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LotusSong -> Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 8:43:59 AM)

Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?



ownedgirlie -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 8:46:17 AM)

Never. 



sweetnurseBBW -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 8:49:31 AM)

No, Never have. [:D]



mrocknj -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 8:49:47 AM)

I ordered her to bring home Thai food and later realized I really wanted sushi.....



TPEOwner -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 8:51:47 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mrocknj

I ordered her to bring home Thai food and later realized I really wanted sushi.....

You are obviously not a real dom.



Celeste43 -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 9:11:00 AM)

Sure we've had accidents. He hit an emotional trigger we didn't know was there. And then the infamous strappado incident where he decided to tell me to lift a leg so he could remove my panties and instead I fell off the high heels and wrenched my arm. Took over two months before it was back to normal.

More seriously, no because we have a tiered series of orders. I'm supposed to take good care of myself. If he tells me to do something that would be bad for me, then I tell him no and why. I'm supposed to do this and if I obeyed a bad order knowingly, then I would get in trouble.



WorldofSilence -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 9:15:51 AM)

I have never intentionally given a bad order, however if everything is new and fresh and W/we are learning as W/we go there has to be room for negoiations because thats the joy of getting to know someone, so I have been declined in the past from an order I've been given but thats only because it was something that would of been bad for her, I put it down to something learnt, because both Doms and subs have something to learn.

WoS



Nosathro -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 9:20:45 AM)

Tal Lotusong
 
There is a Gorean saying..."Master may not aways be right..but He is never wrong."
 
I wish you well
 
Nosathro



LotusSong -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 10:10:31 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: Nosathro

Tal Lotusong
 
There is a Gorean saying..."Master may not aways be right..but He is never wrong."
 
I wish you well
 
Nosathro
 
LOL:)   :  Mine is "I'm not always right.. I just usually am" :)




greeneyes1962 -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 10:27:02 AM)

yes



Kalira -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 10:29:38 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?

Nope



kisshou -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 11:34:32 AM)

I don't reget being obedient but I do regret the doing the thing I did to be obedient and wish I had never did it.

At the time it didn't bother me but turned out to haunt me that I engaged in that type of behavior.



impetuousone -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 12:11:36 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: mrocknj

I ordered her to bring home Thai food and later realized I really wanted sushi.....


And it was her fault, too, right, Sir?  [;)]  She should have known! [;)]



Zsuzsanna -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 12:48:21 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kisshou

I don't reget being obedient but I do regret the doing the thing I did to be obedient and wish I had never did it.

At the time it didn't bother me but turned out to haunt me that I engaged in that type of behavior.


I'm confused as to why. Why did it haunt you? Did you tell your Master about this?



KnightofMists -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 1:20:33 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?


I make decisions all the time that in hindsight I would of made a difference decision.  I don't regret these decision that I made because I made the best decision I could of on the information that I had avaliable and as I understood it.  However, I always reqret the negative consequences that my poor decisions resulted in.  But, instead of wallowing in the bad choice... I learn the error and move on.




LotusSong -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 1:46:41 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: kisshou

I don't reget being obedient but I do regret the doing the thing I did to be obedient and wish I had never did it.

At the time it didn't bother me but turned out to haunt me that I engaged in that type of behavior.


This is exactly what I mean.. Thank you.



MasterFireMaam -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (12/31/2006 2:28:23 PM)

I used to have the slave do a full kowtow immediately when I walked into the room. I regretted it as soon as I tripped over him. It's SO un-Masterly to trip over your slave. LOL

Master Fire



LeatherBentOne -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (1/2/2007 5:22:20 AM)

Priceless.



thetammyjo -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (1/2/2007 8:52:21 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: LotusSong

Have you ever obeyed or gave an order that you later regretted?


No, not that I can remember. Which means either that it hasn't happened or, more likely, it was so minor that the regret was small and thus not worth remembering clearly.

I have, however, made a few choices in terms of chosing potential subs that turned out to be an unwise choice. Those were my choices though and had nothing to do with giving a command in the relationship itself.



Lashra -> RE: Dom/me, Submissive Regrets (1/2/2007 8:58:32 AM)

No I havent given an order that I later regretted. I tend to think things over carefully beforehand as to avert having regrets later.

~Lashra



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