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ORIGINAL: LeatherDragon

Thank you for you input. I do appreciate it.  I'm still in the healing process ( going on 7 months now) and now besides the physical pain I have the emotional pain to deal with. I'm a very strong person and I know that I will heal from both of these setbacks.  Keep on keeping on.... I just doing like being kicked when I'm down is all.

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ORIGINAL: LeatherDragon

I'd like to have some input about when to call it quits with a submissive. My sub and I were together for 5 years.  It was a long distance relationhip but we did get together ever few months.  We had many good times over the years and loved one another.  Then I was hit by a car while riding my motorcycle and wasn't able to play or have sex.  My sub did her best to take care of me, but due to the intense pain I was in, I wasn't my normal self.  We grew more distant over the course of a few months, and it seemed that no matter how we tried, things when from bad to worse.  Then one night I was on collar me and saw that she was owned and collared by someone else.  That's how I found out that she had someone new. What I'm looking for is your opinion on that.  I feel that she should have told me that she was seeing this person for 2 months before I saw that in her profile. All the while, she was still e mailing me telling me that she missed playing with me but she couldn't get over the fact that I wasn't the best person during the healing process. I did try my best to say I was sorry and that I loved and wanted her, but to know avail.  What do you think?