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Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 1:32:05 PM   
DoctorDubious


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Status: offline 		Greetings All,

I guess we've all read the threads
about public humiliation and punishment in the "real" world.

Do you have thoughts about using the internet,
perhaps thru publishing more-or-less embarassing
or slightly humiliating pictures as a form of punishment and play?


DoctorDubious
PS...
I've been a pretty private person
for most of my life, but it seems things may be changing.
Some friends have loved this silly vid,
and others think its Sopho-Moronic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRGg1ULGEfs
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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 1:43:14 PM   
LuckyAlbatross


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious
Greetings All,

I guess we've all read the threads
about public humiliation and punishment in the "real" world.

Do you have thoughts about using the internet,
perhaps thru publishing more-or-less embarassing
or slightly humiliating pictures as a form of punishment and play?


DoctorDubious
PS...

As a form of play, no problem.  It's kinda frowned upon to literally go "Lookit me!!!" unless you're being cute and everyone knows you're being silly, but I have no problems with people being exhibitionists if they choose to.  Good taste rules of context should be applied however.

As a form of punishment there are only few contexts in which I would find that useful as an actual behavior modifier, but if they find it appropriate, I suppose so.  As long as they aren't actively seeking people to make them watch.

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 1:47:02 PM   
RiotGirl


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Status: offline 		uh that was just wierd.....

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 3:03:36 PM   
slavemaia


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Status: offline 		Would really hate, hate, hate it. Being punished is difficult enough - don't like it at all - oh did i say? Don't like it at all? To be publically humiliated while being punished, don't think i'd recover.
*runs to hide this thread from Master*

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 3:07:21 PM   
JerseyKrissi72


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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 5:24:43 PM   
sub4hire


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious


Do you have thoughts about using the internet,
perhaps thru publishing more-or-less embarassing
or slightly humiliating pictures as a form of punishment and play?


DoctorDubious


I think amoung other things it could get you into a world of trouble.  Due to the current laws in the United States that require all models to have written permission...etc.  You could go to prison for a long time if you did this without someone else's permission.

Better to actually learn to punish someone in real life I think.

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 5:42:30 PM   
NYMaster101


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Status: offline 		Wonderful idea.   There is much potential there.

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 5:55:51 PM   
BRNaughtyAngel


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious
Greetings All,
I guess we've all read the threads
about public humiliation and punishment in the "real" world.
Do you have thoughts about using the internet,
perhaps thru publishing more-or-less embarassing
or slightly humiliating pictures as a form of punishment and play?


Well I would hate to think that someone I trusted to take "compromising" photos of me would use them against me because I was disobedient.  Not knowing your situation, I would think that would violate the trust between you and the other person.  Not to mention the risk of exposing this persons private life to the rest of the world and how that could affect them emotionally, personally and professionally (all of that depending on the person and their situation).

This is a sensitive issue for me and I can tell you, if it were done to me, it would destroy the trust and the relationship, but that's me.

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 8:15:39 PM   
Celeste43


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Status: offline 		Why not?

Just be aware that once put onto the internet there is no taking them back. So if she loses a job because they find the pics, you need to make up the lost salary. Prepared for that for the next 50 years?

Didn't think so.

Anything put out here is out here forever. Ruining someone's future career for forgetting to say Sir at the beginning of every sentence is a bit overkill.

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 8:36:59 PM   
MistressYlwa


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Status: offline 		Not sure about posting pictures, but have no problem with a slave having to cam as punishment.
 
Simply have them go to an appropriate chat room, state that they are being punished and must go on cam. People who wish to see them can just view the webcam. Simply and consentual.
 
Mistress Ylwa

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 8:38:57 PM   
whisperedsighs


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious

Greetings All,

I guess we've all read the threads
about public humiliation and punishment in the "real" world.

Do you have thoughts about using the internet,
perhaps thru publishing more-or-less embarassing
or slightly humiliating pictures as a form of punishment and play?


DoctorDubious
PS...
I've been a pretty private person
for most of my life, but it seems things may be changing.
Some friends have loved this silly vid,
and others think its Sopho-Moronic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRGg1ULGEfs


Be prepared to have the back up 2257 information on file for the government!  LOL 


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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 8:53:26 PM   
TemptingNviceSub


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Status: offline 		To the OP...if it is what you both find acceptable...however if you, coerce her say, and she refuses, then where does that put your dynamic?Would she become resentful,fearful? Would she wonder what would happen to these pics if your relationship did not gel so to speak?...I am sure there are other ways to punish besides this one....You might try to think more creatively...Unless your punishing is just simply you getting your kink off via the internet?I guess it comes down to consentuality once again, but sometimes there are many kinds of consentuality....such as tools used to obtain the consentuality...IMO not a good idea.....Tempting

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 10:21:20 PM   
AquaticSub


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quote:

ORIGINAL: DoctorDubious

Greetings All,

I guess we've all read the threads
about public humiliation and punishment in the "real" world.

Do you have thoughts about using the internet,
perhaps thru publishing more-or-less embarassing
or slightly humiliating pictures as a form of punishment and play?


DoctorDubious
PS...
I've been a pretty private person
for most of my life, but it seems things may be changing.
Some friends have loved this silly vid,
and others think its Sopho-Moronic
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pRGg1ULGEfs


I want to be a teacher and work with children someday. There will no humiliating pictures of me on the internet. If that happens, my dominant will find himself lacking a submissive. There are very few things that would cause me to leave the man I've given my complete submission to. That would be one of them because it would mean he didn't care about my dreams and put everything I want for myself at risk. It would also put our potential children at risk. I don't believe the child services looks well upon mothers who can be found naked and humilated on the internet and I'm not willing to risk it.

Now, it does work well for others. Other submissives and slaves seem to thrive on it. But it certainly wouldn't work for me.

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/28/2006 10:31:30 PM   
ownedgirlie


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quote:

ORIGINAL: Celeste43

Why not?

Just be aware that once put onto the internet there is no taking them back. So if she loses a job because they find the pics, you need to make up the lost salary. Prepared for that for the next 50 years?

Didn't think so.

Anything put out here is out here forever. Ruining someone's future career for forgetting to say Sir at the beginning of every sentence is a bit overkill.

My thoughts as well, and thankfully Master feels the same.  While he controls where my pics go, once they are out of his hands, he no longer has control over them.  The same goes for putting someone on cam.  Anyone heard of screen shots?  Clickity click and off they go, sure hope your little ones never come across them.  Plus some cam programs can actually capture movies - hopefully you thought of that as well. 

Unless of course you want to put a mask on her, and let her feel the humilation of being so exposed while not actually jeopardizing her anonymity.

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RE: Public exposure/punishment via the internet? - 11/29/2006 10:53:55 AM   
MagiksSlave


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quote:

ORIGINAL: AquaticSub

I want to be a teacher and work with children someday. There will no humiliating pictures of me on the internet. If that happens, my dominant will find himself lacking a submissive. There are very few things that would cause me to leave the man I've given my complete submission to. That would be one of them because it would mean he didn't care about my dreams and put everything I want for myself at risk. It would also put our potential children at risk. I don't believe the child services looks well upon mothers who can be found naked and humilated on the internet and I'm not willing to risk it.

Now, it does work well for others. Other submissives and slaves seem to thrive on it. But it certainly wouldn't work for me.


I was about to say the same exact thing.. Iv worked to long and hard in school I want to be able to teach (first grade) yeah pics afiliating me with this would not happen!!

Magik's slave

< Message edited by MagiksSlave -- 11/29/2006 10:56:16 AM >

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