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RE: Pondering "Real" vs. "Fake"... - 3/7/2007 8:06:57 PM

MasterNdorei

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In the Master/slave relationship Master has with me, daily life becomes an afirmation of who i want to be. This is what keeps it real for me.

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RE: Pondering "Real" vs. "Fake"... - 3/8/2007 2:29:55 AM

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Where does one get references that mean anything?

You never said why the two doms were dangerous. Maybe this was just you being out of your depth or not understanding what you were getting into. If they were so dangerous, why are they still walking the streets?

One only meets real people in r/l. Online is not real as so much projection goes on and so much wishful thinking.

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RE: Pondering "Real" vs. "Fake"... - 3/8/2007 2:58:34 AM

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*Truly, beautiful, amazing people*........and yet they are *perhaps the most psychologically dangerous*...Truly, beautiful, amazing people that use their power to mindfuck people into loss of identity and do harmful things?.....What's *truly, amazing and beautiful* about that?

Somehow your post about *real* and *fake* makes me wonder what you're referring to..........Real and fake what?

Why would someone who changes their mind, is young or uncertain make them a *fake* anything, in any case?

Being *real* doesn't mean *safe or comfortable for everyone*.

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RE: Pondering "Real" vs. "Fake"... - 3/8/2007 3:16:55 AM

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To quote Mistress Steel: "Don't let your desires be your damnation"

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RE: Pondering "Real" vs. "Fake"... - 3/8/2007 10:53:12 AM

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First of all, this was in real life. Not online. Online is so rediculous, and I won't even start my tirade on that! ::smile:: But anyway... it is not like I can get them arrested for for mental rape and cruelty. The physical, maybe. But then again, there is the arguement that I consented. It wouldn't hold up in court. So, they are still in society for those reasons. But I have successfully managed to save several submissives from their evilness already, and I will continue my crusade.

To answer the question on them being beautiful amazing people, but psychologically dangerous... that is very easy to explain. They are very physically attractive people, they do good deeds and good things with their time and money, they have careers and educations, they are remarkable parents, and overall they are wonderful contributors to society. Would I trust them with a child or a fortune? Yes. Would I trust them to have a submissive alone in their grasp? No. The cruelty and psychological damage they inflict is not aimed at any other victims besides submissives. It is a very evil mindfuck, that literally results in loss of identity and desperation. They spend time getting to know you, getting in your head, winning you over mind, body, and spirit... and then, once you are trapped and captivated, fully entangled in their web... they mercilessly wreak havoc on your soul and life. So, my answer is.. they are beautiful, amazing people. But they are damn dangerous Dominants.

It really irritates me when people are so quick to judge a submissive before a Dominant. Yes I am young and I may not have life entirely figured out. But I believe I am at least more true to myself than many people my age are, and I have done more with my life than many will. I am highly educated and well traveled. I am slow to trust, and I did not submit to these people for the first 5 months I knew them. I have excellent mentors, and I do know what the hell I am doing. Despite all of my precautions, despite how careful I tried to be... the thing is, I got drawn in by expert monsters. Nothing about this situation was anything except safe and wonderful for a long time. I refuse to hold myself responsible for falling prey to people who take their kicks in life from mindfucking and tormenting others, but who do not display anything except reason, consistency, intelligence, and caring... until it's too late to escape.

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RE: Pondering "Real" vs. "Fake"... - 3/8/2007 12:07:59 PM

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Susan you left out Sagittarus. I used to clerk in a Law firm so can I work Pro Bone. The fact is that a lot of the people in CM are fakes. I always hear how easy they are to spot. Thats BS and you have found that out. The only thing that you can do is take your time with the person and hope for the best.

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RE: Pondering "Real" vs. "Fake"... - 3/8/2007 12:20:38 PM

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I look at "fakes" as being the liars, manipulators, misdirectors and just plain dishonest.

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