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Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex?


I would accept a sub/slave that had oral sex as a hard limit.
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I would only accept a sub/slave that gave oral/but allow them to spit.
  4% (2)
I would only accept a sub/slave that gave oral/and they must swallow.
  14% (6)
I would only accept a sub/slave that gave oral. (Female Dom)
  17% (7)
I am a sub/slave and oral is a hard limit.
  0% (0)
I am a sub/slave and give oral/but I must be allowed to spit.
  4% (2)
I am a sub/slave and give oral/and I swallow.
  41% (17)
I am a sub/slave that gives oral to a Female Dom.
  17% (7)


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Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:26:35 PM   
RobertCloud


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Status: offline 		Lately I have noticed that many submissives/slaves are listing Oral Sex as a hard limit and it has prompted a question in my mind.

How many Dominants would accept a submissive/slave that had Oral Sex as a hard limit and/or how many submissives/slaves have Oral Sex as a hard limit?

Definition: Hard Limit is a limit that cannot be pushed, it is one that if the Dominant attempts to break the submissive/slave will leave the relationship.

For those Female Dominants find the result that best fits you. There are some that may only fit a male Dominant, but their are also some Female Dominants that may experience what is called the Geyser of Love and be strong Ejaculators. They actually can and do produce far more cum than a man can ever dream of. If you are a female dominant of that persuasion then you may find the "spit" or "swallow" fits you better than the one set up for regular female dominants. (This also applies to the sub/slave that gives oral to an Ejaculating Female Dom, if you swallow or spit, you might want to choose that one over the standard one as it applies better.)

Feel free to leave any comments you wish below, your comments and the results of the poll may help me in a future novel I am thinking about as a result of my reading.


[For those of you that are Switches this allows you to answer more than once, so you can answer as both your Dominant role and your submissive role.]

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:29:56 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		       I cannot imagine oral sex as a hard limit lmfao...i haven't seen that one yet...

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:32:21 PM   
kittensmailbox


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Status: offline 		Are you kidding me.... my god it is what i hunger to do the most....

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:37:52 PM   
RobertCloud


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ORIGINAL: kittensmailbox

Are you kidding me.... my god it is what i hunger to do the most....


No, I am not kidding... I have seen it on at least 4 profiles lately... that Oral Sex or Blow Jobs were hard limits.
It shocked me, now, I can understand Blow Jobs being a hard limit for a Lesbian, but the particular submissives in question were not, they were looking for Male Dominants. So it floored me, I cannot imagine a submissive or slave demanding of me that they never be commanded to pleasure me in that manner.

I have never met a submissive or slave yet in real life that was not eager to do that... so it was absolutely astounding. I can see it in a vanilla situation, but in BDSM.. in KINK.. in this lifestyle.. COME ON!!!!!

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:39:18 PM   
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Status: offline 		Having a submissive that doesn't perform oral is like having apple pie without the ice cream. 

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:40:23 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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Status: offline 		          I am with you there Robert- completely...not to mention that oral sex is a wonderful pleasure two people can give to one another...Personally, I perfer to give rather than receive...have found that women give oral sex better to (me) better than men...but that is just from the experiences I have had thus far...I wouldn't touch a woman with oral sex as a hard limit.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:42:52 PM   
RobertCloud


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ORIGINAL: BigDaddyNJ

Having a submissive that doesn't perform oral is like having apple pie without the ice cream. 


Actually, I beg to differ...

I think it is more like having the apple pie without the apples.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:45:01 PM   
sweetnurseBBW


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Status: offline 		Considering I would rather do oral than anything else I could never even consider it any kind of limit.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:51:37 PM   
SageFemmexx


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Status: offline 		Now, you know I have no swallowing as a hard limit. I am violently allergic to so many things and semen has foreign proteins in it. I swallow and it's a bellyache and stomach cramps for me. It isn't worth it. Cumming on me, is something else entirely though--love the sensation of being splashed, especially across my face.

And, I had an ex that detested blow jobs. Absolutely hated them. So, stop worrying about it, everyone is different.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:52:33 PM   
velvetears


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Status: offline 		A limts a limit - to each their own. It does seem surprising to me but i suppose they have a good reason - maybe they had a traumatic experience? Maybe they are just tired of all the "suck me" dom players out there, or cheating husbands who will only allow oral so they can feel they're not cheating on their wife.  Maybe it's their way of weeding them out and when they meet a dom who actually looks at them for more then their oral skills they feel they might just have a winner??

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 4:57:46 PM   
sambamanslilgirl


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quote:

I am a sub/slave and give oral/but I must be allowed to spit.

i chose this because a) i'm not permitted to swallow - doctor's (Daddy) orders and b) for personal reasons i never got use to the taste of a man's cum down my throat (yuck) - i hate swallowing.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 5:52:01 PM   
fergus


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Status: offline 		*whew* can't figure it out.  Oral (giving and receiving) is one of my favorite past-times.

Not give oral - c'mon.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 9:41:09 PM   
RobertCloud


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fergus

*whew* can't figure it out.  Oral (giving and receiving) is one of my favorite past-times.

Not give oral - c'mon.

fergus


Well, Fergus, I agree with you... Truth is I would rather give oral than have intercourse.
Yet, to have a sub or slave to tell me she would make that a hard limit I would simply say I guess I am looking elsewhere then. You have the right to make anything a hard limit, I have the right to look elsewhere if I do not like your hard limit.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 10:37:10 PM   
Vendaval


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fergus

*whew* can't figure it out.  Oral (giving and receiving) is one of my favorite past-times.

Not give oral - c'mon.

fergus


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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/7/2007 10:43:14 PM   
leakylee


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Status: offline 		oral as a hard limit?!? wow, who would have thunk it. i mean i know that everyone is entitled to thier limits, but that was about the first sexual penetration that i ever realllly participated in. we did that like two years before we did the FULL deed. so i have a bit of an oral fixation. not being able to to devour, um i mean, prefer, that service would just be.. i dont know that i can think of the right word.

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 3/8/2007 12:40:11 AM   
RobertCloud


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Status: offline 		Well I have to admit I have not had the pleasure of many experiences with Oral... In fact my first experience did not happen until I was 40, and I have only had 3 women do so and none were really good. Yet, I still would say that for it to be a hard limit would be a complete elimination of that person in my viewpoint as someone in my consideration.

Thankfully, my babygirl loves it so it is not something I have to worry about, but I just cannot imagine it being a hard limit.

I am looking forward to meeting my babygirl in person in April, we will probably remain platonic on our first meeting. Yet, I may see her again two weeks later and who knows what may happen then.. lol..

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RE: Blow Jobs? / Oral Sex? - 4/29/2007 9:40:25 PM   
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Status: offline 		....depends how you want to interepret ...

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