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How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 6:31:26 PM

kinkntwist

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From A Dominant's Perspective: How do you punish a naughty girl that is not really naughty at all, but likes to be punished for being naughty? Meanwhile knowing for a fact that she used to be extremely naughty, just plain filthy actually, but is now desparately being a good girl because she is in love with her Master, who fell in love with her for being a slut..

Do you encourage/force her to be a slut again in order to have a reason to punish her properly

or

Do you release her, because she is no longer the slut she once was?

What are your thoughts on this tricky situation?

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 6:41:29 PM

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dis n ez 1, playboy. if she good assfuck her wit lotta lube n make the bitch nut a few times.if she bad don't use lube n nut b4 she does. she'll behave trust me on that

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 6:41:42 PM

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This doesn't seem 'tricky', more 'unfathomable'. But I can make sense of the first sentence.

'Punishing' someone in a role-playing sorta way isn't punishing at all. It's called 'play'. People do it all the time.

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 6:41:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist
From A Dominant's Perspective: How do you punish a naughty girl that is not really naughty at all, but likes to be punished for being naughty?

Pat her on the head, put on on some contemporary soft rock and bake her a batch of cookies.

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 6:43:08 PM

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Well, I'm going to drop the obligatory, "talk to her about where your and her relationship is going."

Aside from that,
If she likes to be punished for being naughty, then perhaps look into roleplay. I'm of the opinion that if a person wants something, then doing that exact thing isn't really punishment... What I'm seeing is she's wanting a particular kind of play. Which you can probably provide just because it's something that pleases you both.

Now, I'm not really sure what being a slut is, but again, talk to her about it. If she wants to be a good girl because she loves you, then my guess is she'll be more than happy to accomodate your desires. If you're looking for someone to disobey you so you can 'punish' her, well, you can 'punish' without there being an actual transgression involved. It's 'play' at that point, but if it's something you want to do, is it not pleasureable nonetheless? (just make sure she knows she really didn't do anything wrong; wondering what's going on or why, in my opinion, takes away from the experience.)

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 6:45:56 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: amayos

quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwist
From A Dominant's Perspective: How do you punish a naughty girl that is not really naughty at all, but likes to be punished for being naughty?

Pat her on the head, put on on some contemporary soft rock and bake her a batch of cookies.

Hmm.. she's the one baking cookies... and cakes now....

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 6:47:53 PM

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Subnstudent... you are a deep thinker, good reply

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:03:36 PM

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I think he was being tongue in cheek about the cookies...but also maybe saying that if she's gonna go all goody-two-shoes on you, then giving her some of that same treatment in return every time she does it might be a good remedy. At least, that's how I intepreted what amayos said.

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:04:01 PM

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quote:

Subnstudent... you are a deep thinker, good reply

thank you ^_^

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:25:41 PM

kinkntwist

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

I think he was being tongue in cheek about the cookies...but also maybe saying that if she's gonna go all goody-two-shoes on you, then giving her some of that same treatment in return every time she does it might be a good remedy. At least, that's how I intepreted what amayos said.

- Susan

or even worse ... switch to " sub" mode..haha

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:27:50 PM

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If she's being a good girl and is baking and cleaning ... punish her by sending her to my house for a week (!!) then put her on orgasm restriction. By the time she gets back to you, she'll be your darling old slut again.

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:29:42 PM

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kinkntwist: Yeah, sliding into sub mode yourself would probably drive her nuts.

slaveish: I agree w/you - send her to Nebraska - I can use a vacation from cleaning for a week myself!

- Susan

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:33:14 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: SusanofO

kinkntwist: Yeah, sliding into sub mode yourself would probably drive her nuts.

slaveish: I agree w/you - send her to Nebraska - I can use a vacation from cleaning for a week myself!

- Susan

She would get frustrated and seek dominance elsewhere and turn into a slut again. Brilliant!

So the encouragement to let lose, is the wrong approach?

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:37:24 PM

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Well no, I agree it's probably a good solution. I am maybe not the one to ask - I dont have a lot of experience solving these situations (but of course that rarely stops me from commenting, hehe), but it sounds like it makes sense to me.

- Susan

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:49:58 PM

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Inform her that she will not have an orgasm for a week (or a month).

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 7:58:42 PM

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Yeah, Sinergy, that works well. And tease her mercilessly. Make her masturbate for you but disallow her to cum. Talk dirty to her but disallow her to cum. Make take showers with you, play games in the water but disallow her to cum.

After a month ... she should be ... ummmm ... ready. ~grinning~

Orgasm denial is hawt.

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 8:05:32 PM

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I'm not sure how being a slut is the same thing as being naughty in this lifestyle. If you want her to be a slut, tell her to be one. If you want to "punish" her for being one, do a schoolgirl scene or something. Being a slut isn't a bad thing.

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/21/2007 8:19:39 PM

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One question: How come she evolved into a "good girl" so much, if you didn't want her to? Did she just go completely overboard? Maybe you did already answer that (if so, I apologize for asking again). I mean no disrespect at all, by asking this, I am merely curious (because I guess it might not really matter, since she is not doing stuff you obviously want her to do). If she's in love with you, does she think having "slutty sex" is really "dirty"? And, what do you mean by her being a slut?

I might sound naive - but do you want her sleeping around? If so, order her to do it. But wait - there was just another thread about this somewhere....think about how it will affect her (and consequently the relationship) first. If she's really not into it, that is something to consider.

Wow, I must sound like an idiot. I guess that is what you're considering, or you would not have posted this thread, probably. If you've talked about it, and she is sort of lukewarm on it, maybe find out why - I mean, maybe she is stuck on the idea that you have to be totally in love with someone to have sex with them? Maybe not, but somewhere there may be an idea if hers you can discuss in more detail, to get to the bottom of why she feels the way she does?

- Susan

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/22/2007 8:22:09 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: kinkntwis

Do you encourage/force her to be a slut again in order to have a reason to punish her properly

Too much analytical stuff goin on in here.....just give her some good ole OTK because YOU want to.......not whether she needs it or not.

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RE: How do you punish a naughty slut.. - 2/22/2007 8:54:37 AM

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ORIGINAL: kinkntwist

She would get frustrated and seek dominance elsewhere and turn into a slut again. Brilliant!

So the encouragement to let lose, is the wrong approach?

Bad news, kinkntwist. Maybe she is just not that into you anymore?

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