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MadRabbit -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 4:32:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill Real Dom's are like Unicorns. Good thing I'm looking for slave and subs...I'm not a virgin, so I'd never have a chance finding a "Real Dom". LOL Master Fire I think virgins are like unicorns as well

bandit25 -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 4:37:49 AM)
Yeah, that sounds about right. Or real as long as we stay online. Move it to "real life"? Poof

onestandingstill -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 5:45:36 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill Real Dom's are like Unicorns. They indeed are fantasy creatures just like real subs/slaves are.. We all just need to accept what's real to us may not be real to any one else. quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam quote: ORIGINAL: onestandingstill Real Dom's are like Unicorns. Good thing I'm looking for slave and subs...I'm not a virgin, so I'd never have a chance finding a "Real Dom". LOL Master Fire Yes Master Fire, But someone that can be a real sub/slave to you may not be considered a sub slave by all or many. My point was if you think it fits into your reality good for you, if others can't see it as real no matter how hard they look as long as it's real in your heart it does not matter. A Master/Mistress Dom/Domme sub/slave is only real like Tinkerbell is real. It takes others belief in it to make it live. suzanne

mnottertail -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 5:49:31 AM)
I have been using compound W and battery acid to try to remove this horn from the middle of my forhead, anybody got any good tricks? Ron

GrizzlyBear -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 6:11:39 AM)
The farm and ranch store has some nasty stuff for removing horns... these big loppers that look like pruning shears, and some de-horning paste that contains lye, I think. Intended for use on the calves, at branding time, when they also get their testicles removed. Oughta work on a unicorn just fine.

mnottertail -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 6:15:13 AM)
Yeah, I heard about that paste, but I didn't dare go in there to get it, it was right next to them big nut-crushing pliers, and I got big nuts. Ron

pwettyprincess -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 6:37:10 AM)
to me a ''real Dom/me'' means a ''real person'' not just someone who identifys only as a Dom/me.the sort of i am Dom/me hear me roar! someone who will take the time and care to put me first if at times its neccasary...sounds a bit strange coming from a submissive maybe lol but in previous r/ships ive found the ''real Doms'' are the ones who understand before we are anything else we are real people first with real feelings and that even submissives mess up at times,and in my own experience they have by far been the better Dominants. as for those who often call themselves ''real Dom/mes'' ive found more often than not they are the ones who's first message to you is ''KNEEL BITCH'' and i learnt pretty quickly to stay well clear of those!

ELUSIVE1 -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 6:39:33 AM)
For some, their online 'd/s' is there reality...they have 56K of DOMINANCE and a LEATHER MOUSEPAD..they bad...all joking asside, if it makes them happy, they should go for it...I personally am here to meet r/t...as for"REAL" Dominants...or another fav "Natrual Dominant"........pfffft.....I look at the 'reality' behind the monitor...I don't go into a TPE situation with just anyone, and most certainly not with someone that isn't in control of his own life...just MHO

subinhotwater -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 6:50:18 AM)
I am new to this forum and have been lurking for a bit. I just wanted add my two cents about "real" being "real to that person". My favorite quote is from Anais Nin : We don't see things as they are, we see them as we are. There are so many styles and levels of this lifestyle that it's amazing that people are able to make compatible connections. I like what someone said earlier about knowing who you are, what you need and want and then being able to express those desires in a way that is open and honest. That's what makes you real and increases your chances of finding what is real to you.

BeatMeDaily -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 6:53:56 AM)
i would be happy to meet a real Lady who likes to be Domme

HalloweenWhite -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (3/31/2007 8:26:09 AM)
I don't think there's such a thing is a "real Dom" only degrees. It's a matter of personal tastes; what ever most closely fits in with what you want from a Dom is what you class as a "real" dom.

riskrewarded -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/2/2007 4:35:47 PM)
I agree with everything you just said, being true to yourself and real in your realization of your nature. While I think some of the people who tried to sketch out good things to look for have good intentions, I think they are still putting their values and priorities onto what constitutes dominance. If financial acumen and/or physical fitness were the only determinators of worth we might have to discount o few decent people like ghandi or say martin luther king, both of whom lacked riches or buffness. Thanks for all the great feedback!

