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the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 5:55:06 PM   
PassionChemistry


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Status: offline 		Fuck it. I just got back from yet another speed date-follow up.
I look such a nice man. So sophisticated, intellectual, loving, affectionate, intelligent, loyal, conservative, sincere and family orientated. I have a lovely home, a great career, loads of stimulating hobbies...........but... FUCKING BUT I am a kinky fucking perve......bollocks. Are there any suitable women out there?

Had a great evening with a lovely woman.....she thought the sun shone out of my ass as thay always do until i let slip that I'm a bit kinky.....she said "oh i like a bit of spanking...but tell me you don;t have a gimp mask!?"
I replied [honestly] "yes i have a gimp mask."
She laughed heartily, certain in the knowledge that I was making a ridiculous joke.

Actually, I wasn't Joking.

Tell me, am I really resigned to meeting fucked up losers online, being rejected by personality disordered "dommes" online and meeting boring-as-fuck vanilla girls????

Are there any intelligent, loving, sincere, creative, loyal, domme-switches out there?????? 

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 5:57:08 PM   
mstrjx


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Status: offline 		Maybe, maybe not, but probably not on the speed-dating circuit.

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 5:57:49 PM   
gooddogbenji


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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:10:10 PM   
PassionChemistry


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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:10:42 PM   
SweetDommes


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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:13:06 PM   
bayboundse


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Status: offline 		speed dating BDSM...whip smack time up NEXT Whip Smack Next bang boom kneel..NEXT!!!

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:13:52 PM   
PassionChemistry


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Status: offline 		aren't you a pair of lesobos?

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:15:15 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Perhaps you should read profiles (as I read yours) ... that might just be part of your problem.  Well, that and a complete lack of anything resembling tact ...

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:20:58 PM   
PassionChemistry


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Status: offline 		Point taken. apology offered. I just had a bottle and a half of wine after 2 months abstinence, so a little inebrie.

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:22:55 PM   
SweetDommes


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Status: offline 		Ahh, the follies of posting while drunk ... LOL, that's why I stay away from the computer if I've been drinking. 

Try to get to bed before you pass out, ok?  Oh, and drink lots of water to lessen the hangover.

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:24:05 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		What is a gimp mask?

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:27:40 PM   
catize


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quote:

ORIGINAL: defiantbadgirl

What is a gimp mask?

I was just getting ready to type the same question!

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:34:34 PM   
gooddogbenji


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Ever seen Pulp Fiction?

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:40:34 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		maybe it's a fancy term for a dog muzzle

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:45:22 PM   
hisannabelle


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Status: offline 		i'm a kinky perv and i still find gimp masks creepy :P

but seriously. speed dating? *makes a face*

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:46:00 PM   
catize


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quote:

 Ever seen Pulp Fiction? 


OHHHH! 

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:48:18 PM   
gooddogbenji


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12 seconds on Google Image search:

http://images.google.ca/images?sourceid=navclient&ie=UTF-8&rls=GGLJ,GGLJ:2006-41,GGLJ:en&q=gimp%20mask&oe=UTF-8&um=1&sa=N&tab=wi

Assumptions are great, though.

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 6:56:41 PM   
defiantbadgirl


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Status: offline 		Thanks for the link Benji. I wasn't assuming anything, just giving u shit lol

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 7:19:17 PM   
LaMistressa


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Status: offline 		Sorry dude -- all the good ones are in the Washington, DC area.

(I crack myself up!)

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RE: the perils of vanilla dating - 3/9/2007 7:31:04 PM   
LadyIce


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Status: offline 		I only date vanilla when they are a potential lifestyle partner.
I have no interest in having a relationship with a vanilla partner, good luck.

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