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Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 3:30:31 PM

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With all the threads in bisexuality play.. it stems from one Het to his /her submissive. It got me wondering if the Gay population play with forced bi-sexuality. I'd like to hear their take on it all.

Is it a rush for a Gay Dom to have his male submissive serve a female sexually? If not, why not?

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 3:36:35 PM

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That is an interesting twist on forced bisexuality. I have never heard of such a thing.
I would enjoy hearing the story, I don't think that is an activity that a gay person would
even enjoy seeing.
I think mainly straight people enjoy these activities.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 3:41:27 PM

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The way I see it is that the Dom/me is bisexual and would get some kind of charge from it because of their own attractions to both sexes, forcing bisexuality from their gay sub/slave.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 4:16:57 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aine

The way I see it is that the Dom/me is bisexual and would get some kind of charge from it because of their own attractions to both sexes, forcing bisexuality from their gay sub/slave.

This is understood.. however, I've directed my question specifically toward Gay male Doms and their male submissives. This is a dynamic I have yet to see discussed on here. But thank you for your thoughts.

edited by me because I didn't' run my spell check.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 4:27:01 PM

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Eh, I made it a more encompassing response...I need more coffee.

But I kind of agree with VM....it seems rather unlikely for a strictly Gay Male Dominant to force bisexualism on their gay male sub. But who knows.

I understand why a Straight Male Dominant would request or force his female sub into a bisexual encounter considering it's another female, the side of the sex that the Dominant is already attracted to.

I would understand a Bisexual Female Dominant requesting or forcing a bisexual encounter for her lesbian sub.

etc
etc

I'm having a hard time wrapping my brain around why a strictly gay Dominant would want that. Even as a bisexual, I can't really put two and two together on this one.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 4:41:46 PM

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Our problem with this question might be that we don't have a very large gay male participation rate on the boards...the one I do know isn't a Dom. I wish more would come; I'd like the varied viewpoint.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 4:46:41 PM

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Amen...I'd love for a Gay Male Dominant to pop into this one to help me wrap my head around it!

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 4:47:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

With all the threads in bisexuality play.. it stems from one Het to his /her submissive. It got me wondering if the Gay population play with forced bi-sexuality. I'd like to hear their take on it all.

Is it a rush for a Gay Dom to have his male submissive serve a female sexually? If not, why not?

Gay people have had hetro role play forced on them in the form of marriage for a long long time.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 5:11:18 PM

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Personally I have never known of anyone who has tried it, though it is an interesting idea. I think it is not practiced because a gay dom would not get much out of seeing his slave service a female where as a straight male dom might get a lot out of seeing his female slave with another woman.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 5:56:08 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam

Our problem with this question might be that we don't have a very large gay male participation rate on the boards...the one I do know isn't a Dom. I wish more would come; I'd like the varied viewpoint.

Master Fire

I do also.. I appreciate their viewpoints

editd to add: Thank you MstrTiger :)

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:02:37 PM

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Where the hell are we going to find some gay crumudgeon that is going to start screaming that if you ever had a hetero experiance you are not gay?

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:06:43 PM

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*laughs herself silly over that mental image*

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:07:20 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MstrTiger

Personally I have never known of anyone who has tried it, though it is an interesting idea. I think it is not practiced because a gay dom would not get much out of seeing his slave service a female where as a straight male dom might get a lot out of seeing his female slave with another woman.

I think the only thing a gay male Dominant might get out of such a coupling would be the humiliation factor.....Tempting

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:13:28 PM

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i know a completely lesbian Dominant who is going to have her virginal lesbian slave - be devirginized by a man. Not sure why. Mebbe something about being property, and the whole losing ones virginity and some wierd thrill. i suppose i should ask her ::shrugs:: i just accepted it. i've also heard about lining up men for her slave......... dont know if anything has gone through or not, been awhile since i spoke to her. Maybe its humiliation?

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:21:02 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister

i know a completely lesbian Dominant who is going to have her virginal lesbian slave - be devirginized by a man. Not sure why. Mebbe something about being property, and the whole losing ones virginity and some wierd thrill. i suppose i should ask her ::shrugs:: i just accepted it. i've also heard about lining up men for her slave......... dont know if anything has gone through or not, been awhile since i spoke to her. Maybe its humiliation?

Thanks.. but again. I've focused this one for the Male Gay community.. a whole different dynamic.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:23:22 PM

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ORIGINAL: FukinTroll

Where the hell are we going to find some gay crumudgeon that is going to start screaming that if you ever had a hetero experiance you are not gay?

Gay males have class..that's why :)

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:25:41 PM

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You do make a very strong point.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 6:32:06 PM

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I can't speak for many of the gay population, specifically gay Doms and subs but with myself as one example, forced bi-sexual play will not take place. My Master has assured me that He will never order me to serve a female sexually. O/our sexual play will only be with gay men. So I can't see my Master getting a rush by having me serve a woman sexually. But that doesn't mean there aren't some gay Doms who do order their subs into bisexual play either.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 8:15:35 PM

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ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Is it a rush for a Gay Dom to have his male submissive serve a female sexually? If not, why not?

I know of at least one case that makes me say yes. It may be more rare than in the het community but one of my close middle-aged leathermen friends who began as a boy at age 20 (back in the 70s) tells the story of how his Daddy told him to have sex with a woman on several occassions and enjoyed knowing that his truly gay boy was doing something against his nature for the pleasure of his Sir. So there you go, forced bi.

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RE: Forced Bisexuality from the Gay side - 2/20/2007 8:26:28 PM

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I was watching a program today in which one segment was about the Christian church factions that offer a program to turn homosexuals straight. This is what made me think of this question in the first place.

If is is a heinous practice to try to change a gay male's orientation..why do we expect women to be able to embrace lesbianism if they are heterosexual to begin with? Is this basically a lack of respect and consideration?

I would think this practice would eventually be devastating to the female.

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