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NeedToUseYou -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/1/2007 11:41:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: junecleaver I think I may be the only virgin on collarme lol. With all my past relationships, I've waited for the right person and the right commitment. Yes, I think it was good decision making on my part. You doing anything later[:)]

mymasterssub69 -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 3:08:02 AM)
call me a prude or old fashion - i don't have sex on the first date. if the guy cannot handle that and wait until i know him better, then he could move on and find the woman who will. i have more respect for myself and my body.

SirKenin -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 6:57:45 AM)
It depended. Sometimes as soon as we walked in the door the first time, sometimes several days, sometimes longer. It depended on the girl moreso than Me. My first girlfriend I refused to have sex with her and we did not get sexual in any way for at least a month after we started dating. There was no set timeframe for sure.

sub4hire -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 8:16:16 AM)
My general rule of thumb is a year and a half. Of course I also prefer quality to quantity. So, because of that I have had 3 of what most would consider long term relationships in my life thus far. My current dom/husband we only waited 3 month's. Quickest anything I've ever done in my life situation. I don't regret it but I could have very easily.

gretchenS -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 12:08:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: seeksfemslave Who says courtesy and elegance of expression are things of the past ? Mmmm... I'm not being trained to be a classy girl, yanno... ;) quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver And your address is...........? Why?... Are you visiting Chile? We are having an splendid summer weather down here... quote: ORIGINAL: LTRsubNW (Not that there's anything wrong with that) Well... it was the hell of a night... I can't complain... After all those years with the boy I was easier than blinking. quote: ORIGINAL: LotusSong And they say romance is dead... Well, he did cooked the most exquisit grilled chicken I have ever tasted in my life, washed the dishes and the candle lights gave a stunning lightening to the whole room, with a single red rose inside a petit green wine bottle, and he was as charming as he can be witty and funny in the forums... It was the most romantic date I ever had... All that before the nasty perverted sex we had. quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Unless you have clear test results, sleeping with someone you've known for years is as risky as sleeping with a whore you met that night. I agree. I had that risk back then, and it was the same risk I had with my three years ex boyfriend, because he was dishonest about his sexual preference and the fact that he cheated on me with a man while we were dating... He still doesn't have the balls to confront me... I went to the gynocologist two days after I broke up with him. After that nightmare, I can proudly say, I am a whore... to my Master and him only.

SaigonHeat -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 12:16:45 PM)
It usually has to wait until I've completed a full background check, urinalysis, and she's recited the Pledge of Allegiance with enough sincerity in her voice.

meatcleaver -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 12:22:18 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: gretchenS quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver And your address is...........? Why?... Are you visiting Chile? We are having an splendid summer weather down here... I want more than splendid weather if I'm going to go all the way down there. I was thinking of.....as if you didn't know. This is a site for the perverted........isn't it?[sm=confused.gif] [;)]

Stephann -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 12:35:14 PM)
quote: Who says courtesy and elegance of expression are things of the past ? Hey, I asked first!... I think... *quote:* And your address is...........? 235 Daddysbed Depthso Hell *quote:* And they say romance is dead... Two years later, we've never heard it. Milage varies of course.... LA, quite right. Still, there's risk in everything we do - from joining the Marines to walking down the street. Just because neither killed me yet, doesn't mean it'll never happen. june - wait as long as you like. Sex certainly isn't a race. *quote:* call me a prude or old fashion - i don't have sex on the first date. if the guy cannot handle that and wait until i know him better, then he could move on and find the woman who will. i have more respect for myself and my body. Fantastic. It's worth a thought that wanting to have sex (or having sex) doesn't mean we don't have respect for the person we're having it with. The insinuation that those who don't approach sex from the same perspective that you do are lacking either intellectually or emotionally, on the other hand, isn't necessary. Anyway, my view is that sex is an activity, like playing tennis, mountain climbing, or intentionally listening to telemarketers for twenty minutes, asking lots of questions, then making a purchase with a bogus credit card and address. It's all a matter of context, between the two people who are engaged in it. It's obviously much better when there is something else shared - I enjoy jogging or dancing with someone I love, and I don't care to do it with someone I don't know, and I refuse to do it with someone I strongly dislike. Oh, I have the chicken recipe I used that night, if anyone wants it. Pasta with sauce (mix in some Parmesan cheese to the sauce) was the side. The chicken was simply four leg quarters, strip the skin off, rinse with water, coat liberally with bread crumbs (Condentina makes the best, but any 'Italian bread crumb' will do the trick.) Bake for 35-40 minutes at 375 degrees Far (200 Cel) and serve. My mom taught me the recipe, so you can blame her for that date getting out of hand. Stephan

