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MzMia -> Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/6/2007 9:11:14 PM)

Okay Asking all Mistresses/and those that come here  
 
I am curious, I commonly see profiles and journals and ads where male submissives express an interest in forced bisexual activities.  I have never seen an ad or profile or journal for a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities.
Ladies, is this a male thing?  LOL
Have you EVER ran across a female interested in FORCED-bisexual activities?
If so the ratio must be 1 million males to 50 females with this interest.
Is this a male submissive thing?[:D]
If so, why? LOL



SweetDommes -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/6/2007 9:12:23 PM)

My theory is that there isn't nearly the stigma associated with female bisexuality as there is with male bisexuality.  If a male wants it, but doesn't want to admit it, then being "forced" aleviates any doubts he might have.



mnottertail -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/6/2007 9:18:40 PM)

seriously, I think the most far out woman in her dreams would be fairly vanilla or that which you care to call it to her counterpart in men.

Doesn't make it wrong or right, it just makes it what it is.

Well, I could go on and on, but considering this forum, I will avail myself of any couth I might possess.

Ron(ne)



onestandingstill -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/6/2007 10:03:51 PM)





I am not bisexal but have had bisexual encounters as I was ordered to by my Dom at the time.
While I'm not into girls I did enjoy the experience.
suzanne





MzMia -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/6/2007 10:21:25 PM)

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ORIGINAL: SweetDommes

My theory is that there isn't nearly the stigma associated with female bisexuality as there is with male bisexuality.  If a male wants it, but doesn't want to admit it, then being "forced" aleviates any doubts he might have.


That sums up how I feel about it. LOL Notice how many profiles on here BEG for it?



MzMia -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/6/2007 10:22:31 PM)

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ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

I am not bisexal but have had bisexual encounters as I was ordered to by my Dom at the time.
While I'm not into girls I did enjoy the experience.
suzanne





Thank you, I mean that, I was not sure that it existed for females submissives.
You do indeed learn something every day. [;)]



onestandingstill -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 6:20:06 AM)

quote]ORIGINAL: MzMia

Thank you, I mean that, I was not sure that it existed for females submissives.
You do indeed learn something every day. [;)]
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You are most welcome.



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julietsierra -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 6:30:01 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Have you EVER ran across a female interested in FORCED-bisexual activities?
If so the ratio must be 1 million males to 50 females with this interest.
Is this a male submissive thing?[:D]
If so, why? LOL


Well, I don't know if it's a male thing or not, but I do know there are many things that I have an interest in but not the courage to attempt, and that there's a part of me that kind of wishes my Master would force me to do. Bisexuality was/is just one of those things.

So far, he's placed me in situations where I've been on the receiving end of this play, but not on the giving end. That may or may not happen. It's up to him. I know that if not for him, I would not necessarily seek these situations out even though my experience has been that I've enjoyed what we've done so far and I've genuinely liked the women we've been with.

I don't know if this makes me one of the 50 or not.

juliet



QuietlySeeking -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 7:41:23 AM)

I have had one submissive who was "straight" who turned out to be hetero-flexible when "forced" to have sexual relations with a woman.  At first, she did it to please me, but began to enjoy it enough not necessarily to call herself "bi" because she wasn't interested if a third party wasn't watching her...*laughing*



bandit25 -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 7:44:17 AM)

I think it's partly because of the stigama thing but also so many men think girl on girl is so hot that you can be pretty sure a man is going to "force" you into it.  All you have to do is mention you might be interested.....



onestandingstill -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 8:06:16 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuietlySeeking

I have had one submissive who was "straight" who turned out to be hetero-flexible when "forced" to have sexual relations with a woman.  At first, she did it to please me, but began to enjoy it enough not necessarily to call herself "bi" because she wasn't interested if a third party wasn't watching her...*laughing*

My take on the whole thing is probably not the norm.
I was totally pussy phobic for most of my adult life.
I find women beautiful, but it's not something that I see in sexual ways.
It's more of an appreciate beauty where you find it thing for me.
I'm just not emotionally attracted to a woman like I respond to a hot man.
In that (back to the pussy phobia) I had thought a woman would be all wet and slimy like a slug.
The first time I was instructed to go down on a girl I was a nervous wreck wondering how grossed out I was going to be.
Well when I finally got there and all it was was clean skin it was not such a horrible thing though again it did not turn me on.
What it did did was give me a strong sense of controlling that womans pleasure.
Being I'm a woman I knew how she was feeling by her physical reactions to the stimulus I was providing.
Once it was done it's not like I wish or desire to be with another woman, but it was quite a learning experience, and an empowering sense of controlling her pleasure felt good to me.
On top of that serving her and feeling her responding to my moves was very good for my ego.
I've now done this in the past two years a total of 4 times.
Though I'm not working toward girl to girl contact if it does happen there's things like fisting and being fisted by a woman I'm curious about,
One- to see how it feels to have a much smaller hand than I've accommodated so far, and 2- to see what it feels like to wear a girl on my arm.
For me the thoughts and desires to play with a woman are not geared to the woman, but more to the sensations and learning experiences it affords me & being visually pleasing for the Dom that ordered it.

So in a nut shell I think I'm not bi, but I don't mind f/f contact.
Does that make sense to anyone but me???
suzanne



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 8:55:08 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: QuietlySeeking
I have had one submissive who was "straight" who turned out to be hetero-flexible when "forced" to have sexual relations with a woman. 


Great term, "hetero-flexible."  Hadn't heard that one before, but I will keep it in mind.
 
Lady Topaz
 



Lordandmaster -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 9:05:02 AM)

Yes, more than one.  I think the female has to be truly bi in order to be turned on by the idea, but it's not really very surprising for a bi submissive to want to be forced into sexual situations with another female.

quote:

ORIGINAL: MzMia

Have you EVER ran across a female interested in FORCED-bisexual activities?



MysticFireTopaz -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 9:16:12 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: onestandingstill

So in a nut shell I think I'm not bi, but I don't mind f/f contact.
Does that make sense to anyone but me???
suzanne



Yes, it makes perfect sense to Me.  I don't consider Myself bi, but have had f/f contact.  Many moons ago, I started out on the other side of the fence.  My first master owned another submissive and the three of us had a sexual relationship for over a year.  I also had a brief sexual relationship with a lesbian female co-worker.  She had just come out of a 15-year relatonship, and I had just broken things off with the man I was engaged to.  I suppose we were both in a place where we needed this experience.
 
All of this was more than 20 years ago and I have not sought out any bi-sexual experiences since.  The experiences with women were enjoyable enough, but I am primarily attracted to men, so they are what I stick with.  So I suppose I am also one who is not bi, but doesn't mind f/f contact.
 
Lady Topaz



pixelslave -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 10:11:59 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: MysticFireTopaz

Great term, "hetero-flexible."  Hadn't heard that one before, but I will keep it in mind.
 


I like that term as well. [:)] 
 
Its seems that there are many who would engage in same-sex activities, but aren't open to forming emotionally bonded relationships with same-sex partners.  Thus, I'm not certain that referring to them as bisexual, assuming a definition where "bisexual" means being open to both homosexual and heterosexual relationships/activities, is either appropriate or accurate.  It seems to me, there is a need for a term that describes something in-between bisexual and heterosexual.  This one is as close to a simple, intuively accurate and descriptive phrase as I've yet to see. [8|]
 
 - pixel



MzMia -> RE: Have you ever seen a female submissive interested in forced bisexual activities? (1/7/2007 7:56:42 PM)

Thanks for answering everybody, you have given me some food for thought here.
Oh the possiblilities! [:D]



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