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BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Lifetime (3/24/2007 8:07:14 AM)

I agree,many folks enjoy being foot loose and free..bounty



sublizzie -> RE: Lifetime (3/24/2007 8:07:35 AM)

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ORIGINAL: LaTigresse

I simply refuse to put my life, my happiness, fulfillment, joy, everything that I want for me........on hold pending the discovery of someone. I refuse to put the responsibility of having those things on that ellusive person.

I think there is a huge difference between being open to a relationship and feeling you simply MUST have one to be a happy, whole human being.


Exactly. I'd love to be in a relationship but my life is not at a standstill while I am alone. I have times when I'm very happy that I'm alone, probably more than when I'm feeling whiny about it. I've watched people who cannot be alone go from one unhealthy relationship to another. While I have had my fair share of "ooops!" relationships in the past I don't stay in a bad one just to say I'm in a relationship. I have too much respect for myself to do that anymore.



OsideGirl -> RE: Lifetime (3/24/2007 8:37:15 AM)

I was with the same Dominant for 6 years. He's a wonderful, intelligent, funny and giving man. During the entire time we were together, I never wore his collar. (My choice) At that point in his life, I didn't feel comfortable committing myself to him for a lifetime, even though I believed that we'd get there eventually. In the end, the things that were the issues in the relationship broke us up.

I maintain that everything happens for a reason. After he and I broke up, I discovered that the person I was meant to be with was already in my life in the role of a friend. (7 years next month)

My ex and I are still good friends, we're just not meant to be together.



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