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Replies - 1/27/2007 3:12:43 AM   
davidii


Posts: 6
Joined: 1/1/2007
Status: offline 		Having just joined, filled my profile with all my genuine details ... searched and sent messages with details, interests sexual and non sexual, to over 20 likemined people for chat/social/onfo about Munches, play etc in West Yorks/Lancs ..... only ONE reply!!

Why, Why dont people reply? it doesn't take a second and it is bad manners.

Am on another site and soooo different.

Does anyone else have this problem?
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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 4:21:47 AM   
kyraofMists


Posts: 3292
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Status: offline 		Do you reply to all the unsolicited mail that you get at your house?  Do you contact each and every person or company that sends you a flier, catalog or letter?

It's not bad manners, you just have unrealistic expectations of internet interactions.  When our house first signed up on this sight, we had the unrealistic expectation that people would actually read our profiles before contacting us.  We got over it; if someone from the other side contacts me without reading my profile, they will rarely get a reply and if they do it is just because I wish to toy with them and exercise my sadistic streak.  If I get emails from people on the forums because of something I wrote then I respond.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 4:38:06 AM   
aSlavesLife


Posts: 347
Joined: 12/1/2006
Status: offline 		Either L or myself reply to each and every initial piece of mail we receive, including the ones that don't deserve a response. L also replied to every piece of mail she received back when she was single. It is a chore, but it is only polite to do so. This is not junk mail that we are getting, and virtually everyone that writes has read our profile if not the full journal.

I would have to classify the rare form letter we get with the snailmail equivalent of junk mail, but even those get a standard, short reply.

Look at the bright side, the ones that don't respond are doing you a favor, as they obviously don't hold the same values that you do. If they are too lazy, inconsiderate, and have the overall lack of respect to respond to you, you certainly don't want to associate with them to begin with.

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 5:01:28 AM   
KatyLied


Posts: 13029
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From: Pennsylvania
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quote:

Does anyone else have this problem?


Yes, every other week someone whines about this. 

Guess what -- if they don't respond they: 1) aren't interested in you, or 2) aren't interested in junk email, or 3) aren't real (hehe)


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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 5:07:39 AM   
davidii


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Joined: 1/1/2007
Status: offline 		Thank you for your answers, my messages were genuine with details sexual and non-sexual and definitely not one liners even a picture, Perhaps we men dont appreciate how many messages submissive females get.

Messages from people on this site are not unsolicited mail as we do have somthing in common ie seeking friendship/fun within a bdsm lifestyle.

I am a confident person and believe in fate,

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 5:16:50 AM   
kyraofMists


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quote:

ORIGINAL: davidii

Messages from people on this site are not unsolicited mail as we do have somthing in common ie seeking friendship/fun within a bdsm lifestyle.,


Having something in common is not the same thing as soliciting mail.  And it is an assumption on your part that we are all seeking friendship, because our house is on this site but we are not seeking friendships.  We come to the boards to read and post.  Friendships or any other types of relationships are just a bonus, icing on the cake, something we are open to and not something we are seeking.

Knight's kyra

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 5:33:54 AM   
Aileen68


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quote:

ORIGINAL: davidii

my messages were genuine with details sexual and non-sexual and definitely not one liners


That may be one of your problems right there.  To me, that's the equivalent of a stranger walking up to me in the supermarket and asking me if I like it up the ass.  I've always found it rude when on an initial contact, someone throws in all kinds of sexual details.  All I can think of at that point is wanker.

< Message edited by Aileen68 -- 1/27/2007 5:34:26 AM >

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:06:13 AM   
mnottertail


Posts: 60698
Joined: 11/3/2004
Status: offline 		Well, I think my interest in this matter boils down to; Have you ever?

Ron 

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:08:35 AM   
Aileen68


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Status: offline 		Have I ever what?

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:12:43 AM   
RedSavageSlave


Posts: 733
Joined: 9/12/2006
Status: offline 		wanked??

LOL

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:13:53 AM   
mnottertail


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quote:

To me, that's the equivalent of a stranger walking up to me in the supermarket and asking me if I like it up the ass.


Cause if you have EVER taken them up on it, looks like I am going to town to do some shopping, and will revive my leaving collarme thread again, so everybody knows where I am.

Lustfully,
Ron


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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:15:09 AM   
BOUNTYHUNTER


Posts: 9259
Joined: 2/5/2004
Status: offline 		NO I DON'T HAVE THIS PROBLEM IN FACT WE ARE OVER RUN WITH RESPONSES.I HAVEN'T CHECK YOUR PROFILE,JUST MAYBE YOU ARE A BIT TOO PUSHY IN YOUR MAIL.I WOULD SAY YOU NEED TO TONE IT DOWN A BIT FOR THE FIRST CONTACT..OF COURSES AL ALWAYS JUST THE VIEWS OF THIS'OL' MASTER...WILLIAM

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:17:32 AM   
Aileen68


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quote:

ORIGINAL: mnottertail

quote:

To me, that's the equivalent of a stranger walking up to me in the supermarket and asking me if I like it up the ass.