ADom442 -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/2/2007 5:24:12 PM)
quote: [emphasis added by me] riskrewarded wrote: I'm always suprised to see so many profiles that seek "real doms" or claim that they are the best example of "real dominance". [...] Anyone else have any thoughts? My father the Baptist minister always said that people who were eager to tell you they were Christians scared him because some people had to tell you because you wouldn't know it otherwise. My knee jerk reaction to anyone proclaiming that they're a "REAL DOM" is similar. All of the self-proclaimed "real doms" I've observed have been trying to live up to a stereotype they have of what a dominant person is supposed to be. The problem with that is they are so busy projecting an image that no one can learn who they really are. Wouldn't "real doms" just be themselves instead of trying to live up to an image of what others expect? Charles

DocTSH -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/3/2007 3:59:25 AM)
I have seen so many that claim to be real Doms, however at some point it does come down to this...who is to judge? Ultimately, in a relationship between a Dominant and a submissive, only the submissive can truly judge whether the person they are with fits that role for them. Where I am the Dominant for my little girl, other submissives may feel I could never fullfill their definition from their perspective, and visa versa.....so to a certain degree it depends on the relationship and the growth each party has experienced.

Dnomyar -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/3/2007 5:02:55 AM)
MasterNdorei your list is flawed. What does having a pet have to do with dominance. What if it is a goldfish or a cat. If you have a boss at work how does that affect you being a Dom. What does having an ex have to do with you being a Dom? ect. ect. Some Dom's are very aggressive some at not. So which is the true Dom?

SirDiscipliner69 -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/3/2007 5:07:10 AM)
you can look through the archives of the TEXT version of the Internet which was PRE WWW and see the ramblings of Jon Jacobs on the "true slave" and "true" this and that. Ross ©º°¨¨°º©

MariaB -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/3/2007 8:19:54 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ELUSIVE1 For some, their online 'd/s' is there reality...they have 56K of DOMINANCE and a LEATHER MOUSEPAD..they bad...all joking asside, if it makes them happy, they should go for it...I personally am here to meet r/t...as for"REAL" Dominants...or another fav "Natrual Dominant"........pfffft.....I look at the 'reality' behind the monitor...I don't go into a TPE situation with just anyone, and most certainly not with someone that isn't in control of his own life...just MHO Ditto to that. I would say that so long as your happy with an online Dominant/submissive, then that is real enough for you. For others, me included, we want to meet people in rl Just as I don’t want to meet a real woman that turns out to be a man, I don’t want to meet a real submissive that turns out to be a brat! Just as a submissive wants to meet someone that can control them in a real way, so they don’t want to end up meeting someone who is really just using them for a quick shag. So what is real and what is not? Anyone who is dishonest about themselves is not real Someone who has had rl experiences is still not necessarily real. I have played with plenty of potential subs that just cant go to the depths they told me they could go to. Someone who has had no rl experiences but has the right mindset could well be real.

Stephann -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/3/2007 8:33:05 AM)
Hello. (bows.) I am real. I am dominant. I am not mythical (kindly disregard my lovemaking reviews, they're a tad over inflated.) Don Juan Stephan

ELUSIVE1 -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/3/2007 11:46:46 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MariaB quote: ORIGINAL: ELUSIVE1 For some, their online 'd/s' is there reality...they have 56K of DOMINANCE and a LEATHER MOUSEPAD..they bad...all joking asside, if it makes them happy, they should go for it...I personally am here to meet r/t...as for"REAL" Dominants...or another fav "Natrual Dominant"........pfffft.....I look at the 'reality' behind the monitor...I don't go into a TPE situation with just anyone, and most certainly not with someone that isn't in control of his own life...just MHO Ditto to that. I would say that so long as your happy with an online Dominant/submissive, then that is real enough for you. For others, me included, we want to meet people in rl Just as I don’t want to meet a real woman that turns out to be a man, I don’t want to meet a real submissive that turns out to be a brat! Just as a submissive wants to meet someone that can control them in a real way, so they don’t want to end up meeting someone who is really just using them for a quick shag. So what is real and what is not? Anyone who is dishonest about themselves is not real Someone who has had rl experiences is still not necessarily real. I have played with plenty of potential subs that just cant go to the depths they told me they could go to. Someone who has had no rl experiences but has the right mindset could well be real. MariaB; I said SOME are happy with that--I don't play online games, as stated above, I only experience real time d/s---can't say I was ever satisfied by an 'online spanking'

onestandingstill -> RE: Mythic "Real Dom" (4/3/2007 12:34:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann Hello. (bows.) I am real. I am dominant. I am not mythical (kindly disregard my lovemaking reviews, they're a tad over inflated.) Don Juan Stephan Yes you are real and you are a Dom, but to be a REAL DOM you have to find your sub who believes in you like the kids believed in Tinkerbell before you're considered her Real Dom. Even then you can be a real Dom to her and to you, but that does not assure that others will think your a Real Dom does it? suzanne

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