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Devilslilsister -> Cumming (3/3/2007 11:05:40 PM)

i keep hearing about male subs who tend to lose their "submissiveness" after they cum.  I'm sure the same can go for both genders......

but are there those out there who after they cum, become more "submissive"? 





littlesarbonn -> RE: Cumming (3/3/2007 11:08:10 PM)

I used to be this way. After the release, I'd find myself not feeling as submissive as I was the moment before.

What changed it was a partner who refused to allow me to switch geers after she allowed me to achieve release. She'd order me to clean up myself and move right into an action that reminded me that I was her slave and still submissive to her. It is quite shocking how much of a difference that eventually made for me.



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Cumming (3/3/2007 11:17:54 PM)

Yes, there are. One of my lovers is this way.

Master Fire



FukinTroll -> RE: Cumming (3/3/2007 11:18:52 PM)

DLS, do you get agressive when arroused?



azzmaster -> RE: Cumming (3/3/2007 11:21:05 PM)

i m still quite domly after i nut, i just smile more



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Cumming (3/3/2007 11:23:07 PM)

D'oh! Nevermind.

Master Fire



mynded -> RE: Cumming (3/3/2007 11:26:02 PM)

What do you want my answer to be? What do i want my answer to be. I am both ways after.



redpetals -> RE: Cumming (3/3/2007 11:26:17 PM)

DLS..
personally as long I am aroused there is very little that actually hurts me.
But after..Oy..
so it's not that I get less submissive,it's just that I get LOUDER !!!
LOL




canupleaseme -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 12:37:26 AM)

I must admit i hate the point just after ive allowed my boy release.  His previous submissive sweet face suddenly flicks off[sm=frown.gif]  So i usually instruct him to do something straight away to remind him whose boss lol
Personally if i have just had a big orgasm my minds all over the place, I dont think I feel less dominant i'm just more likely to snuggle upto him for 2 minutes thank spank him right away



justanotheclaire -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 12:45:03 AM)

i was allowed to cum after a big scene and it was usually so intence i would sob and he would hold me  it was a bigger surrender for me to allow him that far into me



Devilslilsister -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 8:00:56 AM)

Ah well i did alittle too much yesterday Troll.  Not that it did me any good but drive me nuts as i was pinned. 

I hear about guys who suddenly switch "off" after they cum.  Gah, it seems to happen alot (that i hear about).  Yet i seem to be the excat opposite.  Before any ... er... doings.. i'm more...  (dunno really)  Yet after such .... doings... i tend to mellow out, become sweet, easily contented, relaxed and i'd probably crawl on my knees to the moon for Master if he wished. 

Curious as to who else experiences - once the hormones are out the way - they do better?

How come we dont hear about this side of the equation? 



Sunshine119 -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 9:06:43 AM)

I am far more submissive afterward.  Before I can be quite aggressive, provoking his sadistic dominance, which of course, excites me all the more.  Depending upon my mood, I can bite, fight and overall be a total wench.

Afterwards, I have been conquered.  Might have something to do with that Briggs-Myers stuff, currently running on another thread....lol

Sunshine



asubmissiveheart -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 9:15:03 AM)

I have not lost a damn thing, I cum all the time.  But then I am in a
romantic loving BDSM relationship.  My Mistress seems to find more
ways to make me cum than......my mouth is shutting now.
Put it this way, I cum and cum and cum.
Except when I am in chastity.  : (



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 11:17:15 AM)

There's usually a shift in the energy, but I can't say I've ever described it in myself or my partner as "less submissive."



Inhibitor -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 1:36:01 PM)

I certainly have a greater sense of being owned afterward. And I don't think I feel less or more submissive after any kind of exchange or stimuli - it's just there, and it is what it is - I'm simply more aware of it sometimes. I'm vaguely certain that's different. 



FukinTroll -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 1:45:44 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

Ah well i did alittle too much yesterday Troll.  Not that it did me any good but drive me nuts as i was pinned. 

I hear about guys who suddenly switch "off" after they cum.  Gah, it seems to happen alot (that i hear about).  Yet i seem to be the excat opposite.  Before any ... er... doings.. i'm more...  (dunno really)  Yet after such .... doings... i tend to mellow out, become sweet, easily contented, relaxed and i'd probably crawl on my knees to the moon for Master if he wished. 

Curious as to who else experiences - once the hormones are out the way - they do better?

How come we dont hear about this side of the equation? 




Testosterone is what makes you aggressive sexually. It is also what makes men aggressive so often. Juicers get violent and out of control on steroids because of the testosterone in their systems. As a woman your chemistry uses testosterone to make you sexual and aggressive, so the release of testosterone changes your behavior in a dramatic way. Men are filled on testosterone and after an orgasm they have a big chemical release and a deficiency in that testosterone. So that chemical change changes them, just as chemical change alters you.



Missokyst -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 4:28:00 PM)

I become more submissive.  After cumming, there is nothing I want more than to grovel at his feet, or cater to his whims.  At least for the right partner.  If I am not submissive to my partner to begin with, then I just want him out and off.
Kyst



curiouspet55 -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 4:59:46 PM)

For me, my submissiveness gets more intense throughout the scene, but the climax of my body in no way shuts down the submissiveness in my mind. I remain in a subby-space still afterwards, though I need more delicate care afterwards, more support and reassurance. Letting someone see my emotons and be a part of that is quite difficult for me, but at that time I can't hide those things, and that vulnerability contributes to make me feel more submissive than before the climax, I think. Anyhow, my point is I can't turn it on and off.



CoyoteWhips -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 5:05:10 PM)

My submission stays about the same, but my masochism subsides after orgasm.  Basically, being horny gives me greater tolerance for pain.




bayboundse -> RE: Cumming (3/4/2007 5:13:12 PM)

I stay the same Dom I usually am. My sub gets more loving and submissive after she cums.



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