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LadyHugs -> RE: Dom phobia?? (12/20/2006 3:41:07 PM)
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Dear notjustsomesub, Ladies and Gentlemen;
In my mind's eyes, I 'caught' the spirit of the other thread, to which was to some an invitation to be taking off on another flight entirely, per se.
That said--In my mind's eyes I see, there are as many types and style dominant men out there, to which often find some sort of conflict and needing to posture like a bunch of roosters with an egg stuck up their plumage. It isn't restricted to dominant men--some dominant females are about as kind as an impacted wisdom tooth.
Some individuals will be civil and gracious, will be as helpful as possible. Some need to bedazzle some new dominant on the block, doing fancy foot work and impress as much as possible. Some will hold their knowledge and skills close to the vest. There will be rude and crude sorts as well. But, in summary--what may start out as a perfect idea, such as a dominants only group; just turns into a gripe session and or some bragging session which digs the ones without someone, like somebody grinding a cigarette butt into their state of being alone. Also, not all can take constructive criticisms from the 'peanut' gallery in dealing with things private. Some who give criticisms cannot even conduct their own life, let alone someone else's. So, it isn't a pleasant group after a while. When you have women in the dominant group with men, the men--save for a few, will just plain be rude and crude; always wanting to turn Female Dominants into slaves/submissives--giving the old worn out excuse for their behavior; that we women who are dominants just haven't found the right man --them. Of course when a Female Dominant teases them right back that they haven't submitted to the right woman; they grab their balls..err marbles and take off in a huff.
It will always be a difficult task indeed, to create a group for Dominants only, as not everybody is willing to give up their recipe for success, especially when some Dominants think this is all a game and some are seriously seeking--as, to give them the upper hand per se.
Another aspect, is that Dominants who are sure of themselves will not mind asking questions but, some don't ask because they do not wish to appear 'dumb.' -- In my mind's eyes though, the only thing dumb is; not taking advantage of the resources available to improve one's self; as it will improve the relationship present and or future.
Respectfully submitted for consideration,
Lady Hugs
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