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LeatherDragon -> RE: seeking others opinions (3/15/2007 2:51:35 PM)

I'd like to thank you all for your support during this time in my life.  It was hard for me to reach out and ask the question in the first place.  I guess I was looking for a validation of my feeling concerning this.  I know that things will be better for me in the long run no matter how this turns out.  I am a strong woman after all.  So, once an again, thank you all.
May you all be blessed.  Thank you.




Sinergy -> RE: seeking others opinions (3/15/2007 6:30:57 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LeatherDragon

Thank you for you input. I do appreciate it.  I'm still in the healing process ( going on 7 months now) and now besides the physical pain I have the emotional pain to deal with. I'm a very strong person and I know that I will heal from both of these setbacks.  Keep on keeping on.... I just doing like being kicked when I'm down is all.


LeatherDragon,

I was in a similar situation over 10 years ago.  Without going in to what happened, suffice it to say that I determined there are 4 people in my life at the time who would stick by me regardless of anything else, and a vast host of people who spent most of their time while I was fighting to recover doing their best to beat me down into invalid helplessness.

Happily, I have a very strong "fuck em all" attitude and I took responsible for my recovery and was successful.

I am not sure you want to hear this, but I tend to think people who would abandon you when you need them are not worth the powder to blow them to hell.

You will get through this.

Sinergy




MistressDolly -> RE: seeking others opinions (3/15/2007 6:42:04 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LeatherDragon

I'd like to have some input about when to call it quits with a submissive. My sub and I were together for 5 years.  It was a long distance relationhip but we did get together ever few months.  We had many good times over the years and loved one another.  Then I was hit by a car while riding my motorcycle and wasn't able to play or have sex.  My sub did her best to take care of me, but due to the intense pain I was in, I wasn't my normal self.  We grew more distant over the course of a few months, and it seemed that no matter how we tried, things when from bad to worse.  Then one night I was on collar me and saw that she was owned and collared by someone else.  That's how I found out that she had someone new. What I'm looking for is your opinion on that.  I feel that she should have told me that she was seeing this person for 2 months before I saw that in her profile. All the while, she was still e mailing me telling me that she missed playing with me but she couldn't get over the fact that I wasn't the best person during the healing process. I did try my best to say I was sorry and that I loved and wanted her, but to know avail.  What do you think?


...it was wrong to  not tell you for two months. 

It would of been better two months prior: honest, short and sweet, bitter sweet, over.

I don't know.  If I were you I would just grieve, let it go and move the hell on. 

What else can you do?

Sorry that happened to you.
Atleast you're wiser now.
Right ;P




MissSCD -> RE: seeking others opinions (3/15/2007 8:39:36 PM)

Leather, I am truly sorry for the pain you have went through over this situation. We never know in life when something can come and take away our freedom and ability to be who we are. I went through the same thing two years ago and lost everything.
I wll tell you it gets better my friend.   She was never good enough for you anyway.  For her not to tell you in person or at least on the telephone, was certainly not a very nice thing to do in a relationship that was that long.
I will tell you that you will over come this, and find someone who will care for you as you are.

Regards,

MissSCD




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