RE: Generalizations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are

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KatyLied -> RE: Generalizations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 7:44:19 AM)
I like to consider myself open-minded, but gerbalization is not for me! I just shot of an email to a friend of mine where I noted that there does seem to be a lot of people with mood disorders in the lifestyle. I wonder if that is true, or if people are just more open to discussing it in order to help others.

toservez -> RE: Generalizations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 7:51:29 AM)
I am guessing various reasons. People like to think they are better then others. Most there is zero percent of malice or conscious intention to preach it but some sub conscious actions and for some with self esteem issues it is a more severe and preached from their self imposed pedestals. Frustration venting and maybe targeting a small random sample or reflecting on being done “wrong” by someone and giving everyone in that realm the same characteristics. Despite our shout outs about not caring or feeling free to live how we want, there are still society mores that have been pounded into our head and for to some degree and for some people looking for the ah ha that is why you are not normal is an important rationalization to them. Poor written communication skills, simply not being able to write or rushing through what they write and therefore the words and tones are made to look like the person includes all and is a absolute fact instead of a percentage and their opinion.

cjenny -> RE: Geberalisations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 8:25:06 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: ToServeIsToLive It's because although the human brain has the capacity for fuzzy logic all people on this site are only capable of thinking in all or nothing terms. Am I the only one that saw a huge generalization in that? I think that it is simply human nature to catagorize things, including other humans. All dogs bark. except those that don't All fish stay underwater. except those neato flying fishies Etc Etc.

MagiksSlave -> RE: Geberalisations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 10:46:16 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania quote: ORIGINAL: MasterFireMaam Damnit...my dyslexia and your bad spelling had me thinking thids thread was gonna be about gerbils. Master Fire Yeah it is the cutest typo of the month. What exactly would "gerbalization" look like? ((meeps)) I fixed it!!!! damn key board keys are to close together!!! Magik's slave

sambamanslilgirl -> RE: Generalisations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 10:50:01 AM)
finally a sound voice of reason i agree - being overweight with some tendencies of obsessive complusive is not why i'm a submissive. after 4 yrs of discovering my submissiveness, i'm still trying to understand the hows and whys of what i am. all of us are the perfect height to weight proportion or one of the "beautiful people" - we are unique and special in our own way. BDSM is not an exclusive club where only the right people (meaning beautiful, perfect weight and body size, wealth) can join.

kyraofMists -> RE: Geberalisations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 11:15:02 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: cjenny quote: ORIGINAL: ToServeIsToLive It's because although the human brain has the capacity for fuzzy logic all people on this site are only capable of thinking in all or nothing terms. Am I the only one that saw a huge generalization in that? No, you are not the only one who caught that. I find it amusing some of the generalizations people make about people who generalize. Knight's kyra

taintedgypsy -> RE: Generalizations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 11:21:09 AM)
lol perhaps there is hope for me yet, I just have to stick to generalisations and I am safe. It is confirmed I really am a submissive lol . a. I am slightly over weight b. I have mental/emotional health issues c. I smoke d. I am a survivor of child abuse e. I am a survivor of domestic violence Hell I must be the perfect sub

MagiksSlave -> RE: Geberalisations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 11:22:25 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: kyraofMists quote: ORIGINAL: cjenny quote: ORIGINAL: ToServeIsToLive It's because although the human brain has the capacity for fuzzy logic all people on this site are only capable of thinking in all or nothing terms. Am I the only one that saw a huge generalization in that? No, you are not the only one who caught that. I find it amusing some of the generalizations people make about people who generalize. Knight's kyra Its a vicouse (SP) cycle Magik's slave

MagiksSlave -> RE: Generalizations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 11:27:01 AM)
Ohhh busted smokeing was the critirion for beeing a Mistress not a sub/slave!! ((pushes the button next to her desk and watches the floor open beneeth taintedgypsy as she falls into the dungion of fire)) Magik's slave

taintedgypsy -> RE: Generalizations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 1:25:58 PM)
OMG I have missed these boards, I laughed so hard I choked on my toast ... had to clean my screen!!!! a redhead in a dungeon of fire ... quite poetic ... lots of candle wax I hope and a nice Dom to keep up the heat ... hell heaven I should get it wrong more often lol

ToServeIsToLive -> RE: Geberalisations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 1:35:31 PM)
The generalization was suposed to be a joke... but it appears my humor is too well hidden sometimes : ( quote: ORIGINAL: cjenny quote: ORIGINAL: ToServeIsToLive It's because although the human brain has the capacity for fuzzy logic all people on this site are only capable of thinking in all or nothing terms. Am I the only one that saw a huge generalization in that? I think that it is simply human nature to catagorize things, including other humans. All dogs bark. except those that don't All fish stay underwater. except those neato flying fishies Etc Etc.

cjenny -> RE: Geberalisations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 1:37:15 PM)
Aw I'm sorry. I need hints for subtle things... I have a pattern of being dense. Sorry Sorry Sorry!

MagiksSlave -> RE: Generalizations and trying to find the answers to why we are what we are (2/11/2007 2:17:43 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: taintedgypsy OMG I have missed these boards, I laughed so hard I choked on my toast ... had to clean my screen!!!! a redhead in a dungeon of fire ... quite poetic ... lots of candle wax I hope and a nice Dom to keep up the heat ... hell heaven I should get it wrong more often lol ((giggles)) LOL its all up to the emagination down there Magik's slave

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