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RE: Help and advise - 1/18/2007 6:39:39 AM

Dnomyar

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Why tell him anything. If he has that mindset already then he is useless to you. Move on.

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RE: Help and advise - 1/18/2007 6:53:19 AM

MzTlaz

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Oh hell I'd drop him in a NY second. He doesn't sound at all like a sub....just another horny guy. Try telling him that you're really looking to explore forced chastity with a male sub, that you like to deny sex for really long periods of time....months! Show him some of the male chastity devices at The Stockroom.

Watch out for those who will tell you you're not a "true/real" Domme unless you have sex with your subs.....trust me you'll hear that a lot. Heads up....a lot of men use the D/s world to get laid. Yeah....I know, it's shocking isn't it?

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RE: Help and advise - 1/18/2007 8:58:14 AM

freakgoddess

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consider yourself lucky he revealed his tendency to top from the bottom early on...and keep looking for submissive men.

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RE: Help and advise - 1/18/2007 1:09:26 PM

LadyCrazy

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I would again like to thank everyone for their advise and I am going to put him on ignore and block, we did try to chat today and yet again he was demanding what he wanted and all he keeps saying is all his previous Mistresses used to force wank him so I am now getting the feeling that it is just sex hes after and not to fullfill my deep desires as a Domme.

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