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how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:09:55 AM   
Falonthas


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Status: offline 		now this is placed here because this has nothing to do with anyone chosen variation but as a whole

everyone here knows when they find their match that clicks on all levels you run with it
there is nothing but harmony in all aspects that are shown and the pairing thrives

then when one who is so pathetic that they cant even stand up and say they hate someone

no they have to stoop and hide and create lies and deceptions to break the pair apart
to put such uncertainty into the one side that the small steps she has made to leave all her past strife behind
drops her right back into that gaping pit
and she feels alone and doesnt want any help or anyone to ever speak to her again

how petty can those people be to make up things to ruin anothers happiness,just because they are so unhappy themselves
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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:17:58 AM   
Rover


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The lifestyle is not therapy, and (with few exceptions) we are not therapists.
 
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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:18:23 AM   
valeca


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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:19:26 AM   
Dnomyar


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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:20:15 AM   
mymasterssub69


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Falonthas
how petty can those people be to make up things to ruin anothers happiness,just because they are so unhappy themselves


i agree

jealousy is such a green-eyed monster among those who are unhappy with their current situation and are too scared to do something about it. yet they delight in ruining the happiness of others around them until they are miserable like them.


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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:35:27 AM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		You sound like some one i know, who is always blaming crap on other people yet never has the balls to stand up and take responsiblity for for their actions. 

No one can ruin your "stuff" but you.  If your stuff is strong and unbreakable it matters not what others say.  If your stuff is not strong and breakable then anything can tear it apart.  If its not strong and unbreakable, then maybe you might want to sit down and FIGURE OUT WHY its not strong and unbreakable instead of running around blaming everyone else. 

but then if you are like the person i know...... you couldnt possibly do that because you never do anything wrong, its never your fault and its ALWAYS some one elses fault. 

Your crap is obviously breakable........ no go figure out why and stop blaming the breakage on others.

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:47:11 AM   
Falonthas


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Status: offline 		when the something is from an outside source who knows nothing about me
and fabricates it all
its not fixable by me

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:54:38 AM   
drawntothedark


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quote:

ORIGINAL: RiotGirl


No one can ruin your "stuff" but you.  If your stuff is strong and unbreakable it matters not what others say.  If your stuff is not strong and breakable then anything can tear it apart.  If its not strong and unbreakable, then maybe you might want to sit down and FIGURE OUT WHY its not strong and unbreakable instead of running around blaming everyone else. 



I agree.

The only person who can truely break you down is yourself. The only power someone has over you is the power you give them. If you react like this when they do something you just gave them the power.


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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:55:07 AM   
mam


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Status: offline 		then only worry about what you can fix and drive on. Its your life

(unless you are in jail or the army...)

mam

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 6:59:51 AM   
LuckyAlbatross


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Status: offline 		You can't break a couple up if you're strong together.

And I agree with Rover- she made her own choices, she is choosing to remain afraid.

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 7:24:04 AM   
KeirasSecret


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Status: offline 		Just currious, did you give the girl the collar on the day you made the entry?

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 7:50:55 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		Hmmm...  if so, that would be really sad for it to only last 4 days...
 


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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 7:52:23 AM   
dawntreader


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quote:

ORIGINAL: drawntothedark

quote:

ORIGINAL: RiotGirl


No one can ruin your "stuff" but you.  If your stuff is strong and unbreakable it matters not what others say.  If your stuff is not strong and breakable then anything can tear it apart.  If its not strong and unbreakable, then maybe you might want to sit down and FIGURE OUT WHY its not strong and unbreakable instead of running around blaming everyone else. 



I agree.

The only person who can truely break you down is yourself. The only power someone has over you is the power you give them. If you react like this when they do something you just gave them the power.


i agree too and am dealing with all of this myself...