Cause if you have EVER taken them up on it, looks like I am going to town to do some shopping, and will revive my leaving collarme thread again, so everybody knows where I am.

Lustfully,
Ron



Heeheehee.  If you ever showed up in the produce aisle with a zucchini then I'd be all yours.

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:26:06 AM   
eyesopened


Posts: 2798
Joined: 6/12/2006
From: Tampa, FL
Status: offline 		From reading your profile i would see you as someone who is looking for a casual friends-with-benefits situation.  There's nothing wrong with that.  i don't know which 20 you sent messages to but if their profiles indicated they were looking for more of a relationship than you are prepared to offer, that may be why they didn't respond. 

i don't get more than a small handful of emails per week so i am able to respond with a "no thanks" or other polite response but i hear that some get literally hundreds of emails and it may take time to slog through them all.


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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:39:22 AM   
domiguy


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Aileen68

quote:

ORIGINAL: davidii

my messages were genuine with details sexual and non-sexual and definitely not one liners


That may be one of your problems right there.  To me, that's the equivalent of a stranger walking up to me in the supermarket and asking me if I like it up the ass.  I've always found it rude when on an initial contact, someone throws in all kinds of sexual details.  All I can think of at that point is wanker.


The op is not all wrong here...Geez!...See it's women like this, op, that run around with their  "stick anything in my ass" t-shirt on and then get "all bent out of shape" when someone comments on it.

It reminds me of that time that I was at the grocery store and this woman was with her kids and I stated to  her "so I can see you like it in the ass."....Oh my god!...if you could have seen the look she gave me, right before she called the manager of the store and the police....What a Bitch!...For Christs sake, she had  3 kids with her...meaning she at least had been fucked three times! And ya got to figure she probably had a miscarriage or two or maybe one of her kids had died or was somewhere else...So I think it was safe to assume she had been nailed at least a handful of times!

Anywhoo where was I?  Oh yeah...Well everytime I have screwed anyone lately anal has always been on  the menu...So you tell me, what's up with that shit?....Everytime she got rammed and the end result was (9 months later) more people using Domiguy's air...You tell me that whore wasn't taking it in the can!...Some people just don't know how to respond to a gentleman....for shits sake! Moral of the story... women are rude,nasty self centered and dirty critters......Oh yeah I punched the store manager...and ran out before the police arrived...without paying for my babywipes...See I had got the flu..and my ass was reeeeaaaalllllllly sore!...Story for another time.

out.

D.G.

p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.

< Message edited by domiguy -- 1/27/2007 7:05:19 AM >

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:47:51 AM   
BiteGirl


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Joined: 4/27/2006
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quote:

ORIGINAL: KatyLied

quote:

Does anyone else have this problem?


Yes, every other week someone whines about this. 

Guess what -- if they don't respond they: 1) aren't interested in you, or 2) aren't interested in junk email, or 3) aren't real (hehe)



or 4 have bulk mail settings that have filtered you out.

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:49:31 AM   
Aileen68


Posts: 6091
Joined: 8/2/2005
Status: offline 		You know...I've lost my "stick anything in my ass" t shirt and I've been sad ever since.  It was such an ice breaker. 

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 6:54:00 AM   
hidemyeyes


Posts: 39
Joined: 11/29/2005
Status: offline 		i'm sure i have a spare somewhere *grins* i could lend you one

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 7:11:07 AM   
junecleaver


Posts: 1145
Joined: 4/6/2005
Status: offline 		Generally, I ignore e-mails with ANYTHING sexual in them.  Why waste more of your time by sending you an e-mail to read when I don't want to get to know you?   Maybe it works for some people, but I do not find it attractive when someone just lists out all their kinks right off the bat.  It doesn't matter if our kinks are identical if we don't get along as people first.  Y'know?

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RE: Replies - 1/27/2007 7:15:44 AM   
Devilslilsister


Posts: 1262
Joined: 8/3/2006
Status: offline 		i try and reply to everyone.  Even the ejits that email me.  I replied to one ejit who asked "are you busy this weekend" and my reply was "i'm busy being pregnant until i drop in June" he responded with "would you like to be eaten out"  When i feel like it, i will probably respond back with "maybe you need to go back to first grade, learn to read again, and then re read my profile"  Or maybe i will just ask him how many clues i have to give him before he catches on.  

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