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sirwtemplar -> I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 4:19:55 PM)
I don’t know if this is the proper forum for this but I figured that what the fck Short version I don’t like long wind stories. How many of the Subs that say there looking for Domes really are looking? For anything else the money or some scam. I have been trying for two weeks to find a sub for a local BDSM live performance group and have had 10 different people asking for bank accounts, money to save them, cant come home, and some that aren’t even female WHAT THE FCK etc. Come on people we are letting a few scam artists destroy the sanctity of a Lifestyle that we all enjoy. F*ck them that try to prey on it. Thanx I feel better now Peace. Sir W

Wulfchyld -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 4:21:30 PM)
Two whole weeks?

twicehappy -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 4:25:31 PM)
Try emailing SirLordTrainer, he is located in Indy. Though honestly finding somebody in two weeks is a tall order, there are folks who have been looking for years.

domiguy -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 4:35:34 PM)
Well you have really brought up an interesting problem that I have never seen questioned out here before.....Dude one tip ....remove this thread before you get lit up...Common complaint...Just takes time and millions and millions of dollars....If you are really in a jam...may I sugest looking for a Nigerian sub...Highly reliable and very submissive and always willing to please. Being this is your 1st post...take your time and use your head and your nose....most the subs out here don't bathe....Oh ...and remove this thread or it might be your last. out. D.G. p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.

mgdartist -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 5:07:45 PM)
He's right. Getting a sub here to even answer a message is the first hurdle. After nearly a year I finally managed to make a few friends, but that about the extent of it. I don't fault them for it, and think I know most of their reasons. In a lifestyle which bears it's hallmark as trust, there is little to none. I'm guessing it is mostly we who are to blame for that gentlemen. More's the pity. MGD

bandit25 -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 5:19:58 PM)
Oh please. C'mon...you can't find a sub in two weeks. You ask how many subs are seriously looking. Let me ask...how many doms who say they are looking for a sub just want to get laid? Or are simply looking for something on the side...they don't care about D/s...just want some kinky sex. Now, having said that, I will say that what you've run into is too bad...really. But what did you expect? That just because you're looking for someone, a sub would magically fall into your lap? Sometimes it takes months...years even.

mgdartist -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 6:34:16 PM)
quote: I have been trying for two weeks to find a sub for a local BDSM live performance group Yeah, but i don't think he's out to get laid per se. Granted, most men wanna get laid. So do most women. Perhaps we're more honest, or perhaps suspected of seeking only that to the exclusion of all else, especially the hallowed LTR. Maybe some of us start out wanting the LTR, but think better of it later. Maybe she does. Seems to me both sides should always have that option without being mistrusted or castigated for it. But hell hath no fury? Personally, I'm only interested in LTR, but either a)am disbelieved or b)seen as unworthy somehow. But this guy apparently just was a sub as performer. You know, someone who's maybe proud of what she is...a bit exhibitionistic, with dreams of thespianism? Think he'll find her? Doubtful MGD

slavejali -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 6:38:28 PM)
Master found me within 2 weeks of looking, it can happen. Maybe its all timing [:)] (right place, right time etc etc)

mgdartist -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 6:46:33 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: slavejali Master found me within 2 weeks of looking, it can happen. Maybe its all timing [:)] (right place, right time etc etc) Oh, I believe you. and blessed be. I also believe in the immaculate conception. But your point is? MGD maybe we need to send noah back in here to sit me down? lol

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 6:47:33 PM)
i never "normally" complain...i go all out...LOL

slavejali -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 6:49:12 PM)
That wasn't to you, it was a fast reply. I was jsut generally pointing out it 'could" happen for him re the 2 weeks thing mentioned.

Sinergy -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/5/2007 7:58:32 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist He's right. Getting a sub here to even answer a message is the first hurdle. After nearly a year I finally managed to make a few friends, but that about the extent of it. I don't fault them for it, and think I know most of their reasons. In a lifestyle which bears it's hallmark as trust, there is little to none. I'm guessing it is mostly we who are to blame for that gentlemen. More's the pity. MGD Hello, I was actually shocked that julia wrote me back when I contacted her. Months prior to that I had simply logged off and gone dancing and started hanging out at the Lair. Sinergy

HydroMaster -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 12:03:04 AM)
Two weeks? Did he just say...he did? Two weeks, I've been on this site alone looking since sometime in 05' , not to mention the local groups...not that there really is any in this area. I do have to agress about the cons and scam artists, they're quite relentless. But this place and the live clubs are free to all and there's no real way to screen them until they try to make their move on you. You just have to play it smart and hope for the best.

quietkitten -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 12:12:55 AM)
Holy guacamole.... 2 entire weeks...... and nothing yet????? If I were you I'd just give up. Clearly if you have not found that special someone in two weeks... well you are outta luck! Happy Trails :)

Rule -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 1:02:50 AM)
I have read in another thread by a horny new guy that needs help getting a slave, that the place to go is Wall Mart, aisle five. I do not know about subs, but I expect that they may be found in aisles six to ten.

HydroMaster -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 1:15:50 AM)
How have I managed to miss that part of the store? All that effort wasted. I could have just tossed one in the cart a long time ago while buying my eggs. Are they on sale this week? What's the stores policy on returns?

meatcleaver -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 2:20:05 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist In a lifestyle which bears it's hallmark as trust, there is little to none. I'm guessing it is mostly we who are to blame for that gentlemen. More's the pity. LOL Just got to laugh. My bete noir couldn't stop talking about trust and I trusted her implicity. What a naive fool I was! Since then I met several guys who had similar experiences with women in the so called 'lifestyle'. I have to admit, I have never experienced anywhere near the negative experiences I've had with women in the so called 'lifestyle'. Mistrust and betrayal seem to be par for the course and on top of that, you don't even get an appology to placate your anger. Needless to say I don't look for women in the lifestyle anymore, I introduce women I date to BDSM and its surprising how many so called vanilla women are more game than so called subs. I'd advise anyone to look outside the lifestyle for a better experience.

mgdartist -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 5:51:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist In a lifestyle which bears it's hallmark as trust, there is little to none. I'm guessing it is mostly we who are to blame for that gentlemen. More's the pity. LOL Just got to laugh. My bete noir couldn't stop talking about trust and I trusted her implicity. What a naive fool I was! Since then I met several guys who had similar experiences with women in the so called 'lifestyle'. I have to admit, I have never experienced anywhere near the negative experiences I've had with women in the so called 'lifestyle'. Mistrust and betrayal seem to be par for the course and on top of that, you don't even get an appology to placate your anger. Needless to say I don't look for women in the lifestyle anymore, I introduce women I date to BDSM and its surprising how many so called vanilla women are more game than so called subs. I'd advise anyone to look outside the lifestyle for a better experience. yep, before I came here, that's what I always did too. With one helluva lot better success rate. Does have it's pitfalls though. It seems cm is a pitfall in and of itself, however. But I'm no quitter, so I'll give this dump a full year. I wasted more time with people I liked a whole lot less... lol MGD

OffTheBeatenTrak -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 6:10:27 AM)
Unfortunatly there will always be people who want to use others for what ever reason, they are in all walks of life not just with in this "life style", and they always will be exist in some form or manor. Two words... Patience.&.Judgment..

stef -> RE: I wouldn't normally Complain But!!! (2/6/2007 6:27:47 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist yep, before I came here, that's what I always did too. With one helluva lot better success rate. Does have it's pitfalls though. It seems cm is a pitfall in and of itself, however. But I'm no quitter, so I'll give this dump a full year. I wasted more time with people I liked a whole lot less... May 13th can't come fast enough. ~stef

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