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RE: Question - 1/19/2007 7:01:12 AM

RiotGirl

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LOL i used to write letters like that....... and send them to my family. My family calls them my "i hate you die" letters. What an angry teenager i was!

I have found some one, who knows one of the people involved and we are at a stand point in our "figuring" crap out. Our stand point is - one of the people involved has TWO sides to them.

One on side the person has the attributes to a knight and on the other side the person is a fucking demon. What do you do?

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RE: Question - 1/19/2007 7:05:39 AM

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1) Write a letter to the person - which you are never going to mail. This makes it "safe" to say what you really want to say. And you can go off into self narrative as you need to as well eg, not just how this pisses you off, but looking at yourself to evaluate why it pisses you off.

She writes letters to me all the time - except she actually sends them to me - ouch!!!

LOL

Hey... if I didnt like you, I wouldnt keep replying now, would I?

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RE: Question - 1/19/2007 7:27:24 AM

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

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ORIGINAL: LadyEllen

1) Write a letter to the person - which you are never going to mail. This makes it "safe" to say what you really want to say. And you can go off into self narrative as you need to as well eg, not just how this pisses you off, but looking at yourself to evaluate why it pisses you off.

She writes letters to me all the time - except she actually sends them to me - ouch!!!

LOL

Hey... if I didnt like you, I wouldnt keep replying now, would I?

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I'm just kidding you my dear - I like you very much too :-D

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RE: Question - 1/19/2007 7:34:42 AM

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I think i've decided that since it is almost a he said/she said with no postive proof of what was said, i'm going to have to error on the side of caution. Better to be safe then sorry. Obviously it leaves everything unresolved, leaves doubt and will affect my relationship with two people. The alternative is to believe something i dont believe or start a massive battle. Neither option is in my best interest.

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I have found some one, who knows one of the people involved and we are at a stand point in our "figuring" crap out. Our stand point is - one of the people involved has TWO sides to them.

One on side the person has the attributes to a knight and on the other side the person is a fucking demon. What do you do?

This person is a demon. Reduce your interaction with this person. Be elsewhere when this person is expected. Make sure that you have valid alternatives: "I would love to visit, but I do have classes that I MUST attend".

I gather that your master likes to interact with this person. Wait a bit until matters cool down, then broach the subject again. Make the point that you are his slave and that he is responsible for you and that this demon person causes you to not feel safe and consequently that this interferes with and endangers your master-slave relationship. Suggest that the best course of conduct is to phase out this demon person from your lives.
Do not argue with your master. Just let him ponder the matter. If he does not change his mind, let it cool down again and after some time bring it up again.

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