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DiurnalVampire -> RE: Collarme members (negative experience) (3/2/2007 8:51:12 PM)
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If you are not finding the support you want here, then maybe you should look at how you are presenting yourself. We tend to be helpful to those who ask questions we can assist with. Some of us invite those who have questions to go ahead and ask them. Your problem may have been that you were talking to a sub who suddenly felt as if he was in a position of power becasue he had the ansswers and you needed him. So, he felt like flexing his muscles and he was rude. People can do that.
If you are in training, who are you training with? Are you learning as you go with a sub you presently have, or are you just trying to learn while you search? It is not an easy thing to do, and scammers are entirely too prevalent on here. Often they will ask questions to learn what someone likes, and then try and bait them with it later. Perhaps you set off a flag for this guy. It happens, he is only human after all.
If you wantto ask questions, then by all means, do so. But dont let one rude response turn you into a vindictive and abrasive person. You have to kep your composure, and yes be nice if they are rude. Kill them with kindness and prove that you are better than them. Youd be surprise how well that works, when someone cannot ruffle your feathers, they dont act up as often. If they are trying to get a rise, you are giving it to them.
If you want to ask questions, ok, PM me. Be polite and ask whatever youd like.
Griping here in the forums isnt going to get you the answers you need.
DV
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