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HarryVanWinkle -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 9:14:49 AM)

I define polyamorous simply as any long-term, sexually intimate relationship involving more than two people.  What roles any of them might play within the context of that relationship isn't relevant.




KnightofMists -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 9:20:38 AM)

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ORIGINAL: susie

Perhaps I am wrong but I do not see what we are looking for as poly. The idea is to find a woman to join us for a scene and not a relationship as such.



I would see you as very much as poly....

First.. you don't have a scening partner without some sort of relationship.  But the relationship might not be the lifetime commitment and devotion type. 

Poly is just a person involved multi-relationships of some sort of intimacy... all the other qualifiers such as authority structure, motivations, commitment, etc only describe the specific poly style that one is engaged in.




LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 10:36:23 AM)

I, on the other hand, would agree that it's not poly- it's just fun scening and not intimacy.




AquaticSub -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 10:43:58 AM)

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ORIGINAL: fusion

To clearify when I say dominants consider themselfs superior, I mean to their others; that would for myself  how I compare myself  to other men.  .....   I am not being judgemental I am shinning light on dark corners of this world.  Fusion



Oh no... that isn't judgemental at all.

Again, Valyraen does not consider himself to be superior to other men. I consider him to be superior to other men, but that might just be because I love him. If I were single submissive looking for a dominant/master I would immediately exclude those who admitted to thinking they were superior to other men though. In my humble experience that much of an ego is not befitting a dominant and comes with other qualities that I don't want to deal with as a submissive.




MistressDoMe -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 10:45:32 AM)

People do what they want around here.  I don't have a problem with it.
I see people advertising for models and also for people to perform in movies on here.
Pro Domination, Masters using submissives to find other females, Poly, Gor, anything
goes.




BOUNTYHUNTER -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 10:49:01 AM)

OH but yes it is relevant harry,most women just don't want to become a chain sister with other slaves,When they serve a committed couple it compleatly different but ty fot you imput...bounty




BeachMystress -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 2:14:47 PM)

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ORIGINAL: toservez

Feeling oneself superior to anyone, let alone on the whole of some category is not confidence but some made up mixture of low self esteem, arrogance and narcissism. That being said you do see this and a lot with dominants on some level especially online.
This is called Top's Disease and is, unfortunately, also found in some real time Dominants.




hisannabelle -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 2:48:50 PM)

quickreply, but this is in reference to fusion's post elaborating on what he meant about dominants thinking they're superior to other men...

He doesn't consider Himself superior to other men, or women, or anyone. where the hell do you come up with things like that?  




mynded -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 4:38:32 PM)

Nevermind.




mynded -> RE: Pimping for your dom? (2/25/2007 4:47:54 PM)

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ORIGINAL: KnightofMists

I find it comically when someone comes along with the self-inflated ego and has all this lifestyle wisdom.

Unfortunately.... their Wisdom is at the elementary level.... and many are well beyond that.

This reminds thread reminds me of a saying ....

"Better to remain silent and thought a fool than to speak and remove all doubt"




Exactly why i said nevermind. Thank Yyou very much. Red flag came up today on this subject and well.. enough said.




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