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Laura -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 10:46:17 AM)

I don't believe in training at all. The sub obeys or does not obey, that is all. The Dom should know what they are doing. If they use toys they need to know how to use them. They need to know their sub, know what turns them on and what takes it too far. The sub should look out for him/ herself and stop things if they go too far. That's not training that's common sense. I don't want to train a sub. It's too much like potty training a kid. Not much fun at all.




BalletBob -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 10:59:15 AM)

It worked for me, between visits with MADAM. And she did teach me a few things, like not be so FUSSY about stuff in my pants and things.

And with Mistress Haley, she told me to do a few things I never got to try before, and we "BOTH" got enjoyment out of it.

It depends on what you make of it, and the time you/Your Mistress/Master has to spend on line. What MADAM use to do, to cut down on the time, was to e-mail me a list of things she wanted me to do, for a certain day, and we both were satisfied.

Good luck, and if you are looking for a Cyber Mistress, forget about it. Most of the peopl here think that CYBER is a four letter word, and avoid it like the plague.

Sincerly on his own, Sub BalletBob 




justinedoll -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 11:16:16 AM)

i found d/s ga,mes on line can be nice start before meeting. but many people are not honest and they like online and after affraid to meet




Calandra -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 11:16:47 AM)

I use online training as a way to prepare for real life exploration. A person may have submissive feelings, but they still have likes, dislikes, fantasies, etc. I will give links to articles that develop their thinking and broaden their minds. Articles about different traditions and philosophies, activities and safety, anything to stir their thinking and help them discover what THEY want and need.

If I've done that, then even if I am not the Domme for them, they are more informed once they do find the one that cranks their gears.




subiugo -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 1:28:32 PM)

Personally i have good experience with the internet training at academyforslaves.com. But it really depends on what you are looking for. i never have seen a computer giving a good spanking to a slave showing his bottom to the screen. So, if to you  'the lifestyle' means a good spanking every day or two, then online training won't work. If you want to turn your head into really serving a Superior Lady, and to get rid of your fetishes, then a training focused on mental aspects of submission can work. If you want to read a more personal account of my training by e-mail experiences, read a recent posting on my weblog Journal of a submissive male (http://male-sub.blogspot.com/2007/04/e-mail-and-e-motions_04.html). Or go directly to the Academy of slaves to read an article Supreme Goddess Lorena considered worth publishing (http://www.academyforslaves.com/slave-training.html)




Griswold -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 4:37:24 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: eengli1

im very interested in this lifestyle and have had a short experience but dont understand how online training can work? it doesnt make sense?


Allow me to assist on this subject.

Lemme think...wait....oh...yeah...online training DOESN'T FUCKING WORK!!!!!!!!!!!!

(Sorry...I digressed for a moment...where were we?)




ownedkitten -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 6:39:08 PM)

I feel that any training, online or otherwise, is worth what the parties involved put into it.




FukinTroll -> RE: online training (4/5/2007 6:58:58 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: ownedkitten

I feel that any training, online or otherwise, is worth what the parties involved put into it.


Ditto.

Or is it dildo since this a kink site?




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