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mymasterssub69 -> rude Dominants (1/3/2007 8:48:02 AM)
how should a sub-daughter such as myself handle a rude Dominant especially from collarme.com? thank you

mnottertail -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 8:51:16 AM)
Virtual Jujutsu

toservez -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 8:52:32 AM)
Online, ignore them and never let them get under your skin.

sleazy -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 8:52:49 AM)
Tell them to get lost? [:D] In my opinion if they are not your dom you do not owe them anything and can be just as rude back even block them should you wish. Doubtless there will be some that disagree with me.

mymasterssub69 -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 8:56:10 AM)
i suppose i should clearly state what happened. receiving messages from a member here wanting to know what i did with Daddy today. clearly that's none of this dominant's business what Daddy and i do. since this dominant was rude, he didn't deserve any respect from me and clearly told him i'm not interested. hopefully - that will be the end of it ...and him.

KatyLied -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 9:17:20 AM)
Why do you even care? It sounds like he is looking for wanking material.

mymasterssub69 -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 9:23:39 AM)
then he could wank off on some other sub's sexual stories he doesn't need to know mine

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 9:32:23 AM)
Sorry this is something you actually had to spend two seconds thinking about how to respond. Online the rule is, take what works for you, ignore the rest. Apply liberally.

SupremeFemBitch -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 9:44:50 AM)
I advertise as an Angry, Arrogant, Bitch Mistress, so I am sometimes called rude [amongst other things], but I am providing an outlet for those subs who like their Doms hard and fast and NOT wishy washy. Don'get ME wrong, for every Femme Domme, irrespective of how they apply THEIR rules to THEIR role, there WILL be 10 subs chasing them. So, if a sub actually takes the time to read the Dommes profile and not spend too much time gazing at HER pics, and the Domme says she is Strict, Arrogant , etc, a sub cannot complain about his or her treatment.!!!!!!!! But another Master/Mistress being rude to one of his own kind, is probably a subby, looking for free milking material!!!!!!!

Tikkiee -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 9:56:24 AM)
Do like I do; send them back a nice long winded letter about how ignorant they are; only make sure to use words that are above their intelligence level so that it takes the a month or two to figure out that you are insulting them [8D] Or you could just block them after the first email that comes unwanted /shrug

SirKenin -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 10:40:08 AM)
Why not just cut and paste a story from some porn site and be done with it? Why fight fire with fire? You are getting your ass in a crack for nothing. Just because other people want to treat people like assholes does not mean you have to.

AquaticSub -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 10:47:03 AM)
I snark them for the amusement of myself and my dominant. Maybe it's not the nicest thing to do but when I get an e-mail going "U r so hawt. Do u have a Master?" I want to retch. Come on guys... my dominant is in my userpic. How much easier can I make this for you?

Tikkiee -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 11:07:13 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: AquaticSub I snark them for the amusement of myself and my dominant. Maybe it's not the nicest thing to do but when I get an e-mail going "U r so hawt. Do u have a Master?" I want to retch. Come on guys... my dominant is in my userpic. How much easier can I make this for you? LOL it is fun though isn't it Aquatic? To umm...string them along for amusement a bit [8D]

mymasterssub69 -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 5:20:45 PM)
well excuse me LA - never met anyone rude from here until now which making me consider limiting my time here ... if you are going to be rude to me - then don't expect me to respect you no matter what your title. period

SirKenin -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 6:07:59 PM)
Just take the mature approach. Block and ignore. They are only fishing for a reaction. Do not give them one. Not even the cut and paste porn story (as tempting as it may be.. lol)

juliaoceania -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 6:15:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mymasterssub69 i suppose i should clearly state what happened. receiving messages from a member here wanting to know what i did with Daddy today. clearly that's none of this dominant's business what Daddy and i do. since this dominant was rude, he didn't deserve any respect from me and clearly told him i'm not interested. hopefully - that will be the end of it ...and him. I send questions about my relationship on to my Daddy to answer, especially the ones that ask me questions about him. I figure they are better off dealing with the source of their curiousity rather than deal with me[:D]. But I do have a sense of humor about things.

mnottertail -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 6:21:53 PM)
Based on your reply to the Luckster, it may be that you are a little crispy about stuff. I think she gave you an excellent chunk of advice, in that these are things that shouldn't even hit your brain. It is like garbage in the gutter, don't stop and examine it, there are no hundred dollar bills in the gumwrappers. Read it, blink........ya or no. End of joke, investigate or move on. How am I doin'? Ed Koch

juliaoceania -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 6:28:19 PM)
I wanted to add something. It is better not to block rather than to block. The type of people that need blocking are often of the same ilk that will make new accounts just to harass someone. By blocking someone you gave them the power to make you take an action and showed them that they got under your skin. It is better to know the person emailing you and their screen name so that you can open the emails and delete them without ever reading them. They think you read them when you did not, and they never receive a response back from all the energy they are focusing on you. It tends to make them go away in my experience. I used to block fools all the time, and had them make new nics just to bug me, once I did this I have no problem with such behavior....My Daddy was the one that recommended this approach. People like that love the drama and the energy they are getting back from the recipients of their harassment, essentially, they are often not mentally well.

SirKenin -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 8:33:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: juliaoceania I wanted to add something. It is better not to block rather than to block. The type of people that need blocking are often of the same ilk that will make new accounts just to harass someone. By blocking someone you gave them the power to make you take an action and showed them that they got under your skin. It is better to know the person emailing you and their screen name so that you can open the emails and delete them without ever reading them. They think you read them when you did not, and they never receive a response back from all the energy they are focusing on you. It tends to make them go away in my experience. I used to block fools all the time, and had them make new nics just to bug me, once I did this I have no problem with such behavior....My Daddy was the one that recommended this approach. People like that love the drama and the energy they are getting back from the recipients of their harassment, essentially, they are often not mentally well. Excellent points made here.

FangsNfeet -> RE: rude Dominants (1/3/2007 8:44:56 PM)
So he says he's a dom. Is he really a dom? Would you follow anyone and do as your told just becasue they proclaim themself as a dom? Reply "FUCK YOU" and block the annoying little boy who's looking for masterbation material. A dom on collarme is still just another person and there's not a damn thing they can do to you. Since you are taken, what does your dom say about the situation?

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