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So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 10:32:06 AM   
SirDominic


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Status: offline 		Well, I can't tell you that, exactly, but I can tell you where to find the single women. In the latest issue of National Geographic (Feb '07) they show where the largest concentrations of single women and single men live. Basically if you live west of the Mississippi, you are screwed!

The largest plurality is in the New York, New Jersey, Connecticut urban area, where there are 185,000 more single women than men. Most major eastern cities are good places. Some cities with 20,000 to 40,000 more single women than men include Boston, Baltimore, Washington DC, Detroit, Chicago, St. Louis, Memphis, New Orleans and Miami.

There are NO cities west of the Mississippi with this abundance of single women over men. You are especially screwed if you live in Seattle, San Francisco, San Jose, Las Vegas, Southern California, Phoenix, Dallas, Austin & Houston; all of which have 20,000 to 40,000 more single men than women.

Might be time to move.....

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 10:35:31 AM   
juliaoceania


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Status: offline 		This is nice to know...lol (this is why I found such a wonderful match here in California...weg... Happy Valentine's Day!)

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 10:47:51 AM   
SimplyMichael


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Status: offline 		I always thought it was some forbidden fruit thing, or grass is greener.  I see so many more interesting submissives on the East Coast than I do in California.  I hate the East coast but perhaps I need to get over that.

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 10:54:40 AM   
justfortheforums


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Status: offline 		Smiles...I don't what the statistics are here in Michigan and Indiana but I have met soooo many interesting souls here that I wish I could just clone myself and have coffee with all of them in person instead of just trying to figure it all out from behind this screen. 

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 10:54:43 AM   
puella


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Status: offline 		Of course you do, Michael.

Happy Valentine's Day, btw.

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 11:03:24 AM   
CelticPrince


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Interesting stats presented.

Most of us that travel alor have been painfully aware of the fact tho not quantified as you have done.

CP

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 11:21:02 AM   
Mercnbeth


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Status: offline 		Based on many of the threads on the matter, being "single" doesn't affect availability or participation within the "lifestyle".

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 12:08:16 PM   
SirDominic


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Status: offline 		Agreed, Mercnbeth,
A great many are looking for a monogamous relationships though, so if you are a single male, it makes sense to move where the single women are in abundance. The number of single women does not automatically equate to the number of women into fetish either, but, again, if you live in a city where males outnumber females by 40,000, finding someone is going to be a lot harder!

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 12:26:12 PM   
krikket


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Status: offline 		Funny -- i've been known to say just the opposite about Doms on this site..always on the wrong coast, continent, hemisphere, planet, etc...lol

cheers and Happy Valentine's Day y'all
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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDominic

Well, I can't tell you that, exactly, but I can tell you where to find the single women. In the latest issue of National Geographic (Feb '07) they show where the largest concentrations of single women and single men live. Basically if you live west of the Mississippi, you are screwed!

The largest plurality is in the New York, New Jersey, Connecticut urban area, where there are 185,000 more single women than men. Most major eastern cities are good places. Some cities with 20,000 to 40,000 more single women than men include Boston, Baltimore, Washington DC, Detroit, Chicago, St. Louis, Memphis, New Orleans and Miami.

There are NO cities west of the Mississippi with this abundance of single women over men. You are especially screwed if you live in Seattle, San Francisco, San Jose, Las Vegas, Southern California, Phoenix, Dallas, Austin & Houston; all of which have 20,000 to 40,000 more single men than women.

Might be time to move.....

Namaste, Sir Dominic



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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 12:39:09 PM   
Aine


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No wonder I left CT!  I ain't single anymore!   *giggles*


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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 12:48:34 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		But Austin has about 3 kinky parties a month and at least 4 other social events.  Anyone not finding people here just isn't trying.

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 12:51:19 PM   
LotusSong


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDominic

There are NO cities west of the Mississippi with this abundance of single women over men. You are especially screwed if you live in Seattle, San Francisco, San Jose, Las Vegas, Southern California, Phoenix, Dallas, Austin & Houston; all of which have 20,000 to 40,000 more single men than women.



Which stands to reason those males that DO succeed west of the Mississippi are either very clever or the cream of the crop :) 
 
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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 12:59:57 PM   
Quivver


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael

I always thought it was some forbidden fruit thing, or grass is greener.  I see so many more interesting submissives on the East Coast than I do in California.  I hate the East coast but perhaps I need to get over that.


exactly what i've found in reverse!  all west of the mississippi! 


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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 4:30:37 PM   
MaryT


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Status: offline 		Did NG give any indication of why more single women are back east?

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 4:41:40 PM   
WorldofSilence


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Status: offline 		I'd love to know what it is in My area (England - South West)

I swear every corner I turn or look down are couples, even the animals!

*grumbles* But I'll keep on trying :)


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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/14/2007 4:42:56 PM   
ScooterTrash


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quote:

ORIGINAL: MaryT

Did NG give any indication of why more single women are back east?
Just guessing, but maybe because it's far away from the west coast?

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/16/2007 1:58:56 PM   
SirDominic


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quote:

ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross
But Austin has about 3 kinky parties a month and at least 4 other social events. Anyone not finding people here just isn't trying.


LA, I am shocked at you. You are one of the more perceptive people on this site, yet that comment was such a typical woman's response. Women truly have no clue what a different experience it is for a man to find a sub than it is for a woman to find a Dom.

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MaryT
Did NG give any indication of why more single women are back east?


Mary, they did, but I don't remember what it was off hand and the magazine is at home. I will look it up this evening. Personally I think it is because back in the time, when "Go west young man" was the saying, I think women took it literally and thought they were not invited.....

Namaste, Sir Dominic

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/16/2007 2:05:32 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: SirDominic
LA, I am shocked at you. You are one of the more perceptive people on this site, yet that comment was such a typical woman's response. Women truly have no clue what a different experience it is for a man to find a sub than it is for a woman to find a Dom.


I don't think that's true.  My partner was your typical shy, novice, single male when he got into the scene and he found me!

Yes, it's hard for guys, but not so hard that if you don't honestly try and are a decent mature person you won't find anything.

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/16/2007 2:11:58 PM   
nyrisa


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Status: offline 		Before single men stampede to Miami in search of that bonanza of single women, they might want to consider that Florida is the mecca for retirees. And since women statistically outlive men by a number of years, you have to figure there is going to be a higher proportion of blue haired 80 year old widows filling out the ranks of those eager and waiting females. *grins*

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RE: So You Want to Find a Female Sub? - 2/16/2007 2:13:52 PM   
FukinTroll


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Um... thanks for the heads up.

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