gretchenS -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 12:35:28 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver quote: ORIGINAL: gretchenS quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver And your address is...........? Why?... Are you visiting Chile? We are having an splendid summer weather down here... I was thinking of.....as if you didn't know. Daddy trained me well...

gretchenS -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 12:43:26 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Stephann Oh, I have the chicken recipe I used that night... ...My mom taught me the recipe, so you can blame her for that date getting out of hand. Stephan Yeah... it was that damn recipe. You put a "slut" spell on me.

Zensee -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 3:59:55 PM)
We are all now patiently anticipating the revealing of your recipe for Chicken Seduction - sex will have to wait, a little longer. Z.

Stephann -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 4:33:24 PM)
Psst... I included the recipe, already. Bon appetite. Stephan

Aileen68 -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 4:35:34 PM)
Hey...was that chicken finger lickin good?

Stephann -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 6:10:11 PM)
Better. It wasn't just the fingers.... Stephan (she actually licked the plate, too. She did it with her salad today, for that matter.)

daddysprop247 -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 6:32:54 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: meatcleaver I want more than splendid weather if I'm going to go all the way down there. I was thinking of.....as if you didn't know. This is a site for the perverted........isn't it?[sm=confused.gif] [;)] nah, not really. :(

LTRsubNW -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 6:56:00 PM)
I've waited as long as 90 minutes....but...I'm trying to keep my reputation intact. (Others may opt for a longer period).

FelinePersuasion -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 10:30:58 PM)
Not waiting does not imply the others who didn't wait did not have respect for themself or their body. Your tone strongly implies a higher sense of moral than the others who did not wait. quote: ORIGINAL: mymasterssub69 call me a prude or old fashion - i don't have sex on the first date. if the guy cannot handle that and wait until i know him better, then he could move on and find the woman who will. i have more respect for myself and my body.

RobertCloud -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/2/2007 11:02:57 PM)
If there is a connection between the person and I the length of time I wait for sex is not important. Sex is not the focus or should not be the focus of this lifestyle. I have no problem waiting months or even years if I can tell that there is a true connection and the reason the person wants to wait is legitimate. I have been celebate for three years, what is a couple of more years for someone that is going to be my slave for the rest of my life once they beg my collar and move into my home. True, it would be nice if sex were sooner, do not get me wrong. Yet, I am willing to wait for the right time to. It makes that moment far more special.

mgdartist -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/3/2007 1:02:41 AM)
I dont get this thread...Im still waiting on my first reply or flirt this year. Sex (a distant memory) I didnt think was ever made available here. or anywhere I happen to be.. No doubt about it though, I guess I'm damn good at waiting for it and every woman I meet is even better at makin me. It's over-rated anyway... as I vaguely remember. almost a year ago... (decided to use dog-years to count, so I'd not get so discouraged...works ok so far)

DiamondOrchid -> RE: Sex... How long do you wait? (1/4/2007 11:53:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mgdartist I dont get this thread...Im still waiting on my first reply or flirt this year. Sex (a distant memory) I didnt think was ever made available here. or anywhere I happen to be.. No doubt about it though, I guess I'm damn good at waiting for it and every woman I meet is even better at makin me. It's over-rated anyway... as I vaguely remember. almost a year ago... (decided to use dog-years to count, so I'd not get so discouraged...works ok so far) Perhaps you're emailing/flirting with the wrong people? No? shrugs I haven't a clue as to why you're having problems... but you did manage to make a movie (or two? three? fifty???), so your sex life isn't that bad. Unless that's your twin? weg

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