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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 7:32:55 PM

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YAAAAAY! Nothing brightens my day more than hugs...and maybe a trip to the zoo and a sushi dinner ;) LOL! Thank you :)

*gasp and then puppy squirming* Zoo and sushi! Now I wanna go play with the baby animals at the petting zoo! *eyes Valyraen* I wonder... I have been a good girl lately...

O_O Lucky! I'm not even close enough to my owner at this particular time to make that request, lol. I did get it last visit, though. Dx *shakes fist at* Now I'm jealous, lol.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 7:44:50 PM

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*nodnod* I've been so happy since he moved in with me. It just so nice to have someone to do the everyone boring things like grocery shopping and laundry with.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 7:56:13 PM

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Few people forget about kink, though quite a few of them can put it aside for a few years.
My question is, why would anyone lament and moan because one relationship ended? LIFE moves on. People grow, change and find new things and committments to give them joy. Just because one relationship ends it does not mean the end of life, kink, and the sad return to nilla.
Trust me. If you were to find someone and dump them, chances are they will find someone else.
Though for some of us, the desire to sit back a long time between committments is strong. It does not mean we are "ruined" for nilla or anything else. Life simply goes on.
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if you were vanilla and now you have a taste for kink what to do when things end?

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 9:21:43 PM

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if you were vanilla and now you have a taste for kink what to do when things end?

Simple, i find a new kinky Master to take me and make me His. There's more than one kinky Master, so when one leaves, that isn't the end. It's just time to start anew with another.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 9:29:47 PM

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Just ebcasue you have a taste for kink doesnt mean you have to give up vanila forever. When things end you do what anyone does when a relationship goes south. You start over.
Its not always easy, and its not always fast. But, one relationship ending doesnt mean your ruined forever.

I never would have gotten that question from the OP. I had thought the first post was asking wether you were the only one who got a rise out of doing those things.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 9:34:42 PM

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I thik the op couldn't have phrased it better....Now that her Dom is gone how is she to resume a "vanilla" life?...It's really kind of sad. It's almost like she has nothing left to live for....Great post!...Fusion can't wait for the next one!....Good going guy!

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 9:51:39 PM

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What you all must understand that the issue here is quite simple. We most remain broad of vision and narrow of purpose to appreciate the incomprehensible comprehension of it all. Bear with me here.

As Americans, and to a lesser degree, not that you are lesser, more or less, others you have to be able to fathom the ambiguities of such a revelation. Keep your focus set forward, and your eye clearly on the ball, and you will find that the issue, is really a non issue after all.

It is so simple in its complexities that it has become simplicities very soul. Now you must understand, Dom’s, Domme’s, and to a lesser extent, not that you are lesser, more or less, that the real issue here has been clouded by the ever present persistence of sadistic bestial necrophilia and leave us confused and wanting a greater explanation.

We must not let this dissuade us from the current issue at hand. I know each and everyone of you are affected in different ways. That is why I am asking you, not as a Dom, Troll, or overlord suppressor, but as an HNG, to venerate over all that you learned here and turn that acumen towards introspection so that a harmonious resolution can be obtained over the issue at hands.

Now we can discern a great deal from the OP’s post and find clear explanations as well as highly perceptive insights in my above post for each of us to, at last, become truly enlightened beings. Nevertheless I must stress to you all that the OP should not ever be considered venerable in his brilliance and is only our own self-awareness that we may find fault. Therefore I am going to include an addendum for us to contemplate… or even capitulate. The latter may be perceived as the wiser course of action.

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Clearly we have overlooked the wit and wisdom entailed in the epics the OP has thrilled us with. So allow me to clarify. They all revolve around the clear and concise issues that I have detailed above. I do not proclaim to be prophet nor scholar of all things fusion, however I have extended the most effort to make this very clear. The issue is a very serious one that we all must take to heart. We have to be firm, but fair in our assessments. We must be adept and very diligent pupils of cryptography, not because the issue is enigmatic, but we are blinded by our free roaming thinking and have lost sight of this complex simplicity of thinking.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/26/2007 10:00:10 PM

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 2:19:29 AM

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Troll Wisdom, who can argue with that!

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 3:00:26 AM

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I'm still not sure what the hell he's saying. Ok, it ended. I doubt if s/he was the last kinky person on earth. And as treasure said, I'm still vanilla...I work, eat, clean house...all the stuff I did before. Take time to get over it and find someone else.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 3:37:33 AM

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Oh... behave and be nice, FT.

Honestly, the OP wasn't difficult to understand. I think one problem with it was that he used a poetic style that didn't directly address the reader and took for granted that we would understand who the "you" is in his lamentation.

That, and it appears as if there is one other very large assumption...

Fusion, why would you think that it is your "dominance" that creates her "submissiveness"? If you meet your partner here on CollarMe or on another BDSM site, rest assured that to some degree, her interest in and desire for kink existed before you.

Or is it that you believe that once she tastes your brand of dominance, she will forever be spoiled for any other way of life?

That, my friend, would be the height of hubris.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 3:57:31 AM

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Sorry live in college town, if you were vanilla and now you have a taste for kink what to do when things end?

You brush yourself off, take time to heal, have a good cry, and step out there again.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 4:18:54 AM

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Sorry live in college town, if you were vanilla and now you have a taste for kink what to do when things end?

First of all what does living in a college town have to do with anything? Secondly vanilla doesn't end. Is it normal in your world that a submissive remain locked in a basement with a butt plug in bruise covered arse, forever? Or are you talking about when submission ends? Submission is with me 24/7 whether I carry bruises, wear a collar or not.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 6:44:49 AM

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if you were vanilla and now you have a taste for kink what to do when things end?

Learn. Read about kink -- both fiction and non-fiction, attend workshops, offer to stunt-bottom or otherwise volunteer at events within the local kink community. Talk to trusted friends about what I'm feeling. Take the time to find a kink-aware doctor, and possibly even a similar counselor if I'm having a really hard time. Take the opprotunity to streamline my life so that when my next kinky relationship starts, I should be able to accomodate for it smoothly. Pick up any hobbies or contacts I dropped during that relationship and rebuild them, finding ways to back off of them in the future without completely cutting them out. Think about the sort of submissive I want to be, the skills I'd like to learn, and then read books and take classes to help me learn them.

This is, of course, on top of my standard vanilla break-up reactions: cry, talk, write, process it within an inch of its life, play the blame game until I notice my own hypocricy and then turn it around and figure out what I could do better in the future, get outside and enjoy the world more fully again, etc.

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 9:17:05 AM

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Sorry live in college town, if you were vanilla and now you have a taste for kink what to do when things end?

Find someone more suitable where things will keep building, not ending.
Basically clean your slate and find a new partner to help you explore this new side of yourself.
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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 12:51:20 PM

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Was my post not clear enough?

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RE: I change your world I ????? - 2/27/2007 1:02:07 PM

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