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Online Collaring? - 11/30/2006 3:52:00 PM

GirlyDevil

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Good evening to all,
I have been an online domme to a wonderful slave, who lives overseas. He's been my online slave for about 2 years now and I want to do something special for him. He has a webcam and that's how I know that he's being trustworthy to me. Is there any way that I can either say to him or show him that he's special to me and that I would like to offer a collar to him. Any advice on how to handle this?
Thank you to all

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RE: Online Collaring? - 11/30/2006 3:52:59 PM

Dnomyar

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Be straightforward and go for it.

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RE: Online Collaring? - 11/30/2006 3:54:48 PM

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Send a letter, package marked so and so is in the mail, do not open present yourself on webcam with package.......you get the gimmick.

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RE: Online Collaring? - 11/30/2006 4:03:35 PM

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Thanks for the great ideas, especially the gift giving idea and by being straight forward.

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RE: Online Collaring? - 11/30/2006 4:40:23 PM

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I say just go for it. I also have o/l pet. Our relationship has been going on for a few years. Just you giving him your attention should express your affection for him. But men are kinda thick.

At this point, let your wants be your guide. If he is a good slave, what makes his mistress happy, makes him happy!

Good luck!

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RE: Online Collaring? - 12/1/2006 5:03:59 AM

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i cant imagine being an online dominant to someone for 2 years?? i'm sure there is something that prevents you and he from going further with your relationship, but you make your own choices. is the gift you want to bestow something 3D ?

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RE: Online Collaring? - 12/1/2006 8:57:25 AM

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I like Ron's recommendation since it moves it out of the realm of online collaring to where it actually becomes more of a r/l collaring. Whereas an actual online collaring would be comparable to watching a video about eating when you're hungry.

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RE: Online Collaring? - 12/1/2006 3:21:38 PM

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He is my only o/l slave. I'm in CO and he's in the UK, and that's pretty much what's stopping us. Yes he's been over here before and I've been over there, but airline tickets aren't cheap to fly overseas. Anyways, I'm still trying to decide on wht gift to get him. It's definitly going to be something special, but I'm not sure what yet.

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RE: Online Collaring? - 12/1/2006 3:43:44 PM

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When you were over there and he was in your area were you together? Surely if you were that takes him out of the range of online pet and into the area of LDR

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RE: Online Collaring? - 12/1/2006 4:18:53 PM

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Is there any way that I can either say to him or show him that he's special to me and that I would like to offer a collar to him. Any advice on how to handle this?
Thank you to all

Yea go with the leather collar instead of plastic because velcro looks much more attractive on leather.

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RE: Online Collaring? - 12/1/2006 4:54:38 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: GirlyDevil

Good evening to all,
I have been an online domme to a wonderful slave, who lives overseas. He's been my online slave for about 2 years now and I want to do something special for him. He has a webcam and that's how I know that he's being trustworthy to me. Is there any way that I can either say to him or show him that he's special to me and that I would like to offer a collar to him. Any advice on how to handle this?
Thank you to all

Why not tell him to buy a cb3000 and send you the key...

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RE: Online Collaring? - 12/1/2006 9:42:26 PM

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I am not looking for any kind of out of town subs, unless you are relocating to the area. I also am not into the online serving. I will consider subs up to the age of 33. Other than that please do not attempt to contact me, I will delete your message without reading it.
My other requirment is that you must be available to go to a femdom party when asked by myself, and you must be available on that given day.

A 2 year online overseas relationship sure differs from your profile.

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