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leahh -> remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:03:32 PM)
*does anyone remember their first public sceaning at a dungeon or play party and how they felt before and afterwards ?*

DiurnalVampire -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:05:04 PM)
I have still never had a dungeon or play party scene. I feel so... sheltered DV

leahh -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:07:06 PM)
*Ah you are in for such a treat [:D]*

michaelOfGeorgia -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:08:08 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leahh *does anyone remember their first public sceaning at a dungeon or play party and how they felt before and afterwards ?* no

Aileen68 -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:08:11 PM)
I've never had a public scene. It's not anything I'd ever be interested in or comfortable with. I'm a very private person. My first time privately was incredibly wild and intense. It's a day I'll remember forever.

mnottertail -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:14:56 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leahh *does anyone remember their first public sceaning at a dungeon or play party and how they felt before and afterwards ?* The closest I can come to a public scene was drunk in Hochenheim, Germany--- up from a Ratskeller with a girl and on main street I peeled her and more or less crucifixed her on a plate glass window of a shoe store...the fuckin glass was vibrating and making thrumming noises as I was attempting to park the cadillac in the garage, cars driving by and honking thier horns and people yelling generally supportive phrases and slogans out the car windows and all along I was thinking if we go thru this plateglass windo and get speared by a shard of glass, I hope my mother doesn't read bad headlines in my hometown paper about it----I don't want to be remembered this way....but it wasn't a terribly sobering thought---- Ron

MysticFireTopaz -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:15:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leahh *does anyone remember their first public sceaning at a dungeon or play party and how they felt before and afterwards ?* Yes, very distinctly. I had been in the lifestyle for eight years the first time I played publicly in a dungeon six years ago. At first it was a little distracting. I started playing early in the evening, so there were no other scenes going on at the time. I felt that all eyes were upon Me and the submissive I was playing with. Pretty soon, though, I really got into the scene. I seemed to enter an altered state of consciousness and was only focused on Myself and the submissive. I was vaguely aware of people passing by, but by then I didn't care. In fact, it almost seemed like I fed off their attention. There was sort of a primal feeling from playing in public that I had not experienced in private that I really liked. Afterward, I was still on a high and felt like I had gone though a type of initiation. I will always have fond memories of that night. Lady Topaz

MasterFireMaam -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:17:49 PM)
I was nervous, but not overly so. I'd been playing in private and with a friend/mentor for a while, so I halfway knew what I was doing and had a toy bag. When the only other Fem Dom (a Pro of 10+ years at the time) complimented me, I didn't feel so bad. I seem to recall asking her if I could play with the guy so he must have been one of hers, which is why she watched, I imagine (or to simply check out the other Fem Dom). She and I are still good aquaintences today and I recommend her establishment all the time. Now, the first time I ever went to ANY kind of meeting...yeah, I remember that. The demo was about coming on command. I also remember walking into my first MAsT meeting. Even though that MAsT group was discussion only, it was as nerve racking as the play group. I've always wanted Master/slave...and I get nervous when I'm pursuing something I really want. Now, I'm Chapter Director of that group (although, we just went inactive). Walking into MAsT and meeting those people is probably the most memorable "first" for me. Master Fire

leahh -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:18:53 PM)
*Master Mnottertail, LMAO* *Mistress i feel exactly the same with public sceaning and i have to say i am addicted*

MasterFireMaam -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:19:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: DiurnalVampire I have still never had a dungeon or play party scene. I feel so... sheltered DV If you're anywhere near NC, come and visit before I move. I'll take you to the Fem Dom group, FAD. They're great people. Master Fire

Devilslilsister -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:21:17 PM)
Yup, i do. Well sorta - it was either one of two events. I had turned 18 a couple of days before and met up with a friend i had met online. He was taking me down to a club in DC called Bound. I think the first time was when he was looking on and some one he knew or something was flogging me. Seemed like the one flogging me really enjoyed it and gave me a few compliments about my endurance as he worked me "up" through different floggers (least its what he said). I remember it feeling like a "dull thud" and mentally commenting "it feels pretty much like my big brother hitting me in the back". I also remember my legs being extremely shaky and weak and wondering..... whats up with that! I thought it all very peculiar, but fell in love with floggers. It was good company and good times. The one wielding the flogger was very nice and jolly, was well known in the club (least i think so), and seemed to know what he was doing. (atleast thats the general consensus i got from those around me). Plus i had a friend with me that i thought was trustworthy. As for the complete accuracy of my details. They could be a group of memories together like - the first time i went to the club and a time i was flogged there or i could be remembering correctly. Who knows, it was ages ago.. The only way i'd know if i'm remembering correctly, is to get my friend to come and post. And that seems abit extreme. lol

