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domiguy -> RE: Jump Right In..the water is unknown (12/23/2006 9:43:13 AM)
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I do have the ability to listen to reason. Archer makes a valid point if you were not sure about some aspects of this "lifestyle" there is certainly no harm in learning more about a topic to avoid pitfalls...'Cause when rigor mortis sets in...you've definitely srewed the pooch on that one....lol...so it would be wise to learn about communication...but much is common sense...when she is turning blue...or you find yourself as a pallbearer....it might be time to take up fishing for this might not be your true calling.
As far as "rules" go lets face it, out here, there are few rules...for instance when it comes to O.P.P.(song made infamous by Naughty By Nature) But, in this case I'm referring to "Other People's Poo"...lol. Monkeys throw poop. Some folks out here have developed a "taste" for the substance...to me that is a "rule"...no Eating or playin' with doo doo. No matter how bad sub has been! So for those of you who do enjoy O.P.P.....Please have the decency to remove the O.P.C.(Other People's Corn) from your teeth before you venture out into public. Rules....seems there are very few.
And I can understand the disdain for some one very young taking the claim "Master"...No life experience to back it up. However, very few would argue with a 19 year old female who uses the term "sub"...maybe "cause we are dirty old men and the thought of young flesh...is such that we might be willing to overlook the pains of dealing with someone so immature....Pervs....lol...I realize that many would not take her up because she lacks experience...but it is somewhat of a relevant if not humorous point.
Sublizzie....I do believe that you missed slightly the "heart" of my post. I do understand that there are certain aspects that require a level of substantial knowledge...Let's say you get off on the intricate knot tying associated with some bondage...Then I would not be your guy 'cause I do not possess this knowledge or skill. That would require some sort of training or additional education on my part.
But as far as the dynamic of bdsm goes, we are talking primarily about "people" skills. And much of that has to do with properly indentifying ourselves and then being to act on the basis of that identification in a consistent and realistic manner.
It's not exact...but it is similar to having to read "The gay manual" before I would be allowed to proclaim myself "queer."
Good topic...I do apologize if I initially came off as a total A-hole...There is always room to reavaluate an opinion if sound reason is brought your way.
out.
D.G.
p.s. Jesus please protect me from your followers.
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