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Confused by profile - 12/2/2006 9:51:24 AM

NateInPhilly

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So, I was online this morning, and my girlfriend called me franticlly and very upset. It seems that someone on collarme has taken my name, said that I collared them a week or so ago, and has been messaging my girlfriend saying that I'm taken by her. I mean, I appreciate the popularity of a girl fighting over me, but I have no idea who this girl "IS" and why she is saying that shes mine. Is there any way that I can report her profile or something to get her to not list herself as my sub? I mean, I'm not sure what else to do.

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RE: Confused by profile - 12/2/2006 9:58:41 AM

crouchingtigress

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sorry if this sounds cynical, but are you sure you did not?

lots of crazy things happen on line....but if you did not, then you are going to have to hope that she trusts you, relationships are based in trust and hopefully you have built up a fairly large reserve...if you are not a rotter or a cad, and you have been maligned then i would ask her what sort of things she needs from you to assure her of your trustworthiness and set about to doing them.

yes it will most likely feel unfair and all but just like its up to you to straighten out you credit card if you are a victim of ID fraud you have to do some work here.

all levels and all types of thieving sucks.

i am sorry this happened to you.

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RE: Confused by profile - 12/2/2006 10:05:36 AM

LuckyAlbatross

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Well it's not a total stranger if she knows how to message your girlfriend, so who is it?

Whoever it is, it's obviously someone playing a stupid cyber game and for either of you to pay it any more attention is just playing along with a stupid cyber game.

Ignore the vagabond and go about your lives as you were.

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RE: Confused by profile - 12/2/2006 10:34:35 AM

BossySSBBW

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All just my opinion.
First, don't put your sub's name on your profile, that invites the nuts to play games. If your sub has problems after you have explained to her that it is just a nut, then there are other problems in the relationship than just some stalker.
The more you pay attention to the stalker, the more it eggs them on. Of course you may like to play games like that.
There are ways to block people, figure it out and put them out of site out of mind.

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RE: Confused by profile - 12/2/2006 10:47:34 AM

Kalira

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Since you state that you in no way know this other girl; I would have your gf write back to her and say 'how nice, is it as good for you as it is for me?"

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RE: Confused by profile - 12/2/2006 9:56:02 PM

spankmehard312

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Hey everyone, I am Nate's sub. I appreciate the comments. I have actually already taken some of the advice before it was even posted: I message her back and said "Grow up." and then blocked her. Also, Nate did not have my name in his profile until today I supposed as an affirmation for me (which I did not need). When you really think about it, why would a girl be sending me a nasty message? Why wouldn't she be flipping out at him for seeing someone else? I do believe she's a complete nut and I trust him, thats not the issue. The reason that I have asked him to do some "detective work" is to avoid me being harassed by random immature and jealous little girls who don't realize that this is an adult site (and while I know I"m young too, I think I know how to act like one).

Once again, I appreciate everyone's effort to post advice...btw- we actually are seeking other subs/couples to be friends with- LOL

"Spankmehard"

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