sexy2sum
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The origins of Poly are quite simple. It is genetically inherent for men to want to be with more than one woman. In the days when humans first appeared and when they began to settle, we lived in small tribes. The men naturally went out to hunt and the women stayed to gather and later cultivate. When the men were gone, they faced many perils; rock slides, killer mammoths, freezing, and drowning were an all too common occurence. So what you have is less men coming back to a village with more women. The ritual of a brother taking a dead brother's wife was probably started here and continues to this day in many cultures. If a man had multiple wives, they probably all lived in the same hut. Since these were very confined spaces, they had to learn to get along with one another. Anyone who has ever been to a sorority will tell you that most of the women in the house cycle on the same schedule. This is yet another "natural selection." If a man was home and in the mood, you didn't want to be the only one not ovulating. Women also have a better chance of becoming pregenant when they have an orgasm (there have been multiple studies on this.) Most women find that the second orgasm is easier to reach than the first (personal studies conducted :). Logically, if a women could be brought to orgasm once or more before having sex with her husband, she would be more likely to have an orgasm with him and, in turn, more likely to get pregnant. What better way to have your first couple of orgasms than with your sister wife. For the man, sperm count increases with sexual arousal (also extensively studied,) so if a man was more excited by seeing two women he would have a higher sperm count and a greater chance of impregnating his partner. Its no wonder that 93% of males biggest fantasies is to be with two women at once. All of these traits increased the likelyhood of off spring, which passed on these traits. If you don't believe me, look at the evidence in society. Bisexual women are common place and generally accepted by society (excluding the Christian Coalition,) yet male homosexuality or even bisexuality is frowned upon by a majority of the world's population, and punishable by death in some countries. So how did we go from a wonderful, polygamist, sexfilled lifestyle to the constricted and shameful world of sex that we have today? Most of it is due to politics. Octavian, considered the first emporer of Rome, wanted to clean up the city and uphold moral character. He had an influence, but the real doom came with the indoctrination of christianity. Religious leaders used Christianity to take spiritual power away from women, and in turn political power. Christianity taught us shame, deprevation, and fearfullness of this all seeing all powerful god that would take vengance upon us if we sinned. Not to beat up on Christians, Islam and Judeaism are no different. But, I can say with a great degree of scientific certainty, that its all a load of shit. We will never alleviate the problems of this world if we are taught to repress the sexuality that burns within each of us. Its really not our fault, either. As humans, we just did what we had to do to survive.
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I maintained a poly relationship for one year, quite successfully. It just requires the right people to make it work. It is work but even a vanilla realtionship is work if you want it to succeed and last. If all parties want it to work, it can and everyone has to agree up-front that this is the way they wish to lead their lives. 
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