.03125