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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:09:55 AM

SirDiscipliner69

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Nice...damn shame about the dye in the tub..it can be a pain to take out.

No paper...the rights are bing negotiated for a series.....anybody can get on regular cable you know

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:10:20 AM

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the house safe word.

Pineapple?

Actually I've seen teddy bear used more frequently. I favor banana. *Grins* That or lollipop.

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:11:01 AM

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not bad ...especially the flying blood

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Thanks Ross

you are welcome...but remember I am just acting cool and foolish

Ross
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Cool and foolish and acting????
Why not just be your real self?

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:12:03 AM

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the house safe word.

Pineapple?

Actually I've seen teddy bear used more frequently. I favor banana. *Grins* That or lollipop.

After this it will always be pineapple.

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:12:20 AM

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Pineapple?

Actually I've seen teddy bear used more frequently. I favor banana. *Grins* That or lollipop.

What about leather teddy bears that you can put messages on?

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:13:52 AM

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ORIGINAL: onestandingstillCool and foolish and acting????
Why not just be your real self?

In reference to this statement: post #107
http://www.collarchat.com/m_889408/mpage_6/key_/tm.htm#920282

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:34:48 AM

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The day I have to post rules for the people I invite into my home is the day I need to rethink my common sense when writing up a guest list.

I only invite people I trust into my home. People that I know will be respectful of me, anyone else I invite, and of my home itself. Being the homeowner I reserve the right to toss anyone that behaves badly out on their arse.......never to return again.

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:45:21 AM

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in my house the safeword is "Get off me motherfucker!!!"

We don't do closed doors, scat, blood, children, PUI(Play Under the Influence) or photography, either.

but that's me.

I have to agree though, that is folks don't know how to behave themselves, thet shouldn't be there. Also if you honestly feel the need to write a 10 page "rules" handbook, it should not be on the door. That's a good way to scare ANYBODY off. Perhaps in an egroup in the files section, but not on the door.

It's your crib, and I respect that, but how much is too much??

As for me, I'm more the type who's not going to invite folks that I know can't behave themselves properly. but those whom I DO invite, I invite with 'arms wide open' because as somebody else stated "These are my friends and family"

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:46:25 AM

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

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the house safe word.

Pineapple?

Actually I've seen teddy bear used more frequently. I favor banana. *Grins* That or lollipop.

After this it will always be pineapple.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_909630/tm.htm

Pineapple is a very good food for men to eat - oh yes...

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:51:45 AM

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The day I have to post rules for the people I invite into my home is the day I need to rethink my common sense when writing up a guest list.

I only invite people I trust into my home. People that I know will be respectful of me, anyone else I invite, and of my home itself. Being the homeowner I reserve the right to toss anyone that behaves badly out on their arse.......never to return again.

Okay... but who gets on top? Or can we be lesbian sex switches?

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 11:53:37 AM

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I agree with LT…BDSM play in my home isn’t open to complete strangers; EVER. IF a friend brings another friend…then I expect them to KNOW this new friend well enough to know how that person will conduct themselves in my home.

Yeah, no blood flyin’ around, some sort of drop-cloth used if wax or watersports are involved, sharps are contained, smoking is done outside (fully clothed) and cigarette butts are not flicked onto the lawn or into my garden (I have ashtrays available).

But gee…who has to POST those things?

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 12:03:43 PM

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Mercnbeth are you going to cover the no peeing in the pool rule?

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 12:05:06 PM

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LaTigresse trust me.

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 12:11:55 PM

Mercnbeth

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Mercnbeth are you going to cover the no peeing in the pool rule?

lol -
I'm putting one of those special "red dye" urine reactive packets in the water before the event.

However, I suspect that some of those attending wouldn't "waste" it in the pool anyway.

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 12:26:45 PM

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

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ORIGINAL: AquaticSub
the house safe word.

Pineapple?

Actually I've seen teddy bear used more frequently. I favor banana. *Grins* That or lollipop.

After this it will always be pineapple.

http://www.collarchat.com/m_909630/tm.htm

Oh My Word Troll,
That's just hysterical.
I'm laughing so hard my boss is looking at me funny.
Now every time I hear pineapple I'll relate it to a safe word and one of my hero's as Irwin is one of them to me for sure.
Thanks for the link, I'd missed that forum somehow.
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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 12:33:43 PM

sunfleur

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i have been to both public and private play parties / dungeons. the public locales of course post their rules. privates have not.. however.. everyone there kept in mind that they were in someone's HOME and acted accordingly. no rules posted.
until you get to know your host(s) very well, good manners go hand in hand with SSC.

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 12:34:53 PM

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Well, we have been attending private and group play events for a decade now and nearly every single one has had "house rules". Why would someone need to POST them? Well they are not usually posted, but included in the invitations and it is because not everyone plays the same way or lives the same way. We have friends who smoke and therefore allow smoking in their home, so if a person had gone to THAT house for several parties and we had become friends, and decided to invite them to our house where we do not smoke it might be polite of us as hosts to be sure they understood that no one smoked in our house. Believe it or not, there are also people who are otherwise very nice, but feel free to toss butts on the ground. We live in the country so for some reason they feel it is quite OK to do so and I want them to know that I do provide containers and expect them to use same for butts. One friend has horses and for some reason he has had invited guests with otherwise good manners make themselves right at home and go into the stable area to "pet the horses". These are expensive show horses, so yes his house rules state not to mess with his horses. Believe it or not, we have known people that allowed and encouraged drug use. We thought we knew them pretty good, but we had never seen signs of this behavior and when they came to our house the first time and we found them partaking and sharing we were quite taken aback. They were shocked that we were shocked and they were upset that we asked them to leave. Sometimes even good friends do need some reminders, getting a "house rules" with the invitation just lets everyone know what's what. What goes OK at one party does not always go well at another and it just makes sure everyone understands.

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 1:20:02 PM

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After this it will always be pineapple.

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Crimy! That was hillarious! Thanks

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 1:41:41 PM

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It's CRIKEY.

And omg My cheeks are still killing Me from laughing so hard...thanks Troll *kiss*

~Kara

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RE: What rules should a good host or hostess have poste... - 3/28/2007 1:45:29 PM

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Greetings,

My house has a set of general rules that are sent to people before they come to my house. My house has it protocols and it helps put others at ease when they understand the rules. I also will distribute dungeon rules before a party.

Most people find these rules beneficial. Most times they are just a reminder of basic manners and protocol. If they find these rules unacceptable they can make an informed discussion whether or not they wish to attend. Since it is my house, it is my rules.

Dungeon Rules http://www.dshaven.com/house/dungeonrules.html
House Rules http://dshaven.com/phenessays/houserules.html
Since my basement is now my dungeon it would appear I need to update my house rules concerning children... But over all most people are thankful for recieving the house rules and have a more enjoyable visit.

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