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 7:58:00 AM   
domiguy


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Status: offline 		This post makes little or no sense to me.....You are way to old to come out and complain about a failed realationship...unless this is a diabolical attempt to coupe some sympathetic gash....Brilliant!

quote:

ORIGINAL: Falonthas

"now this is placed here because this has nothing to do with anyone chosen variation but as a whole

everyone here knows when they find their match that clicks on all levels you run with it
there is nothing but harmony in all aspects that are shown and the pairing thrives"
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I have never found harmony on all levels...doesn't exist.  Apparently you have never found it either or are so out of touch you thought you really did.....Either way this ,still, better be a strategically placed post to lure in some equally disturbed snatch...You sly dog you!
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"then when one who is so pathetic that they cant even stand up and say they hate someone"
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What did you do to her to make her hate you?  ....Ahhh Ha! You were an angel! The tide is turning and the cum dumpsters who frequent this site are feeling you were betrayed....Falonthas! Break out the nipple clamps...You will soon be back in business!...Genius! Pure fucking Genius!
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"how petty can those people be to make up things to ruin anothers happiness,just because they are so unhappy themselves."

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You touched me man! Why do these Mother Fuckers,out here, have to ruin Falonthas and Domiguy's happy spots just because they are such selfish slits?  (Domiguy wipes away tear...like the "Old Indian" in that commercial about littering)

You are a proud warrior from the planet Gor( Not sure if there are warriors on Gor...domiguy smirking) Go forth and prosper...or nanu nanu! or whatever it is that you folks do.....There are plenty of other pathetic meat wallets out here who I'm sure you willl be able to get your paws on... so straighten up that back and hold your head up high you Gorian thing-a-ma-jig!

This post was intended to be "misogynistic" because I know how this sort of shit doesn't fly very well on this site...lol.
 
out.
 
D.G.
 
p.s. Jesusu please protect me from your followers.

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 8:16:43 AM   
dawntreader


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Status: offline 		LMAO! meatwallets? that's a new term to me!

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 8:22:59 AM   
juliaoceania


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Falonthas


how petty can those people be to make up things to ruin anothers happiness,just because they are so unhappy themselves


Because misery loves company. I have had something similar happen to me, but refused to take a stranger's words over the person that I love... Basically I considered the source, and it was a hateful one.

We cannot be responsible for what other people do, nor can we allow other people's words to determine what we will do or think.

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 8:46:57 AM   
Falonthas


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Status: offline 		just needed to vent some frustration  as im sure all of us do from time to time and its easier to type when your angry then go out drinking and who knows what might happen

meat wallets
such an interesting concept

even though i have learned something is to never try to be putting coherent thought into words when your vision is clouded red

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 8:49:51 AM   
Kondolinni


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Status: offline 		Not difficult to see why these kinds of posts are not well received.

None of my business. Not my problem. Why are you bothering me with this?

Sorry, but I don't know the play or the players.

Inappopriate post.

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 11:12:33 AM   
MistressSassy66


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Falonthas

now this is placed here because this has nothing to do with anyone chosen variation but as a whole

everyone here knows when they find their match that clicks on all levels you run with it
there is nothing but harmony in all aspects that are shown and the pairing thrives

then when one who is so pathetic that they cant even stand up and say they hate someone

no they have to stoop and hide and create lies and deceptions to break the pair apart
to put such uncertainty into the one side that the small steps she has made to leave all her past strife behind
drops her right back into that gaping pit
and she feels alone and doesnt want any help or anyone to ever speak to her again

how petty can those people be to make up things to ruin anothers happiness,just because they are so unhappy themselves



I dont have an answer...all I know is some people have made it their career to be mean and petty.
I cope by getting those people out of My daily life.

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RE: how petty can some in our chosen lifestyle be - 1/19/2007 11:25:22 AM   
mnottertail


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quote:


You touched me man! Why do these Mother Fuckers,out here, have to ruin Falonthas and Domiguy's happy spots just because they are such selfish slits?  (Domiguy wipes away tear...like the "Old Indian" in that commercial about littering)


I feel a nationally coordinated add campaign comin' on here....

Fade in, Victoria Pricipal as  Land o' Lakes Butter Gash, waiving her painties accross the Gitchegoome at  Denholm Elliots portrayal of Ten Bears Fron d'Boef, as the panties are torn from Butter Gashes hand by the furious wind and cut to shot of panties floating down the Hiawatha River -- Cut back to Ten Bears wiping his eye wistfully and a caption under  'Littering slits are not it'

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