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Hokum -> Hello from a Scottish Dominant. (12/6/2006 1:26:53 PM)
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Hello!
I'm a 26 year old Dominant male living in the Granite City of Aberdeen, which is located on the north east coast of Scotland.
I have been actively persuing, learning and expanding my interests and experience when it comes to anything D/s and Bdsm related for around seven years now. Having gotten an interest in such things through an original kink for any form of clothing made from Pvc, rubber and leather this quickly manifested itself into something more when I met my first truly "kinky" partner.
My character is and has always been naturally assertive when I get involved with someone, but I would be lying if I said I was always a Dom. When I first got started, I just wanted to try anything and everything! It was all so new and well, shiny! I just had to touch it, experience it and find out if it was for me.
During play with my original partner my already keen interest of people watching took on a new slant. I found that I couldnt help but revel in the power to make someone feel or not feel something. I just loved to watch, touch, taste, feel and hear the effects of the things I could do to someone. Be it the result of something like orgasim control/denial or taking a nice flogger to there bare backside.
So my interest in any form of sensory play and emotional/mental domination took root and began to shape itself. However unlike the style's of some Dominant's, I do go for the its my way or the high way approach. I tend to be a lot more playful. I use my voice, my facial features and body langauge to put twists on my words. Being able to speak in innuendo, being able to keep the submissive guessing added more to my interest in sensory play.
Although I rarely ever switch after my initial couple of years of finding my feet. I do on occasion submit to someone when the desire to learn something new takes hold. Again, this all comes down to my interest in sensory play and emotional/mental dominantion. Why? Well its pretty simple really. If I know (to an extent) the feelings and effects of what I'm doing to a submissive I can be a little more confident when making the decision if they are ready for this sort of thing. As well as being able to relate slightly to the feelings and sensations they must be getting.
I think I will finish this up here. I thought I would post my introduction before reading any others. So I dont want to put to much more in, incase this is already way longer than your standard intro!
However if any of you reading this would like to chat to me, please feel free to message me. I'm always more than happy to speak to like minds. Regardless of gender, sexual orientation, Dom or sub.
Thanks for reading!
Hokum.
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