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Ohio area..bdsm virgin - 2/22/2007 11:04:37 AM

moki1984

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I am a bdsm virgin who's wantings to be a part of the bdsm lifestyle have never been fulfilled. I have always desired to find a dom. male who could get inside of me mentally yet i nthe same I always desired to do the same to someone else. I think I just am unsure of what my role would be although I am so dominant in life I believe to submit to another would give me a balance to my soul and a release that I need. I am bound to a man by marriage and for this reason I understand its very unlikely I will ever be taken in by a dom for the reason I have sexual restrictions etc etc...and although I want this I will not for anyone break my marriage vows. i do not break my word to anyone in life, especially my husband. This leads me to think if my husband would take upon this role I would be more than happy, but he seems to fear hurting me and is held back. Any dom. males willing to talk to me would be appreciated, but I completely understand my restrictions make it very unlikely anyone will. Thanks for taking the time to read this...

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RE: Ohio area..bdsm virgin - 2/22/2007 7:35:48 PM

slaveish

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Ah, moki, it's not the hopeless picture you are painting for yourself. First, a lot of submissives and slaves are quite dominant in their daily lives - the submission / surrender completes the picture. It is freeing and wonderful.

Second, there are Doms, many of whom are wonderful trainers and wonderful people in general, who will understand your marital restriction. Come on out, play, learn, ask questions, get to know people, and have fun. I wish you well in your search.

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RE: Ohio area..bdsm virgin - 2/22/2007 8:39:08 PM

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Hi Miki, and Welcome to the group. I hope you find everything you are looking for, and if I can help in anyway, I will try. There are so many nice people here, and are always willing to help out, when they can.

Take care and Always have FUN! Sincerly, Sub BalletBob

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RE: Ohio area..bdsm virgin - 2/26/2007 9:28:54 AM

CountryGal

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Hi Miki,

Have you looked into any of the BDSM groups in Ohio? In Northeast Ohio there are Purple Rose Society (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/Purple_Rose_Society) and Ohio SMART (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/OhioSmart). They are excellent resources for information. Both groups have regular parties and demos. You may be able to find a Dom there, as well.

Good luck,
Country Gal

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