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BlindDescent -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/25/2007 11:14:35 AM)

There is always the fine line being walked here consisting of ceding control and stupidity. The inherent format of Dom/Domme knows best and is always right is simply far too variable to  be taken as a no flaw law.  What do you think will happen if there are no safeguards in place? This applies to both sides of the coin. I agree with prudence and time being the safest way to evaluate the rightness of any realtionship for two(or more) people. As an aside....there seems to be more truth to the urban rumors that Ds is the end point for many who can't find a connection in other dating pools. This may be part of so many misery stories we hear. People who are applying incomplete motive or expectation combined without really understanding the culture can only end in bad energy.



spenser -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/25/2007 12:10:00 PM)

its good to see a master that does care .



LaTigresse -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/25/2007 12:26:32 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Kana

The twist on an old joke:
Q:How do you know when two BDSM people are on a second date?
A:There is a moving van in the driveway



There is a similar joke about lesbians. Could be why I lead such a sparse social life...........



CreativeDominant -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/25/2007 2:12:44 PM)

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ORIGINAL: lucreziaborgia

What the f*ck is a slave supposed to do?

all the time:

where are the "real" slaves. why won't she submit. submit bitch or you are a fake. Kneel...

"property of.... soandsomasteroftheuniverse"  I worship Mistress Satana and will do anything for Her! "let's play!"

vs.

"grow up!"  be responsible - hold out on the bastards!"  Take no shit from anybody.. if it is a hard limit for you. Tell master to go blow himself.  "I do whatever I want, all the time, and cry when I have to make the bed- cause i'm no doormat!"  See ya!

Anyone see the hypocrisy?


As a matter of fact, no...I don't see the hypocrisy.  Submission does not equal being irresponsible.  Nor does it equal not being grown up.  Submission means yielding of your will to another, not your brain or your ability to think...despite what some on both sides of the flogger may believe.

Having the financial wherewithal to take care of yourself if you find yourself out in the cold does not mean that you now have the right or the ability to say "Go blow yourself, that is not what I want to submit to".  There is responsibility as a grown-up and responsibility as a submissive/dominant...sometimes the lists of duties of each correlate and sometimes they don't.  It doesn't mean that they can't and shouldn't co-exist.

Personally, I want an adult to submit to me because she wants to....not because she doesn't have the financial means or the ability to take care of herself.



Rule -> RE: Discarding a slave (1/25/2007 5:01:19 PM)

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ORIGINAL: LuvnHome4FemSub
She is 43. It all was negotiated before she went to the couple. She was to live in 24/7 slavery to them, and they in turn would make sure her living needs were taken care of. She cleaned the 3 homes they own, where family lives, every day. Took care of their children, whom she didn't know of til she got there, cooked, cleaned....all the domestics. This was all agreed to before she got there. It was all on paper and signed by all...which we all know holds no legal water, though it should hold integrity. 

Cannot this be regarded as a housekeeper/nanny contract? Has she consulted an attorney to see whether it is possible to claim appropriate wages?



CelticPrince -> RE: Kicking a slave out of your home with nothing at all... (1/25/2007 5:37:09 PM)

Lunv,

Your plan is good but I think that fostering a bit of independence is a better way to go.

Allow the sub/slave to work part time and keep all he/she makes.

CP



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