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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 4:14:30 PM

KaramelGoddess

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you are such a bug...lol...I love you too!

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 4:25:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

Ladies, what is your response when a person says you are not a genuine Domina?
This happened to Me for the first time recently and I got extremely annoyed and angry and lashed out - which I hate doing.
I know there are many here who have witty comebacks all the time, please share.
With kind regard,
~Kara

a simple "bite me" should suffice :) What they probably are doing is trying to goad you into an aggressive mode and cuss them out so they can finish masturbating.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/4/2007 4:33:10 PM

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a simple "bite me" should suffice :) What they probably are doing is trying to goad you into an aggressive mode and cuss them out so they can finish masturbating.

Ah LotusSong the ever wise. It's a negative way to get attention - yes I see.
What made Me even angrier is that in his profile he claims to be a novice!!! So WTF...???
I decided the block function is My new best friend, mmhmm, uh-huh.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 8:40:00 AM

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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

Ladies, what is your response when a person says you are not a genuine Domina?
This happened to Me for the first time recently and I got extremely annoyed and angry and lashed out - which I hate doing.
I know there are many here who have witty comebacks all the time, please share.
With kind regard,
~Kara

A better responce, perhaps, it to look at why do you have the need to lash out. It's made you angry...and anger is just another form of fear. What are you afraid of? These are questions I often have to ask myself, too.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 8:48:03 AM

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Not a Domina, but when someone calls me ingenuine, I usually respond with,

"Ok."

I've found they're usually striking out, and that simple word usually takes the wind out of their sails. There's very little they can come back with that doesn't make them look foolish, petty, or nasty.

For me (and perhaps it's because I identify as slave, not Dominant), biting back reflects poorly on me. I'd rather not give them fodder.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 8:49:44 AM

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my response? next!

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 9:31:23 AM

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I generally respond with "Well, now YOU'LL never know, will you? Good bye."

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 9:37:32 AM

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Would they even know a genuine Domme if she whacked him across the nose with a riding crop? I doubt it. I tell them if that is what you think then keep on moving.

No fuss and no worry on my end, I know the truth about me and frankly only my opinion and my subs matter.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 10:41:37 AM

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It's funny how so many have such narrow notions of what a Domme "looks like". Some want many, some want one. Women, men, it's all preferences.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 12:44:31 PM

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Dear KaramelGoddess, Ladies and Gentlemen;

It is easy to get one's pantaloons in a bunch, when someone deems another not a true/real Dominant. And, frankly--I've met some Dominants that are about as effective as air brakes on a turtle; let alone able to flog themselves out of a wet paper bag!

There will always be a group of individuals that make sport, make light or make it a mission to demean women who are Dominant. You would be surprise how many Dominant men, pose as submissive men for this very mission. These people are intimidated! But, one needs to remember that getting 'to you' is a form of control and manipulation. I rarely get my pantaloons in a wad but a few males on the forums continue to make it miserable on CM. But, what is even worse, is that they have to ruin the thread for the sake of Domina bashing.

For those who claim I am not a real/true Domina--I just say that I have plenty of people and newspaper proof, which is independent of the scene as proof I am.

I cannot express how important it is--to understand that we're all helpless when it comes to controlling other's behaviors. We can control our personal behavior and how we say and act, is the banner to which we create and maintain and follow. Consistancy.

I would not consider myself as an ugly player--using foul language or fighting unfair. However, one can get 'in their face' with facts and determination and or conviction.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 5:13:41 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

Ladies, what is your response when a person says you are not a genuine Domina?
This happened to Me for the first time recently and I got extremely annoyed and angry and lashed out - which I hate doing.
I know there are many here who have witty comebacks all the time, please share.
With kind regard,
~Kara

I'm not a dominant, but I've had people tell me I'm not a genuine submissive because I decided I wasn't right for them. I let them vent, for a few emails, but I never respond, and if it continues, I block. Simple as that. I really don't need anyone else dictating what I believe I am. That's probably the better response for you as well. If you let people you don't have an incentive to continue in your life affect your life, you'll suffer immensely with each encounter.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 5:24:38 PM

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A better responce, perhaps, it to look at why do you have the need to lash out. It's made you angry...and anger is just another form of fear. What are you afraid of? These are questions I often have to ask myself, too.

Master Fire

I'm not afraid of much besides spiders and lizards.
The lashing out...pure PMS grouchiness. And you'll notice I admitted I shouldn't have - I dislike Myself totally when I do it.
I've never heard of anger being considered another form of fear. Very little gets Me angry, but things like lying or being called a liar (not genuine) or people messing with My family or My boy - sorry that's not fear, that's just plain Crazy Horse Shaka Zulu mad!!!!

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 5:59:37 PM

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I've generally found that people who exclaim "you're not a real X", where "X" is for the topic at hand, have their heads right up their asses.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 8:52:11 PM

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ORIGINAL: DianeB269

You would crackup if you saw my blocked user list.

Diane

Hello Diane,

I checked out your yahoo group...fabulous. Keep up the good work, I have not been worked up to that point by my Mistress yet, but I am looking forward to the day. Very lucky boy you have.

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RE: Not Genuine? - 2/5/2007 9:19:00 PM

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ORIGINAL: KaramelGoddess

Ladies, what is your response when a person says you are not a genuine Domina?
This happened to Me for the first time recently and I got extremely annoyed and angry and lashed out - which I hate doing.
I know there are many here who have witty comebacks all the time, please share.
With kind regard,
~Kara

I appologize if I repeat any answers...

Define "genuine" is a good comeback.
Ask if they are "genuine"?
Obvisoulsy My idea of geniune and yours are completely different,your thinking of the genuine actresses* in the BDSM movies,I'm thinking genuine as in real person.
Those are the favs.

*Not meant to offend any BDSM Actresses and hopefully none were harmed in the posting of this.

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