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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 11:43:15 AM

maryelena

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Yes, thankfully LA and others did give staight and helpful answers, sorry if I came off nasty. I agree w/ her other post re: being rude and disruptive to other movie goers. Unfortunatley I sent my reply before I read her post and all I had were the "cute guys" responses. I am not used to theses boards and I type slow!
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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 11:52:28 AM

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Thanks for the explanation, and everyones replies. Yes, I have trolled of course,but I was short on time. Just had short work break, so I could respond again. I do really apprecaite the feedback and will check things out later when schedule permits.
Thanks, ME

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 12:34:46 PM

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Mistress often plays with Her cock in a movie theater......it's fun for her to take it out and also to have me try to "cover up," as you did with your coat--also my preferred instrument. I don't get embarassed any more.....never occurred to me that the theaters would have people to watch. She just does it to frustrate me and have me beg to go back to our place, which I do.

I'm sure some others have seen us, but in my mental state I didn't have much concern, lol

Public play is a fun kink for both of us......theaters, cars, parks, beach in the summer........Her toys are fair game!

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 12:47:12 PM

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Hmmm... this would explain why some of the seats seem sticky. Another mystery solved!
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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 12:50:09 PM

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I have gone to the movies on my own. And regarding her sitting close, it could be SHE felt more comfortable near someone. When I have gone alone I know it seems less lonely if there are other people around.
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Thanks for input , I thought it was very rare for a woman to go alone. Believe me, I would have stayed in the back if it were my choice.
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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 12:59:17 PM

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i hate to be the wet blanket here, but "consent" rings a bell. i have no problem with this, but the folks in the theater are not necessarily going to feel the same. i have every right to be as filthy as i like, but i don't have the right to make you watch (ducks head as tomatoes fly).

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 1:58:38 PM

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No she wasn't from the theatre. I worked in one when I was younger and once you've bought your ticket and your mega bucket o'corn they could care less about you. Yuo could have been bent over the seat in front of you being flogged and if you were the only ones in the theatre the wost thing that would happen is that the 19 year old projectionist might be watching you from the booth with his camera phone. The woman could have had the same thing on her mind that you did and could have been looking for a cheap thrill. walk into a theatre with only one couple and sex would sure be on my mind... lol Or maybe she was a true sadist and derived much joy at stopping your game cold. You can catch people playing in public almost everywhere if you pay attention.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 2:28:17 PM

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I (Kitty) too have worked in a theater before. The vast majority of theaters now adays require all employees to be in uniforms or if they are managment to dress in professional business style. During breaks, us non-management workers would oftern go into the theaters and stand in the back to watch a movie. Also we usually had one person who would go into every theater and just make sure that the movie started correctly, that it was in focus, the sound was ok, that there weren't a lot of people talking, and just in general make sure that there was nothing wrong that a customer could complain about. Anytime we saw someone acting suspisous (people with coats over their laps with lots of movement) we would be required to go up to them discretely and ask for them to remove the coat. If we were incorrect, we would apologize and tell them that we were trying to ensure the safety and happieness of everyone in the theater and that we would reimburse them for disturbing them. If we were right, we called the cops.

This however has not really deterred me from loving this type of play for myself. I guess it was a power trip for me then to have to enforce these rules on people who were doing what I really enjoyed doing myself, lol.

P.S.: Oh and I would suggest that if you go to a movie theater, always bring something to lay down over the seat, like a garbage bag. You will look weird, but do you have any idea how many people and kids go to movie theaters and don't want to get up and go to the bathroom? A lot more than you think, it happend at least once a month. We did our best to clean the chairs, but the theaters usually don't have all the chairs professionally cleaned often. Ours was once a year if we had the time. Think about that next time you want to see the newest release.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/2/2006 3:01:59 PM

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Ours was once a year if we had the time. Think about that next time you want to see the newest release.

I never understood people who got paranoid about that.

I remember when word got out about Dark Odyssey being at a resort at the same time vanillas would be, one mother said she would never take her child there to sleep on the same bed that people had done that kinky stuff on!

