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Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 7:17:47 AM

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Ladies, and whomever- why am i getting all kinda looks at store when im grubby?

the eye gaze that says " that looks fun in bed"

are men sexy when they are grubby? I swear i could have brought a few of teh shoppers home....

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 7:19:27 AM

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Give me a construction worker at the end of the day anyday. Yum.

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 7:33:59 AM

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I don't like forgets to bathe regularly dirty...
But just got out of hard work dirty is kind of hot. M

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 7:40:25 AM

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Yeah, I can see that happening. I'm much more likely to notice someone who's a bit grubby than someone's who's sparkly clean and just pressed. I mean, seriously, how much fun can someone have when they're worried about wrinkling their shirt? I'm pretty rough around the edges, so its probably just a matter of being attuned to similarities.

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 8:03:11 AM

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Grubby can work. I remember the summer my house was built. The young bricklayers. Sculpted muscles, sweat, no shirts on. "Would you like some water?"

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:04:04 AM

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You sure they're not "I'd like to take that home and clean it up!?" type looks?

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:10:29 AM

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In my experience, from both personal relationship and from asking this question to female friends, there's something about a man who looks like he's been involved in hard physical labor that women find attractive. Granted, if you come home looking like you've been working on a drilling rig, completely saturated in mud and oil, I don't think you're going to get much of a positive response, but a little grease, a little sweat and dirt has created some interesting responses for me before.

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:21:17 AM

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Ladies, and whomever- why am i getting all kinda looks at store when im grubby?

the eye gaze that says " that looks fun in bed"

are men sexy when they are grubby? I swear i could have brought a few of teh shoppers home....

Pahunk, perchance did you have a big booger hanging out of your nose?

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:30:58 AM

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I personally tend to prefer neat and clean men... not overly dressed up, more the casual European look about them gets me going

... but I deifinitely wouldn't use a word like "grubby" to describe what would catch my eye, for sure.

I guess, for me, I do not particularly appreciate people looking too grubby in stores, restaurants, etc., At the very least they should be clean. IMO, it just shows that they don't care about themselves.

With that said though, I guess it would depend on the time/place/what degree of grubbiness?

Say, I saw on a Sunday afternoon somebody in a ripped and stained t-shirt, sweatpants that look like they should never leave your house, unshowered, unshaved and say, in a mall? I would probably wouldn't look, but rather look away like "what was he thinking?" And start looking around for the people from "What Not To Wear" to jump out from a corner or someplace. Or assume they were sick and were out for the afternoon... definitely, not think they were hot.

However during the work week, in a supermarket/restaurant, etc., a handsome guy who looks like he just put in a hard days work as a firefighter or in construction with some dirt and sweat and smelling all of pheremones... well, that's another story. I probably would still not get all glazed over or anything, well... mmm.... depends on how good look ing they are.... LOL. But, then, I would at least understand the grubbiness... they came from work and I would have respect for them.

So, in conclusion (I know, I'm long-winded), it depends on the grubbiness and the circumstances. But, for me, if they were someone that "caught my fancy" I'd be thinking "I would like to give that man a bath!".

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:41:12 AM

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quote:

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Yeah, I can see that happening. I'm much more likely to notice someone who's a bit grubby than someone's who's sparkly clean and just pressed. I mean, seriously, how much fun can someone have when they're worried about wrinkling their shirt? I'm pretty rough around the edges, so its probably just a matter of being attuned to similarities.

I couldn't resist... everyone is different, but, when I read the above, all I could think about was to me, that's part of the fun! I love it when my Master (who is a rather "sparkly clean" kinda guy in general) tell me to undress him and place his clothes neatly over a chair/in a closet, etc

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:44:19 AM

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that "Brawny" man fantasy comes to my mind after reading the original post. anyway, i like the scruffy look (unshaved, stubble etc) as well as the clean-shaved, sharp dressed man. both are hot and sexy however if you've haven't showered for days, yuck!

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:44:52 AM

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I love it when my Daddy has not shaved for the day and he rubs his whiskers against me and wears an old tshirt and shorts with his flip flops.... MMMMMMMMM. In fact sometimes he intentionally does not shave so he can rub his face on me... sighs

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:45:49 AM

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quote:

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Ladies, and whomever- why am i getting all kinda looks at store when im grubby?

the eye gaze that says " that looks fun in bed"

are men sexy when they are grubby? I swear i could have brought a few of teh shoppers home....

I wish I had an answer for you, I guess some people just like that scruffy look.

I experience the same phenomenon on those days when I just throw on, what I consider, roll out of bed extreme leisure garb to run a quick errand. It seems guys are a bit more flirtatious with me when I look unkept. I'm like what gives (more like wtf). It just baffles my mind.

Rosa

PS, my kind of unkept is different than what a country bumpkin might define as unkept.

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:50:47 AM

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Magirl, what's the "casual European look?"
Oh, I was listening to The Howie Carr Show online yesterday and it seems that your new Governor, Deval "De Value" Patrick instead of using the Ford that Gov. Mitt Romney used had the state lease him a brandnew Cadillac to the tune of $1,166 of your taxdollars each month!
And remember how Gov. Jane Swift caught hell for using a state police helocopter? Devalue is using one now!
People are bullshit about this guy! He cuts different state budgets then wants to fly in helocopters and lease brandnew Cadillacs!
Back to grubby.
The other day I was in the supermarket and there was this big fat woman in spandex.
As she was walking the back of her ass looked like a sack of cats headed for the river.

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 9:56:14 AM

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I get all sorts of attention if I don't shave...maybe a little hungover...Or if I am dressed in a way that would provide the illusion that I am capable of hard work.....I've had women approach me and "chat me up."....I have found that it usually seals the deal if I mention that ..."I haven't wiped for a few days."

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 10:14:23 AM

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Interestinmg comments. :-)

LOL at the buggar comment

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 10:16:36 AM

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Magirl, what's the "casual European look?"

that's my own made-up definition of what I like... basically, that's for me to know.... someone else to find out

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 10:18:00 AM

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grubby only to a point for me, if really smelly takes any fun out of it at all

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 2:32:14 PM

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Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes. Yes.

Grubby men are sexy. Very sexy. *purrs* I'm going to go back to my fantasies about Valyraen after he's changed the oil in the cars...

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RE: Grubby men, and quick pick up- - 2/17/2007 2:41:36 PM

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I have found that it usually seals the deal if I mention that ..."I haven't wiped for a few days."

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