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pattiann -> The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:14:17 PM)
Please, anyone...Have you heard usage of the word "joi" as a name or term for a sub? I was introduced to someone and was told she was "joi" and I assumed it was her name. Now I am being told that it is a generic term for a submissive. The only reference I can find is to a dominant. Was I lied to?

Arpig -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:17:05 PM)
You got me, but then again I am an old fart and am likely behind the times

MagiksSlave -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:21:55 PM)
I have never heard of the term at all neather in referance to Dom or sub.... but you have sparked my curiosity (Ok so that isnt so very hard to do LOL) Magik's ever curiouse slave

BitaTruble -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:22:38 PM)
No idea. Is it French? Celeste

CandleInTheWind -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:28:13 PM)
"No idea. Is it French?" ooooh french I like anything french....

Lordandmaster -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:29:01 PM)
No, "joi" is not a French word. ("Joie" would mean "joy.") I have no idea what it's supposed to mean. I just Googled it, and all I got was "Jupiter Orbit Insertion." I have a feeling that's not what she meant.

MagiksSlave -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:32:02 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster No, "joi" is not a French word. ("Joie" would mean "joy.") I have no idea what it's supposed to mean. I just Googled it, and all I got was "Jupiter Orbit Insertion." I have a feeling that's not what she meant. I just got back from google too!!! and Nothing!! I did get sent to some Asian sites though.. they were confusting and un helpfull :( Magik's confused slave

joyinslavery -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/16/2006 10:32:44 PM)
Joi(e) de Vie? Hell, I dunno. Edited due to confusion.

Padriag -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 4:33:41 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: pattiann Was I lied to? Certainly looks like someone was pulling your leg.

LeatherBentOne -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 4:52:57 AM)
Could she have meant "boi?" The lesbian leather folks use the term "boi" for a butch submissive.

Caitriona -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 5:08:39 AM)
This is a new term for me as well. Perhaps you might ask that person if you get the chance? I'd definately be interested to know.

MstrssPassion -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 5:11:49 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Lordandmaster No, "joi" is not a French word. ("Joie" would mean "joy.") I have no idea what it's supposed to mean. I just Googled it, and all I got was "Jupiter Orbit Insertion." I have a feeling that's not what she meant. Or maybe, it is pretty dead on because it appears that this individual is orbiting out there somewhere around Jupiter. If someone is gonna start making up new terms in an already muddled up realm of misunderstood &/or distorted meanings then they most likely have rather lofty ideas of themselves. I did a few more google searches & found "joie de vivre" most often spelled incorrectly with "joi" & in it's incorrect form it is linked to mentions of the word submissive. If it is a newly created term for some type of specialized sub it is another internet creation just starting to pop up.

Padriag -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 5:15:57 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LeatherBentOne Could she have meant "boi?" The lesbian leather folks use the term "boi" for a butch submissive. Now that seems like a likely possibility.

LordODiscipline -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 5:25:46 AM)
*Never heard it used.* ~J quote: ORIGINAL: pattiann Please, anyone...Have you heard usage of the word "joi" as a name or term for a sub? I was introduced to someone and was told she was "joi" and I assumed it was her name. Now I am being told that it is a generic term for a submissive. The only reference I can find is to a dominant. Was I lied to?

onlythewindknows -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 5:30:28 AM)
maybe its an acronym

pattiann -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 6:29:41 AM)
Well, you all have pretty much let me know that, Yes, I was lied to...again. The person that was chatting with me, referred to a close friend submissive friend, as 'joi'. Had the submissive IM me to chat, and more or less give him a reference. A good one, I might add. Three weeks further into our online 'relationship', I referred to 'Joi" and he was confused. When I asked to whom was it that I chatted with, he said that 'joi' is a generic D's term given to a submissive that "won't commit and carries her master on her sleeve". No just what the hell does that mean? (purely rhetorical) Methinks...I've been had. Imagine that? Lied to on the internet. LOL

MstrssPassion -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 6:29:48 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Padriag quote: ORIGINAL: LeatherBentOne Could she have meant "boi?" The lesbian leather folks use the term "boi" for a butch submissive. Now that seems like a likely possibility. Even this term has taken on new form... From my earliest recollection the word boi was used by women who are male identifying. Now it seems that more genetic men use it than the male-identifying women do... [sm=rolleyes.gif]

windchymes -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 6:30:19 AM)
I've heard about the "boi" and "Syr" terms for butch lesbians (that sounds so derogatory....really not meant to be!)....switching the vowels for females assuming masculinity (which is a weird way to say that, too). Anyway....maybe her real name is Joy, and is she's taking a butch submissive role (God, I hate these terms! lol) she's spelling it "joi"? Just a theory. Edited to add: Okay, this posted after pattiann's last post.....thanks for letting us know, pattiann! [:)] (Sounds like another new term for "wanna-be" or "gamer", bestowed by the rejected one!)

MstrssPassion -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 6:31:40 AM)
hmmm... online references?

KatyLied -> RE: The term "joi' in regards to a submissive (11/17/2006 6:38:15 AM)
Maybe it's Gore?

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