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:31:50 PM)
http://www.collarchat.com/m_576521/mpage_1/key_first/tm.htm#576524 First time Party http://www.collarchat.com/m_323269/mpage_1/key_first/tm.htm#323597 First Lifestyle Meeting http://www.collarchat.com/m_311113/mpage_1/key_first%252Cparty/tm.htm#311125 Your First Experience http://www.collarchat.com/m_291346/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#291346 1st Time at the Wet Spot http://www.collarchat.com/m_195507/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#195507 Behaviors and Reactions During Play http://www.collarchat.com/m_78610/mpage_1/key_first%252Ctime%252Cclub%252Cplay/tm.htm#78610 Question about First Time Scenes http://www.collarchat.com/m_249091/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#249091 My first real scene! http://www.collarchat.com/m_221923/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#221923 First Play party http://www.collarchat.com/m_202913/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#202913 Novice Reactions http://www.collarchat.com/m_95381/mpage_1/key_first%252Cscene/tm.htm#95381 "playing" on the first meet?

SimplyMichael -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:35:14 PM)
I was fucking scared shitless. It was a really pansexual party, with hard core leather dykes doing intense needle play, fucking people with crosses, screaming and the like. I had been to a number of events but I didn't play casually and had only recently met my submissive. So, never had scened in public, had zero skills and no toys. Oh, and this was the first party put on by the group I had formed, so no pressure there either! Lucky for me my submissive was a bit of a performer and while she never said so I am sure that helped. I don't remember the exact details but think I had her on the cross and used every part of my body to touch and tease her, getting close, pulling away. I remember something about water, dripping it on her like cum, teasing her with it or something. I guess I am getting old, I am surprised but I guess it was the terror. I was so proud when the leader of the lesbian group later complimented me on my connection with my submissive, that I remember. God that woman was fucking glorious.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:38:45 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: leahh Ah you are in for such a treat Eh, not always. First times are not always best times. I don't know anyone who says that the time they lost their virginity was their best experience at sex. Some scenes are hot, some are intense, some totally suck and go bad. A "first time" usually is good because it's well planned and it's a "first" for the person so ANYTHING you do will pretty much blow their mind. Not that this is bad- just need to realize that a first public scene should have realistic expectations.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:40:04 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Devilslilsister He was taking me down to a club in DC called Bound. The club is actually The Green Lantern. Bound is a group that sponsors a Friday night party there. I thought the 20 sq feet of play was a bit limiting for me.

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:41:06 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: SimplyMichael I was fucking scared shitless. It was a really pansexual party, with hard core leather dykes doing intense needle play, fucking people with crosses, screaming and the like. I had been to a number of events but I didn't play casually and had only recently met my submissive. While I wasn't scared shitless, the first time I did a solo public scene as a top, I definitely was anxious and worried. As well as the first time I switched during a party.

mymasterssub69 -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:44:01 PM)
i was a very bad sub when i did this. after reviewing a band (friends of mine), we decided to go to Exit, a punk-biker bar here in Chicago. if you go upstairs, they have a mini dungeon play area where 3 Mistresses will spank/flogg you for 15minutes. of course i took the challenge (need to learn how to back down from one) and the guys paid for my 15 minute spanking time. oh what a rush i felt when the slave locked my wrists in the leather handcuffs to the chain link fencing. i took a deep breath as she smacked my arse hard but i was already in my subspace not feeling a single one afterwards. it turns out after it was over the guys paid for a 30minute session and was also told i was the best "sub" they had that night. one major problem occurred for me - i couldn't come down from my subspace high ...it took me a long time for it wear off even feeling how sore my right butt was didn't break me out of it. plus telling Daddy what i did with the guys didn't help either - earned me a punishment (for being a public pain slut and being a lady) and lecture for days. not only did i get reprimanded by Daddy but also the special collarme guy (i'm currently dating) gave me one further stressing what Daddy was scolding me about. i have to admit my curosity does get me into trouble a lot but once the subspace high finally wore off (24hrs later), i regretted doing it. now when i go to event hosted by Mistress Xena this Saturday - i promised both i would be a good girl.

angelic -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 6:53:56 PM)
i have never "scened" in public. However, i did go to the local dungeon once. i did not like it, felt very uncomfortable and i left feeling very much like i did not fit in. i have never been back.

domiguy -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 7:13:11 PM)
No thanks...I will stick to the forums...Don't have to get out of my "bubble"....You all have too many cooties and germs (Domiguy pushes frail,pale and emaciated naked body up against bubble lining...hiding face with blanky). out. D.G. p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.

Aileen68 -> RE: remember the first time? (1/25/2007 7:18:02 PM)
I'm sorry the answer we were looking for was "Moops."

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