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RE: Honesty - 11/19/2006 10:10:14 PM

champagnewishes

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ORIGINAL: meatcleaver

General point.

People create strategies to mate with the one they think is right for them, whether they are conscious of them or not and a little lying isn't going to get in the way of people's strategies.

Good point....which brings up the question of a person's motives and their hidden agenda.

A person doesn't have to tell a lie to be lying. Intentional omissions of information can be just as damaging as a lie.

So I really can't answer the question....i would need to know the character of the people involved.

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RE: Honesty - 11/19/2006 11:26:09 PM

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This may sound strange, but honesty is SO MUCH easier than dishonesty. When you are dishonest, you end up spending more energy trying to remember what to say in order not to screw up the last lie. Well, unless you're a pathological liar, and then maybe you've already convinced yourself that the lies you tell are already true.

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RE: Honesty - 11/19/2006 11:34:33 PM

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ORIGINAL: littlesarbonn

This may sound strange, but honesty is SO MUCH easier than dishonesty. When you are dishonest, you end up spending more energy trying to remember what to say in order not to screw up the last lie. Well, unless you're a pathological liar, and then maybe you've already convinced yourself that the lies you tell are already true.

Ahhh...... yes as my dearly departed nan would say "If you are going to be a liar, have a damned good memory".

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