Hello to every one here. 
All I can say is, I was introduced to collarme for a very different reason, and found myself becoming very excited the more I read.  So here I am, slowly stepping out into what my fantasies have been for a very long time. 
Slowly being the key word here.  Fantasy to realty is a very large leap for me.  So here's to learning more about BDSM, and having the courage to explore.