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cjklyn -> RE: Skype fear for fakes (12/15/2006 2:59:19 AM)
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I NEVER ask for personal information until a potential sub has had time to build trust in me, and is comfortable with doing that. Usually, this happens after a period of exchange of emails, chat, and one or more social meetings ( first meetings always in a public place, a pub, cafe, chosen by her). everyone online has to think of their own personal safety and a dom I feel has a duty to his sub, or any potential sub to consider her safety to. And also remember, that speaking to someone, or even meeting them only can prove that they are the gender they say they are. Yes, this does cut out some of the fakes. But it doesnt prove they are what they say they are, have the experience they say etc... One thing I've found works well, again dont do this at first.. is to ask for photos, but to specifically ask for non naughty ones... Most fakers use pics they've got from the web. Have a look round a few adult sites. You'll see lots of pics of ladies in states of undeess. How many sites would have 3-4 clothed pics of the same person in with different backgrounds.. i.e. family snapshot type pics (obviously without the rest of the family in). If someone can share 3-4 of that sort of pic then its highly likely the pics are of them I've found. it's worked for me so far
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