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julietsierra -> RE: Subs made to lose weight (3/6/2007 4:41:11 PM)
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A conversation I had with my Master today:
We were discussing the "comfort food" syndrome. You know what that is. It's when your life is reeling out of control and the only thing you can control is your food. It doesn't yell, it doesn't argue, and it doesn't do anything other than make you feel all full and cuddly, and when you're having difficulties in relationships, what better thing to do than to eat eat eat. After all, that'll show HIM huh?
Except that my Master had a different view. He says while comfort foods do feel good, women who are going through difficultes with relationships are doing things backward. Instead of eating eating and more eating, they SHOULD be dieting and exercising and all that. Yes, it's difficult, Yes, sometimes during those awful moments, walking to the refrigerator is nearly all you can muster, but just think!!
When you are dieting and exercising, you are allowing the difficult relationship to not take control of your life. You are doing something positive to make you feel better during times when not a whole lot feels good. You are exercising self-discipline which is always a good thing. But more importantly - heck, MOST importantly, you are doing the very thing that will either "get back" at that person who's "doing you wrong" and make him jealous (kind of a "see what you lost?" or am "aren't you sorry you gave this up?" thing), OR you will activate his interest again and possibly save the relationship you're feeling badly about, OR, you will activate someone ELSE'S interest and well...a new relationship when you're down can be very nice.
We were talking about losing weight and this post. In his words, "juliet, men are addicted to that ass. When a girl makes it look good again, they will fall over themselves trying to get some. They may deny it, they may tell you they're stronger than that, but they'd be lying. When they see an ass they like, they can't help it. It's like bears to honey. And really, which feels better? comfort foods or the attention? "
Y'know...he just may have a point here.
juliet
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