julietsierra
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Well, I presume that since intoxication means under the influence of alcohol, that you're saying an intoxication fetish is someone who can't find sexual gratification without being drunk. If someone needs to get drunk in order to enjoy sex with me, then he really needs to find someone else to be with. If he needs me to be drunk in order to have sex with him, then he really needs to get some help for whatever insecurities he has that makes him think that that's the only way someone could possibly be with him. If he just likes me drunk so he can feel as if he's taking advantage of me, then... well....that's not play in my book because I can't consent to something if I'm not sober enough to know what I'm consenting to. Alcohol numbs my body and I'll take my D/s and SM straight up thank you very much. While having a drink is not a problem, I don't have much toleration for people who get drunk around me. And that would mean every single person, from my parents to my colleagues to my adult children to my Master. 18 years living with an alcoholic... an abusive alcoholic. I'll never put myself in that position again. Never ever again. And I'm not EVEN having the discussion over whether someone's over-indulgence is or is not due to alcoholism. I'm not second guessing anyone when it comes to my life anymore. Get drunk around me and I'll call you a cab, but beyond picking your keys/car up the next day, I never want to see you again. I guess you could say I'm not interested. juliet
< Message edited by julietsierra -- 1/8/2007 11:47:20 PM >
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