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How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 5:23:15 PM

skrote

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I've searched the forums and the web and have not found a concrete answer. While doing orgasm denial, how often should the male be able to release, either by a ruined orgasm, or milking. The only medical resource I found stated that men that ejaculate 4-7 times in a month have a lower risk of developing prostate cancer later in life, somewhere on this forum someone else stated it is generally said in the medical community to release every 6 months. Another thing I read said that there was no need to allow it at all because there is a built in safety release (wet dreams).

What is everyone's thoughts/opinions. I ask because my Wife/Mistress is concerned about me not cumming enough.

Any advice would be appreciated.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 5:27:23 PM

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In my case, always---
In your case never---
It's all about the side of the fence you live on, I guess

Google blue balls, I don't think anything in there will kill you.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 5:37:37 PM

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In my case, always---
In your case never---
It's all about the side of the fence you live on, I guess

Google blue balls, I don't think anything in there will kill you.

Ron

Yeah, what he said. I'm not sure how often a guy should jizz in order to keep his cash and prizes healthy.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 5:39:38 PM

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I don't have a clue but I'd go with at least twice a year. Myself, I would recamend going with once a month at least. It doesn't need to about sexual pleasure. Just view it as something to make sure all the systems are in order for when your Mistress does decide to use you sexually.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 6:05:26 PM

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i recommend checking out this page on scarleteen; although it deals mainly with the blue balls phenomenon as it's commonly thought of, it goes through the physiological issues associated with vasocongestion, and concludes that lack of ejaculation is not necessarily damaging to your health...vasocongestion can go away with time or with a non-ejaculating orgasm as well.

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Vasocongestion is taken care of rather easily. Orgasm (ejaculatory or nonejaculatory) -- either with a partner or through masturbation -- will make the pain and swelling go away. Alternately, letting the arousal simply fade out with rest or other nonsexual acticity will also make vasocongestion go toodle-oo. In addition, a cold or warm compress or shower can be used, as can an analgesic like ibuprofen or aspirin to alleviate the pain, or some simple physical activity like running, walking or other sports.

based on this information, it would seem that ejaculation isn't necessarily required for normal, healthy functioning. here is a snippet of an article on yahoo! health about ejaculation and relationship to infertility:

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Frequent (daily) or infrequent (every 10 to 14 days) ejaculation, either of which can temporarily lower sperm count.

from http://health.yahoo.com/topic/reproductive/prevention/article/healthwise/hw203764;_ylt=Aofrbkblxlxfxz83qROMNhZLvs8F - an article on what increases a risk of infertility in men

this is from a study on ejaculation frequency as it relates to prostate cancer:

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RESULTS: During 222 426 person-years of follow-up, there were 1449 new cases of total prostate cancer, 953 organ-confined cases, and 147 advanced cases of prostate cancer. Most categories of ejaculation frequency were unrelated to risk of prostate cancer. However, high ejaculation frequency was related to decreased risk of total prostate cancer. The multivariate relative risks for men reporting 21 or more ejaculations per month compared with men reporting 4 to 7 ejaculations per month at ages 20 to 29 years were 0.89 (95% confidence interval [CI], 0.73-1.10); ages 40 to 49 years, 0.68 (95% CI, 0.53-0.86); previous year, 0.49 (95% CI, 0.27-0.88); and averaged across a lifetime, 0.67 (95% CI, 0.51-0.89). Similar associations were observed for organ-confined prostate cancer. Ejaculation frequency was not statistically significantly associated with risk of advanced prostate cancer. CONCLUSIONS: Our results suggest that ejaculation frequency is not related to increased risk of prostate cancer.

from: the journal of the american medical association http://jama.ama-assn.org/cgi/content/abstract/291/13/1578

based on the actual physical processes of orgasm, ejaculation, and vasocongestion, it would seem to me as though frequency of ejaculation shouldn't matter all that much health-wise, except perhaps in terms of fertility, but based on the article i found, even that can be temporary. just thought i'd google some medical info on this and post it to see if that helps. i personally don't have an opinion about it...if it works for you, do it. the best thing would be to talk to your doctor about it, though.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 6:53:50 PM

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as often as they can....seems like such a waste to me otherwise

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 7:03:05 PM

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Well in MY CASE, and without a Mistress, I can do it anytime I want. HA HA HA you poor Suckers !

I don't think there is anything to having a medical problem if you don't Masturbate or are allowed to Cum. I go days, maybe even weeks without doing it, and It hasn't fallen off yet. I think it is just some male somewhere, saying they have to Masturbate. You know how bad Males can get.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 7:24:05 PM

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After being locked a few weeks I find my ejaculate to be thin and runny, and not very much in quantity. In a few days everything returns to normal though.

When I was locked for six weeks, right before release I got off with a vibrator. This was not really satisfying at all, but the part of me, the kinky part of me that made me want to wear the CB was gone. I wanted nothing more than out, not even to do anything. It just didn't turn me on anymore at the time. That too passed. It was release day anyway.

I don't think milking is the only issue. Normally I get a hardon like a 20 year old, I mean it will not bend. There are positions I can't do because of it. After a few weeks locked it takes a few days for that to come back. To me that is a big concern.

In the case of certain male devices, when removed, sore spots are revealed that he never knew were sore. Yes, sore to the point you don't want to do anything, just happy to be out. But after a few weeks, just being able to touch it again is a joy.

You might get away with two months, even three without milking or anything, but I would not want to go much longer. I don't know why, but I just don't have wet dreams anymore, and believe me I have tried. Of course that doesn't work.

And Ron is right, a male should ejaculate as much as possible. A CB is not a natural thing, so concern is warranted. Thing is, I thought a CB is worn for a time to enhance the experience when release is allowed. Even if that's once a month, there would be no need for milking. Keeping someone locked up for like six months, is too much IMO. Even a sadist should agree that the locked need a reminder of what theiy're missing. And I don't mean a peek. Hell my device is clear, I can see the goodie right now, but no touch. Nice little candy store.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 9:16:52 PM

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quote:

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I've searched the forums and the web and have not found a concrete answer. While doing orgasm denial, how often should the male be able to release, either by a ruined orgasm, or milking. The only medical resource I found stated that men that ejaculate 4-7 times in a month have a lower risk of developing prostate cancer later in life, somewhere on this forum someone else stated it is generally said in the medical community to release every 6 months. Another thing I read said that there was no need to allow it at all because there is a built in safety release (wet dreams).

What is everyone's thoughts/opinions. I ask because my Wife/Mistress is concerned about me not cumming enough.

Any advice would be appreciated.

~Skrot

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 9:21:42 PM

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men that ejaculate 4-7 times

I can work with this.

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in a month

A month? WTF? I could probably work with you on a weekly basis, although I would be tend to think that a male should climax 4-7 times every day to avoid testosterone poisoning and the attendant psychosis. Said psychosis can be determined by behavior modifications involving things like power tools, watching football, making inappropriate comments about women's fashion, etc.

Just me, as usual, and I suspect I am wrong.

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RE: How frequent should a male ejaculate? - 2/25/2007 9:32:28 PM

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well if ur like azzmaster there is almost no limit to the amount of times u can ejaculate, tho i have found that over 6-7 times and just air comes out. however having ur sub massage under the balls will produce more sperm. as far as how often u HAVE to ejaculate, nature takes care of that. if u really need to u will have a wet dream and wake up a mess. don't sweat it.

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