I've just never been worried about germs or stuff like that. I can't feel it, taste it, or smell it, so it's not recent and not an issue to me.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/3/2006 4:53:59 AM

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I don't think it's odd at all for a woman to goto the movies by herself. It was during matinee time so there could be all sorts of logical reasons why she went THEN instead of later. Maybe g'mom kept the kids for the day, maybe she had the day off from work for another appointment that day & took the time to finally get to the movies during a time of relative peace & quiet - she hates crowds or doesn't usually have any free time alllll to herself? Maybe the particular move her SO (if she has one) wasn't interested in seeing but she wanted to see very much, maybe she's traveling and had some free time and didn't want to hang out in the hotel room or at the airport, maybe she was out doing some holiday shopping and needed some downtime from that joyous activity, who knows?

Everyone was seated in the front 3rd section of the seats (prime location for viewing, IMHO) I know when I go I sit about 1/3 back from the screen in the very middle if I can. I'm always surprised when people sit very far over because who wants to get that whopsided view of the screen unless they absolutely can't get a better seat? I'd have sat in front of you in the middle :D If I'd noticed any playing going on I'd have made moany noises at you to make the most of it *evil*

But yeah sounds like you were just nervous & paranoid about playing in a public place, nothing sinister about a single woman (what if it had been a MAN!?) going to the movies alone, IMHO.

So was it a good movie? what did ya see?

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/3/2006 6:53:39 AM

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catfood I completely agree with you. I think it is wrong , one of the posts said 'as long as there are no children around' but who is to say a child might come into a public theatre at any time , even if the movie is already started they could easily wander into the wrong theatre in a megaplex. So once they have seen what they saw it is too late.

The 'masters' who make their girlfriend strip or dress scantily when the pizza delivery guy comes or things of that nature are also not practicing consensuality.

I think it is wrong to involve third parties (either the general public or a specific person) without their informed consent first.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/3/2006 7:40:27 AM

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I figure if you're discrete, and people happen to be looking at your lap while they're supposed to be watching a movie and they see movement under a coat/blanket...they can make their own assumptions and had they been watching the movie they bought the ticket to see in the first place...

I suppose it's also wrong to do this sort of thing anywhere but your own home really, because otherwise, you just never know when a child could wander away from their home and walk for 84 miles into a desolate field also, yes?

If the child knows what's going on under a concealed lap...that might be an issue to target parents about rather the couple with the lap.

Just my opinion

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/3/2006 7:53:06 PM

maryelena

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But yeah sounds like you were just nervous & paranoid about playing in a public place, nothing sinister about a single woman (what if it had been a MAN!?) going to the movies alone, IMHO.

If it had been a man I would have been less supsicious, and possibly more careful and more......(wish I wasn't this way) excited.

The movie was the new James Bond flick, had some good attributes, but with violence that was too graphic, and the new Bond was a poor replacement for Pierce and Sean. Sir was sexier than the screen by far!

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/4/2006 5:10:39 AM

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Have you ever not played sticky fingers in the movies? Incase there is a clash of international cultures sticky fingers in aus is when you finger a gal. Or even given a blow job? I even gone down on a gal at the movies.

Its the same as outdoor sex. Its the thrill of getting caught.

At the op. I think your just paranoid.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/4/2006 8:27:38 PM

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I think it's a nice fantasy but not responcible practical nor smart to play in public places where it's not an approved for play area.

A little thrill from hanky panky isn't worth being kicked out of a place, the cops called, nor the fine you can get.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/4/2006 8:31:23 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: maryelena
no profile because ...this world is too scary to me and I can't get that close to it.

Yet you'll fuck around in a movie theater in front of vanilla folks.....hmmmm.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/4/2006 8:33:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: catfood

i hate to be the wet blanket here, but "consent" rings a bell. i have no problem with this, but the folks in the theater are not necessarily going to feel the same. i have every right to be as filthy as i like, but i don't have the right to make you watch (ducks head as tomatoes fly).

No tomato throwing here. I totally agree with you, although, if you're certain that it's a theater with adults in it, petting to some extent is nothing more than what you're seeing ON the screen anyhow.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/4/2006 8:36:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Hmmm... this would explain why some of the seats seem sticky. Another mystery solved!
Kyst

OK I think I just threw up.

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/4/2006 8:42:31 PM

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quote:

will look weird, but do you have any idea how many people and kids go to movie theaters and don't want to get up and go to the bathroom? A lot more than you think, it happend at least once a month.

Yep I know I threw up

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RE: public play at the movies and your opinion - 12/4/2006 8:48:45 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: Missokyst

Hmmm... this would explain why some of the seats seem sticky. Another mystery solved!
Kyst

I was thinking the same thing! Can you say non-concensual sharing of body fluids! eeeeeeeewwwwwwwwwwwww!

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